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why does he always bring up his ex when we talk?
this is obviously bothering you. so i think you should just be honest and tell him. i dont know how long have you two been dating but he might not be over his ex yet. so you just need to tell him that he needs to stop mentioning her that much because it makes you feel like he's still not over her and that upsets you. and tell him to put him self in your position and tell you what he would feel if you talk so much about your ex. i think he will get it then. good luck :)
I have brown hair (to the darker side), green eyes, and I'm very light-skinned. What color would look best on me for prom?
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2-http://www.google.com.eg/imgres?imgurl=http://blog.timesunion.com/kristi/files/2009/10/asos-prom-dress.jpg&imgrefurl=http://blog.timesunion.com/kristi/18354/final-cinderella-project-dress-drive/&usg=__c8d8OhrdLMut9pxPq0wU5bo3t6M=&h=370&w=290&sz=41&hl=en&start=165&zoom=1&tbnid=X5f3bg98bjXIsM:&tbnh=144&tbnw=109&ei=9MpBTbHFJIS3hAeIoemzAQ&prev=/images%3Fq%3Dprom%2Bdresses%26um%3D1%26hl%3Den%26sa%3DN%26biw%3D1366%26bih%3D611%26tbs%3Disch:1&um=1&itbs=1&iact=hc&vpx=1060&vpy=206&dur=1268&hovh=254&hovw=199&tx=80&ty=120&oei=gspBTZykGIuIhQfy_ZC7AQ&esq=7&page=7&ndsp=29&ved=1t:429,r:8,s:165
or red or purple, or black "it works with all".
I am in one of the best relationships I have ever been in. I am 43 yrs old and finally found the one guys that i have so much in common with. He makes me laugh, we talk about anything, the * is great. He is truly my prince. But he has a lot or baggage. Huge baggage. He has 3 kids and he is the sole provider of these kids. He has 2 twin boys that are only 5 and one 12 yr old. The twins were born as premies and they have all sorts of health issues, along with ADHD and the mother was on crack when she had them. His 12 yr old is ADHD and a introvert. Me and this guy have been dating for a yr. He so desperately wants me to move in and get married. I have a son 22 and a daughter 9. I simply do not want to start over raising kids. And I feel kinda weird with the thought of my daughter growing up in a house with these many boys. I have plenty of baby sitters so everytime I see this guys (mostly weekends) I don't have my daughter. Its much harder for him. He is trying to blend the family. I keep telling him I don't want that. I am not equipped to take this on, but it so hard for me to just walk away. I have not spend any time with his kids and that is ok with him, but not with me. I feel like he is living this fantasy life when were together. I am honest with him and tell him all the time. Stop getting serious, I do not want to be anyones step mom. I think it's more the health issues. They stay sick and in the hospital. I want to support him and love him but this is more then I can handle. I think I just scarred of being alone. Not to many people are knocking down the door to take out 43 yr old women these day. I have been divorced for 5 yrs therfore I have gotten a chance to know myself. I am very good with kids, but after a while I need my peace and space. I am wondering should I just walk away? I think i know the answer but sometimes it good to hear it from others.
its a good thing your honest and your judgment is not clouded by love. i think you are looking at this a very logical way. i know some people might tell you if you love him enough you will not mind all this. but to tell you the truth i don't think that love is enough in such cases. i myself am a logical person and i would think the way you are thinking. in addition, you have responsibility towards your kids first, specially your daughter. i think you should consider letting this one go if you even have one percent doubt about you being able to take own other responsibilities specially "health ones". i think your fair, and honest about it all, and you shouldn't doubt your decision. you can even make this easier by imagining your life if you merged the two families, and ask your self, is the happy times more than the sad complicated ones? however, there is another side to this, if you choose to merge the families and really truly be a good mum to his kids you will be doing a really good thing. but you have to be sure and honest if your up to it or not.
