Hi, i saw one of your responses to another lady's questions so i think asking you would help me. So I just got married a couple weeks ago but my husband is in the army so we are hardly together now. before he left and joined the army i was more fore it like the sex and stuff, and ever since he left its kinda gone down hill, it makes me feel not good because we are both young and i feel like this stuff shouldnt happen but either and im just wondering what i can do to be more into it and be more fore to the things he wants to like it used to be back then?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Sexual Health and Reproduction category? Maybe give some free advice about: General Sex Questions? julie75 answered Monday January 10 2011, 4:57 pm: It's very difficult to feel romantic when your partners so far away. Just the stress of worrying about his welfare and trying to take care of thingas on your own will lower your sex drive. Try to make time for you. Schedule a relaxing massage at least once a month. If you can't afford one, find a close girlfriend and offer to trade massages. You can have drinks and have a relaxing time away from your problems. I'm not sure if your into porn but it's very healthy to fantasize and have a good orgasm at least 3 times a week. I'm not sure what your home life is now but keeping your mind clear and keeping your spirits up is a key to being happy in bed. If you need any other help, please feel free to ask me. [ julie75's advice column | Ask julie75 A Question ]
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