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what are good songs to listen to when you're pissed/frusterated. songs like
never again by kelly clarkson
kick me when i'm high by sr-17

stuff like that? no like screamo though

thanks

Call Me When You're Sober by Evanescence
&
Before He Cheats by Carrie Underwood.

Try those. =]

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I have no inspiration to write lyrics for my songs anymore. I used to be able to write and write without even having to think. The words used to flow. However, lately it seems like I have nothing to say. I don't really have any problems in my life to write about, and I'm not in love. Can anyone inspire me? Or tell me how to get inspired? Thank you so much.

Watch the music video to "Concrete Angel" by Martina McBride.
http://youtube.com/watch?v=QDm03Foq2T0

You don't have to be talking about your life. You could refer to someone else's. No matter how far-fetched your lyrics may seem from reality, someone out there is experiencing what you have wrote about, so don't be afraid to cover issues that you think not many people experience. Good luck!

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Hello
I think I have a major problem. You see me and this girl have been friends since we were born. But however since she has gotten older she has the WORST temper problem. She will barge into the room yelling at me becuase she is mad at life because she has 3 siblings at home and I only have 1 but she moved out so I am basiclly the only child.She also has the worst bragging problem... she will brag about EVERYTHING Thats not all though.... she will be so angery becuase I am better fit, and I have more friends.... not trying to sound concieted or anything but it is true... please help
Then lately she yelled at me saying that she would NEVER want to be friends. But 1 day later she wants to be friends again. But I dont think I want to though. please help me

If the relationship is questionable, then you need to drop it. You shouldn't continue on with this "friendship" because this person does not know how to be a friend at this point.

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is this a song? :


How did I get here, turned around
And there you were
I didn't think twice or rationalize
cuz some how I knew there was more than just chemistry
I mean I knew you were kind of into me
But I figured it's too good to be true

Heh. That's from Hannah Montana! The song is called "One in a Million".
Here are the lyrics:

How did I get here, turned around
And there you were
I didn't think twice or rationalize
Cuz somehow I knew
That there was more than just chemistry
I mean I knew you were kind of into me
But I figured it's too
Good to be true

I said pinch me where's the catch this time
Can't find a single cloud in the sky
Help me before I get used to this guy

They say that good things take time
But really great things happen in the blink of an eye
Thought the chances to meet somebody like you were a million to one
I can not believe it, whoa oh
You're one in a million

All this time I was looking for love
Trying to make things work
They weren't good enough
Til I thought I'm through
Said I'm done
Then stumbled into the arms of the one

You're making me laugh about the silliest stuff
Say that I'm your diamond in the rough
When I'm mad at you
You come with your velvet touch
Can't believe that I'm so lucky
I have never felt so happy
Every time I see that sparkle in your eyes

They say that good things take time
But really great things happen in the blink of an eye

Thought the chances to meet somebody like you were a million to one
I can not believe it, oh whoa
You're one in a million, (yea yea)

All this time I was looking for love
Trying to make things work
They weren't good enough
Til I thought I'm through
Said I'm done
Then stumbled into the arms of the one

I said pinch me
Where's the catch this time
Can't find a single cloud in the sky
Help me before I get used to this guy

They say that good things take time
But really great things happen in a blink of an eye
Thought the chances to meet somebody like you were a million to one
I can not believe it
Oh oh whoa yea yea

They say that good things take time
But really great things happen in the blink of an eye
Thought the chances to meet somebody like you were a million to one
I can not believe it oh, oh

You're one in a million

Yeah

One in a million

Yeah

You're one in a million

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she is a honey shandy colour with a whit strip down the middle of her bellie

Blossom-in reference to one of the Power Puff Girls
OR
Ginger would be a good one.

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Okay... well I'm not trying to get any religious views, or have anyone change my mind or anything like that... but I've always had a hard time figuring out what to believe in. I went to a Catholic school when I was younger [only cause it was right down my street though, haha] and neither of my parents are very religious... infact, they hardly are at all. But I never know what to believe. Like, I don't want to not believe in God... cause if there even is a "Hell" I don't want to go there and burn for all of eternity haha. Now, I don't really think there is [well I'm not even sure what to believe... there's so much I can learn about] but what if there is? I'll never know for sure. So basically, I'm just always worrying about things like that and I never know what to think =/ now don't like, try to call me stupid and naiive or anything, cause it's not my fault that there's 9857285 religons. Usually I just try to live my life being a good person... cause there's really no religon that looks donw upon that... That's what my mom always says anyway. "If there is a God or a whatever, as long as I spend my life being a good person, I'll be fine" So that's what I try to live by. [religon-wise]. What do you think?

It's alright to have beliefs, but there is no need to make them religious. To show I'm appreciative I basically think over what occured in my day to make me grateful and I'm hoping God takes hold of my thoughts because we all like to show others our appreciation, but maybe you don't need a religion, maybe a culture will do. I think the Jewish culture is beautiful and though I don't know anything about the Torah and don't plan to gain knowledge of it, peace is the focal point...