Awkward question but my stomach is killing me. Yes I'm on my period. Any suggestions on how to feel better.... SOON
well, i discovered a medicine called "catafast" its not pills its a packet with a white powder medicine that you empty in water and drink. it instantly relieves the pain. but i dont know if its sold in all countries, so you'll have to check. it has side effects like all medications but I've never experienced any. so i'd say if you use it ask your doctor first just in case. other wise, another way to get rid of the pain but takes longer the the meds, it to fill like a sack with warm water and put it on your stomach and the areas that hurt that works best when your sleeping, it might work with you. hope that helped a bit.
What is the difference and how on earth do I make it go away faster????
they are both the same thing, small, painful, fluid-filled blisters or sores that appear on the lips, mouth, or nose that are caused by a virus.
here is a website that would help for more information: http://www.emedicinehealth.com/cold_sores/article_em.htm
what works with me is to constantly put ice on it, and to use a cream called "Zovirax". and dont worry it goes away in about 7 days and heals completely. just dont touch it because its contagious and can spread to other parts of the body (eyes,nose,lips,sex organs) and always wash your hands and be sure not to touch your eyes if you didn't because its very dangerous when you get it in your eyes. other wise its easy to deal with. and if you dont want to get it again or at least decrease the chances, here are the causes: stress, fever, cold, immune system problems... etc... mainly. hope that helped abit. and here is a link for the medication cream you can read about it more here: http://www.netdoctor.co.uk/medicines/100003323.html.
ok me n my girlfriend say i love you and all that but wat do u say right after that....i mean after i love you too and wat could i say besides just i ove you too just so it doesnt seem routine ...and if u have any other romantic tips or anything like that id appreciate it ... age 14 male
well you can say the things you feel it doesnt have to a homework that makes you worried, it really should come naturally.
like thinking about you, i miss you...etc.. all these dont mean a thing if it isnt from the heart. so really i think whatever you say if its from the heart it will get to her.
keeps me up all night when i have to wake up for work at 4:00 in the moring
women are different from men. we cant sleep when were upset or when we have a fight with someone we love. i will tell you whats going on her head "i wont sleep till this fight ends". so shes really not trying to punish you by keeping you up all night or anything. she's just trying to make up before you guys sleep because she hates it. and usually we dont need much words to make up there is a long way which will keep you up all night and there is a short way which you should either tell her your sorry and that you'll find a time to discuss this more but really not now because your getting up early and then kiss a passionate kiss even if she refuses (we like to act like we dont care and we dont want it but we always do even if we're upset). and then am sure she'll let you sleep but you will have to find a time in your busy schedule to talk to her about that fight again and resolve it other wise she wont believe you and she would think that night time is the only time you cant go anywhere and will have to give her attention cuz you want to end it fast to sleep. thats woman. you have to give in every now and then.
Okay today is friday.. Sunday I was very nauses, Monday Nauses with a headache that night I threw up and started having terible stumoch pain, Tuesday I started terrible diareha several times a day and its just like water. I had to call off work that day, I have been having this problem all week and it doesnt seem to get any better at all i have cramps with it and stumoch pain. My stumoch also makes funny noises and i have a lot of gas. I know this it gross but I need some advice its noon and ive been in the bath room 7 times
i'd probably say you have food poisoning, and thats how your body is getting rid of it and explains the gas. so you should see a doctor get meds for it. and dont eat heavy food for a while till you get rid of all the bad one in you stomach. hope that helps
hey guys.
SO, today! i had an audition workshop! i was MEGA nervous. ive been wanting to act all my life,, and finally started doing something about it. BUT when i walked in everyone was 20...25...30.. and im 16! so it was a little intimidating. and so was my teacher!! he didnt really explain well.. basically he wasnt that good. i didnt really enjoy my time there. i felt like it was making me feel literally sick the whole time and i just wanted to go home. being there just made me feel dumb. they say mondays and wednesdays 6 to 9 we have to be there and just proceed with the lesson. I DONT KNOW if i should go? ive always wanted to act..but that i didnt like.. i dont know what to do, it was really bad for me. i felt useless being there..
