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me and my wife fight all the time
keeps me up all night when i have to wake up for work at 4:00 in the moring
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women are different from men. we cant sleep when were upset or when we have a fight with someone we love. i will tell you whats going on her head "i wont sleep till this fight ends". so shes really not trying to punish you by keeping you up all night or anything. she's just trying to make up before you guys sleep because she hates it. and usually we dont need much words to make up there is a long way which will keep you up all night and there is a short way which you should either tell her your sorry and that you'll find a time to discuss this more but really not now because your getting up early and then kiss a passionate kiss even if she refuses (we like to act like we dont care and we dont want it but we always do even if we're upset). and then am sure she'll let you sleep but you will have to find a time in your busy schedule to talk to her about that fight again and resolve it other wise she wont believe you and she would think that night time is the only time you cant go anywhere and will have to give her attention cuz you want to end it fast to sleep. thats woman. you have to give in every now and then.
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Its terrible to go to sleep before making up with wife maybe counsling will help the two of you if you two really want to work on your marriage you cant keep being miserable and going with out sleep. My husband and I fight a lot as well and we are working as hard as we can to work our marriage out with out seeking professional help which he does not want. i think it would be best in your situation.
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The best thing is as soon as you can feel a fight coming on, is to walk away. Tell her we'll talk about it later when we're both calmer and can think rationally. If she keeps following you, just tell her "fine, you win...I need to get some rest" and let it go. Hope this helps and good luck.
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