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My boyfriends wants me to send him a picture of my pussy to his phone. I don't really want to. How can I tell him I'm not going to without making it seem like I don't love him?

You dont have to do anything you dont want to do. Just tell your boyfriend that you dont feel comfortable sending him a picture. If he ends the relatioship he never really loved you. he was in the relationship for other reasons.

hope i helped.
Kim:)

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If ive only had mine for like 4,5 or 6 months and im 13 yrs old ..how many days should my period last.?

it Varies between different girls.

but somewhere between three && seven days.


http://www.askdoctormarla.com/Topics/Puberty/TheMenstrualCycle.htm

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what is wrist banging?

I have never heard of it. But i looked it up && im guessing that this is what your looking for.

http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Wrist+banging


hope i helped.
Kim:)

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i know this is a question that is asked alot, but I'm almost 15 (in October) and my breasts are only about an 28a...

I started puberty (got my period) when I was 12, almost 13. It's been a few years, so do you think my breasts will stay this size?

I've been trying to eat alot, because I'm 5'7 and 110 pounds, and I do sports, so i am kind of skinny. Do you think this is why I don't have bigger breasts?

Alot of people talk about how they had small breasts and suddenly they developed in a matter of months or a year. Is this true, and has this personally happened to someone who was at least my age at that time?

By the way, my breasts have been sore for about the past week... could this be because they're growing?

Thanks so much, and I'm sorry for all these questions.

being 5foot7in. && only weighing 110 is kind of unhealthy because someone your height should weight somewhere around 135.

And im not sure if that stops your breast growth.

my freshman year i was only a B cup. Im going to my senior year && i am DD cup.

Theres no telling if your breats will grow anymore but you dont stop growing till your 20.

If you have any questions about your grow or your height call your family doctor. He can tell you everything you need to know. Thats his job.

hope i helped.
kim:)

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I recently heard that there is birthcontrol for guys i live in Missouri and i was wondering where i could find it...thanks!

I hate how the majority of these people up & call you a loser without even looking for information. They are the losers lol.


I did some research & found a few links.

http://msnbc.msn.com/id/3543478/

http://www.askmen.com/love/dzimmer_100/112_love_answers.html

http://health.howstuffworks.com/male-bc-pill.htm


hope i helped

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hi, i weigh 101 and i'm 5'4 and im a 16 yr old girl. im a ice skater and my coaches think im fat. i am very insecure with my weight and afraid to gain. i have decided that i am going to hardxcore diet but not become anorexic, what would be too skinny for someone my height and age.

gosh your coaches are stupid. a girl 5foot4in. is supposed to weigh around 120. But 101 is very skinny. Theres a chance you may even be underweight but dont listen to your coaches.

hope i helped
kim:)

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Whenever I shave my legs I always get cuts. So I tried using shaving cream but that only irritated them, and now I have little red dots everywhere! So what are some good razors that I can use, that aren't exspensive, to have smooth legs? And nair is out of the question. Thanks in advance.

I use the schick intuition and i love it. I never cut myself. its around $10 at walmart & drugstores.

http://www.schickintuition.com/

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Me and a friend, lets call her Ann, have been friends since kindergarden. But now we never see eachother, hardly talk, and really have nothing in common. Then a week ago we had an agrument, I don't remember how it started, but I said she changed and started caring what the popular people thought and really wanted to be popular. When people started wearing their jackets backwards, she followed. When people started wearing converse, she did. When I told her I was getting an Ipod, she went out and got an mp3 player. She even said she was going to throw a party and make sure she invited some 'popular' people!! Then I asked why she wanted to be popular, they were just rude. She said she had some popular friends and they were nice. But they're not, hello I know them! Now we are not talking and she says I am wrong. So answer this: How can I be wrong if everything I said was true?