i think you should go. its a good experience, it will make you more confident, which acting i think is really all about. if you really want to act, this is a good chance that i think you shouldnt miss. and i am sure that a couple of more workshops you'll loosen up and be more comfortable. its always scary when you somewhere for the first time specially if you dont know anyone. but i think you should give it a try, and forget about everyone else. i really dont think age has anything to do with talent. they might be older but talent doesnt come with older age its something in you. you can be better than any of them because you have the talent and you love what you do and your willing to take chances like that. and honestly i think you can also learn from them for the future. so please go and be brave dont be intimidated you can do it ! and trust me the feeling will go evenually :D and you might make some new friends as well as learn!
I've never had salmon but I LOVEEEEE sea food. Does it taste like a certain something? I'm just iffy about trying it and I would like to know how others feel about it!
well it depends on how its cooked but i am not that big on sea food and i still like salmon, its nice hot and cold. it has a delicate creamy and soft taste. you should try it. i think if you loooovveee sea food u'll love salmon. :D i certainly want some now that u've mentioned it. hehehe. enjoy!!!
and you really cant compare it to any taste its kinda unique.
Im nineteen female and i was lookin on google, and it said if your cooter smelled on the inside you have an infection. I stuck my finger in me, and it smells like pure soap? Why is this?
------> I just got out of the bath; does that mean I didn't get it all the way out? What happens if it's left in there??
well you shouldnt be washing there with normal soap cuz soap will kill all sort of bacteria and in this particular area there is good and bad bacteria and you need the good ones. so when you use normal soap you kill it all. there are certain products that are created specially for such sensitive areas
for example this product: http://www.summerseve.com/Feminine-Wash.php
or these: http://www.zuckermanpharmacy.com/pharmacy.cfm/hurl/personal/FEMININEHYGIENE/FeminineCleansingProducts
but to answer your question, no nothing will happen to you, it will eventually get out on its own, so dont worry about it.
Im 18/f and I'm 5'1, 172 lbs.
Yesterday I noticed that my Vagina had a BO odor to it. I don't know why it smells like that, maybe because Im over-weight? Its done this a couple of times before, but not as bad as this time. I took a bath yesterday, and than put on some leggins with no underwear to wear with a shirt of mine; I took a bath this morning as well, and so far no smell.
Im just nervous because what if my boyfriend goes down on me, and it smells like that and it turns him off? Any ideas on what to do to cure the smell?
*And it doesn't smell like its coming directly from my vagina. It smells like its the crease between my legs and vagina?
here are some steps that are useful and would probably help alot. :) hope it helps
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Watch your diet. Cut out or reduce foods and drinks that add to the problem such as mushrooms, bread, sugary foods, beer and coffee, which can increase the amount of yeast in your vagina. Just making these nutritional changes can make a difference.
2
Mix 6-ounces of purified water with 2 drops of tea tree oil and apply it to the vaginal area. Since tea tree oil is anti-fungal and antibacterial in nature, it can help to get rid of the bacteria that contributes to your feminine odor.
3
Insert a tampon that has been dipped into plain, unsweetened yogurt into your vagina to address the odor. The healthy bacteria in yogurt should help to fight the unhealthy bacteria, prevent it from worsening and help eliminate the fishy, unpleasant odor. Do not use yogurt that is flavored or that contains sugar, because this will only worsen your condition. After removing the tampon, remember to wash your vagina thoroughly.
4
Give up the fancy panties. Those satin underwear may look pretty, but they could be exacerbating your condition. Replace them with cotton panties. Additionally, wearing a pantyliner should help improve the situation.
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Stay away from scented soaps and body washes, as they will likely worsen the problem. Opt for a plain, unscented soap that won't increase the discharge that produces vaginal odor.
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Ingest 1 tbsp. of liquid chlorophyll in an 8-ounce glass of water twice a day or as directed by the product you choose to use. Chlorophyll, derived from green plants, is an internal deodorizer. Don't be alarmed if your tongue turns a blackish hue or your urine and feces turn green when taking chlorophyll as these are common, harmless side-effects.
