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I regret having oral sex with a guy at a party; how do I get over it?
I went to this past on New Years and was having a good time. This cute guy was talking to me and we were flirting. At one point we were making out and he kept pushing me for more. I kept telling him no and that I just wanted to have a good time, no sex involved. I don't know where things went wrong. All of a sudden I found myself agreeing to give him a blow job. Everything was moving so fast and by the end of it, I felt horrible. It's not what I really wanted to happen. I mean, he was nice and everything but that wasn't me, who I am as a person.
Now I feel really guilty and depressed over it. I don't even know the guy's last name. He was practically just a stranger who was being nice to me at a party. I can't believe I did that with him. How do I get over this and feel not so bad about myself? It was a mistake.
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everyone makes the mistake the only thing you can do is learn from it and basically it happend in the past when you make a mistake the best thing you can do is turn the negitives into positives and then move on the more you dwell on it the more depressed over it u will become and that is not good. Just write off as something everyone has done we all mistakes as we are all not perfect so please i hope this has helped you
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Unfortunately this is this the first of many mistakes that you will regret in your life. The key is to learn from them and not repet them. I'm sure you were looking for approval from this guy and you let him smooth talk you into doing things you normally wouldn't. Don't beat yourself up over a simple mistake. Your human, it's ok to mess up. Hope this helps and good luck.
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It happens to the best of us haha. Sometimes, things like that just happen. I don't know if you had had any drinks, but even if you didn't, there are certain holidays and events that just get people acting in ways that they wouldn't normally act. The way you can think of it is that it is already a new year. It's in the past and there isn't really much you can do about it now. Unless you have his number, I mean you could let him know through the phone or through a letter that you just wanted to make it clear because you felt guilty about it. If you don't, you're only solution is to forgive yourself. Maybe write a letter to yourself as a release. That always helps me. I hope you feel better. I know that sometimes these things happen but you're really not a slut or anything of that sort.
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Hey,
You just acknowledged that you were wrong, you know your mistake and hopefully, you won't let it happen again. I believe the most difficult step is over. The girl at the party *was* you, and you left her right there. This is you now - ready to move on. Focus on the things that make you who you are. It's not easy for everyone to hear "give it time", and words are just words sometimes. But in time, you'll look back at that night and have a good laugh. It's a new year, new goals. Don't be so hard on yourself - sometimes the best way to learn is to make mistakes. Now go and do something you're so passionate about and brag about it! =) Feel better.
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