Your friend is trying to be someone she is not just to fit in. When she gets to highschool the chances of actually being popular are slim to none. Buying somethin just because Its the "in" thing at that time doesnt make you popular. wearing your jacket backwards died years ago. wearing Converse doesnt make you popular because my entire school would be popular. People that want to become "friends" with the popular people are just doing it for the friends. Being popular doesnt always give you a good status. I think popular people are stuck up. And thats just what i think. One of these days your friend will wake up & realiz that what she is doing is stupid. And if she decides that she wants to become friends with the popular people in middle school & lose you as a friend then let her be seriously. because when she becomes a freshman its a whole different world because not very many freshmen are popular.


Any questions just leave on in my inbox.
kim:)

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hi i'm a 16 years old girl and have never had sex, a boyfriend, or kissed a guy. people tell me all the time that i am pretty and must have a ton of guy friends. i get ridiculously nervous around guys i really like and act like a total dork. what can i do to get guys to like me or to handle my nerves?

here's pics of me lol
http://i8.tinypic.com/24fa8o1.jpg
http://i7.tinypic.com/24fadcy.jpg

Your beautiful. when are around guys act yourself & flirt with them. It gives you more confidence. Guys like girls that have alot of confidence in themselves. Be crazy around guys theres no need to act shy around them.

kim:)

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i'm a 16 year old girl who has never done it or had even had a REAL boyfriend.
is this abnormal?
cause my friends are all off doing it and they think im such a nerd.

If being a virgin makes you a nerd then so be it.
You shouldnt have sex because friends are. Once you lose your virginity its gone.& that guy you gave your virginity is never going to be out of your head.

Your friends are having sex because they think that it makes them cool but really its not. That guy probly wont be around forever.

You should be proud that you are a virgin.

You should wait till you meet a guy that you truly love & the one that you will marry. If you wait till you are married to lose your virginity you know that you gave your virginity to a guy that honestly loves you.

You are not abnormal & noone should make you feel like you are.


hope i helped
kim:)

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you responded to someone saying how you should have sex at the age of..12, 13,1 4, 15, 16, or so on. alright. so when you gonna have it..?? are you gonna stay a virgin your whole life or something..? i dont wanna be mean or anything. but yeah. and plus. just because your family went through a lot after having sex, doesnt mean you have to follow their footsteps. you could still have sex, but just in a safer way. dont let what happend to other people keep you away from doing something you want to. and eeven if you dont want to..stop telling other people all these reasons on why they shouldnt do it, because, there are both pros and cons from having sex. but yet, youre telling everything the cons.

Mk i didnt mean to tell anyone that they shouldnt have sex. But sex isnt supposed to be something that you have with just anyone. You supposed to share it with the person that you love. & Most people at the age of have sex with Their boyfriend. now do you honestly thing at the age of 12 that you love that guy? And that you guys will last forever?

Im not having sex because i dont want to have sex. Just because my cousin are stupid that doesnt mean im jsut as stupid. If i happened to have sex before marriage then i would know to use protection & i know the consequences of having sex. Most 12, 13, 14 , ect.. year olds don't.

That person asked for my stories & if i thought it was right to have sex because people were pressuring her.

younger people should not have sex. If you think different be free to answer that persons question & go ahead and tell her that she can have sex because here friends are having sex & are pressuring her to have sex.



So im sorry that you do not like my answer & But unless it was your question then you really dont need to bother with it.


&& the person rated me a 5 so she liked my advice.

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well... a fat person cant beat me up.. cause ive gotten 3 blackbelts..and #2 i have a slow metablisome..and i know what it is...and your not even smart enough to understand the question nither was anyone else..so back off

What are you talking about.?

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http://viewmorepics.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=viewImage&friendID=44733298&imageID=989868449&MyToken=68409ac4-edd0-4d28-bdce-7d186a54c4c9 Where could I find a head band like the one shes wearing? Where do they sell them what stores? Do they sell them on ebay? Haha, anything would be appreciated.

Your likn is a myspace profile set as private. So if you fix the link or send me the picture i can try & tell you where you can find the headbands.


leave one in my inbox.
kim:)

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Is there really a difficult rope awaiting inside every high school gym? i am horrified of "the rope" I COULD NEVER CLIMB THAT THING!!!