Check with your doctor before taking chlorophyll, if you are on any prescription medication or are being treated for a serious medical condition.
Read more: How to Get Rid of Vaginal Odor Naturally | eHow.com http://www.ehow.com/how_4778745_rid-vaginal-odor-naturally.html#ixzz1AfQN0ohE
and there is a a product that you can use to wash with its good here is the link: http://www.summerseve.com/Feminine-Wash.php
How to solve dogs to shit floor in house
you need to train your dog. there are several books and online tutorials for that. you should check them out. plus it depends on the age of the dog, there are different methods for puppies and adult dogs. if its a puppy here is a quick site with how to potty train your puppy info: http://www.dogchatforum.com/toilet-training-puppy.htm
here is a site that you can find several info and tips and you can even ask questions about your dog and a vet will answer. that might be helpful in the future http://www.petplace.com/
hope that helped:D
My mother and father have been divored for about 7 years and seperated for 9. My mom refuses to talk, speak, see or even be in the same room as my dad. My dad has since remarried by the way. It makes everything very difficult for my children and my sisters. My sister is having a baby and my mom refuses to come to the birth if my dad is even going to be in town. My sister is having an emotional time with it plus just being pregnant. Whats the best way for us to tell her its not ok that she's doing this and making all of walk on eggshells. It's an emotional roller coaster for her children and grandchildren.
tell your mum that this birth is all about your sister not her and that she should respect what your sister wants. and your sister wants her parents there for her.. both of them... tell her that in occasions like these they must put their differences aside and be their for their daughter because she needs them both. and anyways she would be too worried about her daughter and too happy with that shes a grandma looking at the baby, that she would totally forget that your dad is here and she really doesnt want to miss an occasion like that. and she'd be really selfish if she refused to come to an important day like that.
I'm filling out job applications and turning in resumes and I realized that I don't really want to put down one place I worked at. I worked there for a few months but I didn't like the job and it's a place around here that everybody thinks is pretty low (bad employees, bad management, bad everything). I don't want a possible employer to read it and say, "Oh, it's one of those people..." Is it acceptable for me to not include that part of my previous work experience? I feel like it would hold me back from some job opportunities in this area if I put it on my resume. I wouldn't be like lying but I'd just be excluding a part of my past, right? What do you think? I don't want to break some unspoken rule about resume techniques, of course.
i dont think you need to add it if it doesnt benefit you. so no you wont be lying. like for example when i went to the career office at uni. the woman there told me to only add my GPA on the resume if its good. so see i think its the same thing here your resume has to have everything that benefits, it doesnt have to have everything you've done in your life. choose the things that make you look good, its called being smart not lying. :D
Let me first start by giving you a little back ground information. My ex wife became pregnant when she was 20 and I was 19. Even though it was earlier than we both expected to become parents, we were thrilled and so excited to start our family together. We got married shortly after she gave birth to our son Matt. Soon after that, we had another son, and then a daughter. From my perspective, everything was great. That's why I was so blindsided when my wife came to me 9 months after our daughter was born claiming she wasn't ready to settle down and be a mother with divorce papers in her hand. Almost overnight, I became a 23 year old single father with a 4 year old, 2 year old, and a 9 month old. After the divorce was final, I rarely heard from my ex wife. She had begun living a life that I didn't necessarily approve of filled with drugs and alcohol and, while I wanted to keep my children as far away from that as possible, she was their mother and I didn’t feel like I could entirely keep them away from her. The last straw, however, came when I let my daughter, Alyssa, (who was 6 at the time) stay with her when I took my sons on a hunting trip. I was supposed to pick her up at noon the Sunday we got back. I spent the entire afternoon calling my ex wife’s apartment with no answer. At 5 that afternoon, I finally just went over to her house where I found her front door wide open and her passed out on the couch from mixing a few too many drugs with alcohol. Her neighbor came over to the apartment and told me that my ex wife had taken Alyssa out one night and come home completely plastered. Thank god her neighbor had woken up and decided to take Alyssa back to her apartment. And this is just one example of many. After that, I told my ex wide that I didn’t want her to see our kids anymore which devastated her so much she entered rehab. She got clean and for the past ten years has seen the kids a few