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I have aspergers (a really bad case, every smtyem) she's normal. Plz Help
I have a very bad case of aspergers but she is normal and I can't stop thinking about her she is 10 months 10 days 17 hours 37 minutes younger than me. I want to know everything about her and kiss her, marry her, etc... Oh yea she knows about myy dissabiliy. So on to my questions.
a) Is it normal that I can't stop thinking of her.
b) Do I have a chance, she says we are just friends, but we always hang out alone, like every day.
c) Should I kiss her.
D) any other help bout me & her, plz.
I am 13 she is 12, I am a dude, and I livee in Canada.
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i have a sister with aspergers. she has trouble with the opposite sex, as well.
yes, its completely normal that you can't stop thinking about her. thats how crushes work :)
you may have a chance, you may not. i'm not the one to tell you that.
you should not kiss her. you're just friends. even if the urge is strong, you must fight it. maybe next time you two are alone and you both are having a good time, try to hold her hand. if she pulls away, don't say anything more about it. even if she lets you hold her hand, don't lean in for a kiss. that may surprise her.
you both are still very young. this is not love, by any means. its just a crush. you'll meet plenty of other girls in your lifetime, believe me. as i said before, my sister has aspergers. she had a crush on this boy that didn't like her back and it upset her for a while. she eventually got over it. i'm not saying that you and this girl won't be boyfriend and girlfriend, i don't know if you will or not. but if things don't work out, its definitely not the end of the world. trust me.
take care :)
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well.... since she said your just friends, i dont think you should kiss her or any of that. and yes i think you do have a chance. i think you should continue being a really good friend like you are, and believe me she will notice you when shes ready all you need to do is be there when she does. you like her too much to risk ruining your relationship and i am afraid if you try to kiss her thats what will happen. ans shes 12 and your 13, you're both too young to take a big step like that. am 22 and a girl, i am tell you if am in her place and 12 yrs old i would want a friend like you around my whole life so please be patient give it a couple of more years if its meant to be it will happen but dont rush it, its too soon for that. and its normal to think about her, shes your best friend and you care about her dont you. so just give it time. thats all. :)
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