Pretty sure there isnt i have been to three different high school & none of them had a rope. I know my sisters middle school has one. But in high school they test your streght with different exercises & test.


hope i helped
kim:)

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okay so im 13 and im pretty flat chested. KIND OF. is there any type of cream or product that can make make breast bigger like at least 3 or 4 inches bigger?

there is nothing you can do to get bigger boobs at the age of 13. You havent veen started growing there yet & trust me you will probly start growing. i was 14 and had nothing maybe a Acup. Im now 17 and DDcup. So just wait it out.

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My boyfriend is 18, he is out of school, has a GED and a job. I'm 14, in the 9th grade. All of my friends say that he is too old and that I'm "turning into a whore". He says he loves me and that he only wants me to be happy. Hes really sweet and I dont see what the problem is. My mom knows about the age difference, and she really hasnt said if she was ok with it or not. Do you think its ok? Also, I really love him and he says he loves me, is it possible to find your "true love" at 14?

Im in the same situation but im 17 & i like a 26 year old. I dont see anything wrong with really except the illegal part of it. It is very much possible to find love at 14 its just not something that happens to everyone.

im not telling you to leave this guy but i am saying dont let him hurt you. not physically but emotionally. It is not normal when a guy over 18 falls for a 14 year because hes usually in it for the wrong reasons.

Stay with him but be careful

Hope i helped
kim:)


Thank you for the feedback

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Okay on MTV that show making the band 3, danity kane sing this song called Ride 4 U and i really like it but iTunes doesnt have it, do you know if iTunes is getting it anytime soon? I tried google. thanks.

im not completely sure but itunes may not have it till dnaity Kane releases their album On August 22.(i think)

Hope i helped.if not sorry i really dont know anything about itunes.
kimm:)

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I am a 15 yr. old female who has a boy friend. I am going over to his house on sunday. He wants, me to come prepared w/ a list of things to do. Everything has to be at his house And i have no idea what we should do. Please help me out. He is giving me till sat. night to come up w/ a list of things and he said that it better be a good one. Please help me out so that i can impress him. NO SEX!!!!!

Your boyfriend kind of sounds demanding. What is he going to do if you dont make a list? Not let you come over. Its kind of stupid. You shouldnt have to make a list. Thats kind of like what i did in kindergarden When they had the activites schelduled at certain times. I say just go over there & talk. Play video games. go outside. take pictures together. sit under a tree. wrestle.

Idk what else. but dont make a list.

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General question. I would like to hear everyone's thoughts on the true nature of forgiveness:whether forgiveness is possible, or whether it is a man-made delusion. Any concrete examples are much appreciated.

I think forgiveness is very much possible.

You may have people in this world that once you hurt them forget about it. They may live their entire life ignoring you & you may never see or here from them again.

If its something serious like Someone robbing your home and taking everything you own. Then yes you have a reason to neverrr forgive them again.

--my dad had a affair with a woman that he worked with. My mom found out about him having sex with her before he even left her house. I dont know how but she did. My dad got the woman pregnant. But my parents are still married.--

You should forgive but you dont have to forget.

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I have a phobia of food poisoning and throwing up. I've already decided that the next time I throw up or ever get food poisoning, I will kill myself, and if that doesn't work out, I'll be anorexic to prevent food poisoning.

I already have a therapist, but she doesn't help with my phobia's. I've asked my mom to get me one that specializes in phobia's, but she chose this one to helpme with my depression (which I am over) and she won't get me a new one.

It's either give me a way to never throw up or get food poisoning, or I'll end up in a bad situation.

You need to pressure your mom into getting yourself a therapist that specializes in phobias. I am the same way when it comes to throwing up i dont eat for days & even after those couple days i start eatting again but i never the stuff that caused me to throw up.

if your mom will now get you a therapist you need to ask your current therapist to get you one. and im pretty sure she will either get you a number or she'll contant one herself.

Suicide does not solve anything & neither does anorexia. The website i put below will explain that you can get over this & you need too.


http://www.healthyplace.com/Communities/Anxiety/phobias_4.asp


If you have any questions i right here.

Kimm:)

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