times despite my hesitance. My kids and I have been living a great life together away from my ex wife. A few years ago I began dating another woman whom I am now engaged too. She gets along great with my kids and is an amazing person who I know will be a good influence on my kids’ lives. My oldest son Matt is now in college, but Colton (my middle son) and Alyssa still live with me. Since I have become engaged, my ex wife has become crazy about spending time with the two of them. She wants them at her house every weekend and doesn’t want my fiancé to parent them at all. She is trying to tell my daughter all kinds of lies about why she left, and how I am a horrible person for trying to keep them from seeing her. She tells her that the entire thing was my fault and all kinds of horrible rumors about my fiancé, who went to high school with my ex wife. She has asked both of my kids to move in with her. Colton told her absolutely not, but Alyssa is confused about the whole situation and doesn’t know what she should do. I have full custody of them so essentially it is my choice about whether or not she can see them. I don’t want to take them away from my ex wife, but I don’t want to lose them myself. I am still worried that she will resort back to her old ways and put my kids in danger like she has their whole lives. Am I right to not let my daughter move in with her mom?
your 100% right! i would do the exact thing if i were you. your ex wife, has to understand that she lost the right to make any decisions for them the minute she walked out on them and she cant change that now. and honestly if what your saying is true about her saying all kind of bad things about you to you kids that just shows how much shes not ready to be a mum yet!.... i think you should keep your kids and all she can get is visits and sleep overs from time to time. and you need to sit with her and explain that she should spend her time learning how to be a good parent rather than filling their heads with lies and confusion. and you need to set some rules here if you want her in your kids lives. you have to make her understand that saying lies like that wont make her kids closer to her it will only make them upset and a good mum wouldnt do that. and tell him that you want her in their lives and no one can replace her shes their mum, and for that reason you are willing to be open to the idea of letting them stay longer periods only if she proved shes worth it and that she really grew up to be reasonable and a better person.
I have a very bad case of aspergers but she is normal and I can't stop thinking about her she is 10 months 10 days 17 hours 37 minutes younger than me. I want to know everything about her and kiss her, marry her, etc... Oh yea she knows about myy dissabiliy. So on to my questions.
a) Is it normal that I can't stop thinking of her.
b) Do I have a chance, she says we are just friends, but we always hang out alone, like every day.
c) Should I kiss her.
D) any other help bout me & her, plz.
I am 13 she is 12, I am a dude, and I livee in Canada.
well.... since she said your just friends, i dont think you should kiss her or any of that. and yes i think you do have a chance. i think you should continue being a really good friend like you are, and believe me she will notice you when shes ready all you need to do is be there when she does. you like her too much to risk ruining your relationship and i am afraid if you try to kiss her thats what will happen. ans shes 12 and your 13, you're both too young to take a big step like that. am 22 and a girl, i am tell you if am in her place and 12 yrs old i would want a friend like you around my whole life so please be patient give it a couple of more years if its meant to be it will happen but dont rush it, its too soon for that. and its normal to think about her, shes your best friend and you care about her dont you. so just give it time. thats all. :)
Okay, well I am a sophomore in highschool and there is this junior or senior(i'm not too sure) that I liked. We do not have any classes together except for lunch and band. Band is four times a week. From the starting of the year we both used to stare at each other when we see each other in the hallways. When we look at eachother we would quickly look away and we would do that a lot. When he played his instrument in band he tried to impress me when playing. That happened a couple of times. I really wanted to talk to him, but since i am shy i really couldn't. After a while I stopped looking at him because i thought he didn't like me at all. Twice when he saw me he would turn around ad start walking the other was. Once he saw me (i think) and said "fuc**** sophomore) He talks to everyone else but me even the people in my grade. My locker is near to one of my aquaintances and he complimented her once also my locker is next to another one of my aquiantances and he started talking to her at the end of the day. It was my birthday before winter break and my friends told him to say happy birthday to me and he stared at me blankly. I slowly turned around and resumed to what I was doing then he walked away and mumbled "happy birthday". A day later he was talking to his friend and he was saying someting about chickening out. I passed him in the hallway alone and he sighed...so does he hate me?
