So since i'm in Middle School , my friends talk about sex and i am so fed up with it , so one day my friend mary came over and since my mom and dad were gone i thought i would watch a scary movie with her , so after the movie ended we were bored so she said do i want to try something and i said yes . In a couple of minutes i had her on my stomach and she was going up and down until i just came and next thing we were doing anal sex but out of nowhere she started crying and said she loved me but im not ready
Additional info, added Tuesday January 4 2011, 11:54 pm: she is very hot but she doesnt show emotion , so when my friends saw her talking and hugging me they got suspicious , if you can , help with that to. Want to answer more questions in the Sexual Health and Reproduction category? Maybe give some free advice about: General Sex Questions? julie75 answered Wednesday January 5 2011, 1:27 pm: She probably doesn't show much emotion because her life outside of school is probably a mess. She sounds like she needs some stability in your life and she thought if she gave you sex you would be able to give that to her. The best thing you can do is be her friend and hang out with her but avoid any times when there's no parents around. If she brings up the sex subject again let her know you respect her more than just to use her for sex and even though you enjoyed the first time, you want to wait. Hope this helps and good luck. [ julie75's advice column | Ask julie75 A Question ]
newkidd answered Wednesday January 5 2011, 7:20 am: iloveaar - i do love her and shes the only girl i will love because i feel close to her , but i dont like seeing her cry because she cried when we were little because she lost my toy and was scared i would hit her , it makes me angry if anyone upsets her , and she hugs me and says "im glad i found you" alot [ newkidd's advice column | Ask newkidd A Question ]
iloveaar answered Wednesday January 5 2011, 1:14 am: if you do not have feelings for her u shouldnt be getting physical with her cause it sends her the wrong message, as a girl i can say that sometimes we try to make the guy like us and you by responding to whatever she did bj and anal sex might've given her the wrong idea that you might be into her but then she might've been crying cause she felt kinda 'used' even if that wasn't ur intention but she must've been confused wondering like 'did we just did this because he feels something for me or just because i agree on it ?' trust me girls go crazy over that kind of stuff and she might've not realised on time hence why she started crying and telling you the truth, also this might be an attempt for her to make you not get the wrong idea that she just did that with you cause she's a slut or whatever, more like , hey this happened because i love you dont get the wrong idea about me,
but thats just my guess , this sounds like she was trying to make a move on you but tbh sex and bj wasn't the answer cause tbh most guys just answer to this kind of things, but that doesnt mean they feel something for the girl, if you do not have feelings for her , dont agree on doing stuff with her like this, treat her as a friend if thats all she is to you.
IF you do have feelings for her but you're just not ready to jump into something, take it slow, tell her that you like her aswell (if thats the case) and try to date her not just get this kind of 'benefits' from her , that's the right thing to do for her.
if you do not have feelings for her and if she asks like then why you agree on that, apologise to her and explain that you care more about her friendship or something that makes her get the idea that ure not interested without being mean and without saying ' hey im not into you but i used you for a bj and sex' cause that's like one of the worst things for a girl to get from a guy they love [ iloveaar's advice column | Ask iloveaar A Question ]
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