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Does he hate me?
Okay, well I am a sophomore in highschool and there is this junior or senior(i'm not too sure) that I liked. We do not have any classes together except for lunch and band. Band is four times a week. From the starting of the year we both used to stare at each other when we see each other in the hallways. When we look at eachother we would quickly look away and we would do that a lot. When he played his instrument in band he tried to impress me when playing. That happened a couple of times. I really wanted to talk to him, but since i am shy i really couldn't. After a while I stopped looking at him because i thought he didn't like me at all. Twice when he saw me he would turn around ad start walking the other was. Once he saw me (i think) and said "fuc**** sophomore) He talks to everyone else but me even the people in my grade. My locker is near to one of my aquaintances and he complimented her once also my locker is next to another one of my aquiantances and he started talking to her at the end of the day. It was my birthday before winter break and my friends told him to say happy birthday to me and he stared at me blankly. I slowly turned around and resumed to what I was doing then he walked away and mumbled "happy birthday". A day later he was talking to his friend and he was saying someting about chickening out. I passed him in the hallway alone and he sighed...so does he hate me?
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wow... well listen i dont think he hates you. i think he likes you but you know at a certain age some guys act and behave in a weird way (a real teenager) loll... so i think hes confused he doesnt know how to approach you and thats how hes dealing with it. but honestly i think you should just act normal and dont really think about it too much. when hes man enough to stop acting like that and admit it to him self that he might like you he'll just come forward. you really dont want to do anything yourself. ..... you know remember when we were kids and the boys used to come a push you or pull your hair and it turned out that they did that cause they liked you :D heheh i think thats a similar situation although hes just a couple of years behind. loll..... let him get over his immaturity and dont think about it at all. enjoy your life and act normal. and be nice to everyone even him that would be so unexpected that hed be surprised and dont know what to do! try that would be really fun. hehehee like start saying hi to him and bye, even be nice when hes mean. he will be confused and i am sure he will stop being annoying like that. after all you cant treat someone mean when they are always so nice to you :D see reverse psychology works every time :D
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sweetie he does hate you . in his mind you might think you dont like him because you never tried to get at him and never talk to him. some guys hate waiting and they move and he might be noticing you again so say something dont be so shy hun : ]
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This sounds like he does like you at least a little bit. The easiest way to get him to talk to you, is to talk to him. It might be hard because you're shy but it will ultimately work out in the long run, just talk to him directly about absolutely anything ask him about himself and compliment him on his playing after band or anything that you feel might deserves complimenting. Just be straightforward and talk to him, he's probably also shy (just specific to girls he likes.)
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