wow... well listen i dont think he hates you. i think he likes you but you know at a certain age some guys act and behave in a weird way (a real teenager) loll... so i think hes confused he doesnt know how to approach you and thats how hes dealing with it. but honestly i think you should just act normal and dont really think about it too much. when hes man enough to stop acting like that and admit it to him self that he might like you he'll just come forward. you really dont want to do anything yourself. ..... you know remember when we were kids and the boys used to come a push you or pull your hair and it turned out that they did that cause they liked you :D heheh i think thats a similar situation although hes just a couple of years behind. loll..... let him get over his immaturity and dont think about it at all. enjoy your life and act normal. and be nice to everyone even him that would be so unexpected that hed be surprised and dont know what to do! try that would be really fun. hehehee like start saying hi to him and bye, even be nice when hes mean. he will be confused and i am sure he will stop being annoying like that. after all you cant treat someone mean when they are always so nice to you :D see reverse psychology works every time :D
How do I get rid of my hotmail account virus without changing my hotmail address and losing all my contacts???
it depends on the type of virus you got.
but if the virus is the one that sends emails to anyone in your contact list all you need to do is empty your junk mail and change your password. that worked for me when i got this virus.
if that doesnt work here is a link to someone asking the same question and another one giving a good answer with steps so it might work.
http://www.computing.net/answers/security/hotmail-account-virus/23719.html
and i found another link with other steps/method. this might be easier
http://www.ehow.com/how_5898499_rid-hotmail-virus.html
Hello my wedding ring is 10K white gold and it recently just started irritating my finger. It's all red and really itchy. I work in a kitchen so of course i help with dishes and i recently started doing this about 2 months ago but just developed the irritation about 2 weeks ago. I was wondering if maybe im allergic to the chemical in the dish water/sanitizer? I started wearing my ring around my neck and tried staying away from dishes but my finger doesn't look any better. I've tried putting lots of lotion on it but still no results. Any suggestions? I also tried wearing my ring on another finger and no break outs have started. Thanks for the help everyone!
your should see a skin doctor. i think maybe the gold reacted with the chemicals (sanitizers). or maybe you're starting to get allergic to the chemicals in the sanitizers either way you need to see a doctor and wear a glove while doing the dishes in any case. i saw a similar situation and the doctor said that she should get any chemicals on it no even soap. so since you cant do that you need to wear a glove. here is a link you can see the glove that you need to wear http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Medical_glove
and here is site that talks about rashes from gold wedding rings you might want to look at this, it also has pictures so you can see if this is whats happening to you or not at least it will tell you if its the ring or the sanitizer: http://www.medicinenet.com/script/main/art.asp?articlekey=107570
and as for the dish washing liquid/ sanitizer:
DISHWASHING LIQUIDS, AUTOMATIC: Usually contain bleaching agents, artificial dyes (see “DYES”), ethyl alcohol, and artificial fragrances (see “FRAGRANCES”). Undiluted, may act as a strong skin irritant. If swallowed, may burn your throat. In those products containing bleaching agents, chloramine gas may be created whose fumes may cause swelling and tearing of eyes or even faintness. Over a prolonged period of time these fumes may cause headaches, lung irritation, nausea, and depression. In extreme cases, prolonged exposure may even cause coma and possibly, death! Label precautions read “WARNING!”
simply start wearing a glove, go to the doctor to get a cream for the irritation and dont wear you wedding ring for awhile till it heals.
hope that helped abit.