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hey im mason im 16/m and all my friends have been out of state for like 5 weeks and its just been hard for me ive been falling on old habits i know i should not but i just do and i want to stop but it feels like there is nothing to do my friends are gone and there is nothing else to do help?

Your current friends are gone and of course, they should remain your friends, but don't hesitate to go out and make new ones. Go in for a job interview at a place that you find appealing, it seems like you just need social interaction to let go of these habits.

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Is it wrong to date online?
and know that you'll never see that person
and still go out with them?

The people who do so probably recieve much comfort from words, but words can't keep you warm...as in: a relationship is physical, also. It isn't wrong, but it is not the most useful way to spend your life.

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I got into a major fight with one of my friends and then all her friends turned againest me, and they were my friends to. I really like them and have said sorry. One of her friends have always hated me to. How can i make them like me, if i don't make up then I know there will be drama next year. How can i stop all this drama and resolve things?

Why would you want to be friends with them when there's not that mutual attraction? I know you think life just ended for you because of the friendships lost, but this is only an opportunity to meet people who will value you. They'll drop the grudge at some point, but you can't always fast-forward the process. Just let it go. Don't focus on them. You'll be alright! =]

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I care a lot about what people think about me. I get very sad and angry and I don't know how to stop. How can I care less?

I know you care entirely too much when it comes to what people think about you...I used to be the same way, but if you think it over; you'll realize that people are too into themselves to notice every mishap that occurs in your life. Enjoy yourself and your surrondings will enjoy you! =]

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There is a lot of drama at my school. I hate it and a lot of people are mean to me. I loss like 6 friends last year and they are all mean to me now and I don't even know why. They said I started drama. But everyone doesd you know. How do I stop being so dramatic and being a good friend?

When you feel something needs to be said- think it through as best you can and then speak because this avoids a lot of conflict. You are free to express yourself and say how you feel, but remember to be considerate towards the other person and figure out a nicer and more constructive way to word things. Things will improve =]

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I'm 16. I've never drank, done drugs, or done anything with a guy. I'm pretty okay with that because I do really well in school, have never gotten in trouble before, and still have alot of fun with my friends. I actually have a good time just reading a book or watching TV or whatever. Is that weird? I mean, I kind of hang out with a really straight-edged kind of group of people, and I don't really mind that. Am I the only one in high school who actually IS a good girl like that? Because sometimes I feel like everybody's out getting drunk at crazy parties while I'm at home reading a book. Haha. Hopefully good things come to those who wait and DON'T make stupid decisions in high school? I just don't want to look back at high school when I'm older and wish I did crazier stuff... What do you think?

This sums up how I feel. Never compromise your morals. Seriously, never make exceptions for people or certain situations if it contradicts your beliefs. I'm soon to be a Junior in High School and you'll be surprised with how many people admire you with your good use of judgement. I'm known to get giddy over simple stuff and people who are around you will be appreciative for you in that aspect because you're grateful for most of the things others overlook. Don't ever feel down on yourself and think you're missing out because you're making a success out of yourself! =]

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I have been going out with my girlfriend for about a year now and I do everything I can. I always get her presents and stuff like that whenever I can. I'm always with her, I make her feel special (she told me this, its not an assumption), and just make everythign better for her (she told me this to). We usually are so so so good together but there are some bad times. I screwed up and she says sorry isn't enough. It was nothing like cheating or anything just an assumption I made. She says that I have to do something or its over. I have given her many presents now and I do whatever she wants right when she says to. Except when she says to do something to make it up. I have tried something romantic, tried kissing her and telling her how much I love her and i will literally die for her. But its not enough. She now wont see me she said do something. But everything I think of means I need money and my car, but I'm completely broke and have no car right now. i told her that and she said i dont need money or a car to make it up to her. I dont have any ideas. Does anyone have any? It has to be something spectacular, I cant lose her, it would hurt to much, its just not an option. Please I need an idea, a really really good one.

Thanks.

Write her a poem. It is one of the most personal things you could do. If she won't forgive you after that, then I have no idea what could be done.

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i cannnotttt fall asleep as hard as i try, ive tried music, ive tried warm drinks, ive tried reading, watching tv, I CANT GO TO SLEEP!its driving me crazzzzzy i lay in my bed for at LEAST 3 hours. then finally fall asleep, does anyone know anyways you have tried falling asleep and it worked? THANK YOU!!!!!!!

Reaarange some furniture in your room. The big items like your bed and/or your dresser. It makes all the difference, so give it a try! =]

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I always get zits, ect. I know most people go through that but is there any advice for skin? I don't use stuff like proactive or anything bought. I wash my face and all but any advice you can through out?

I know this had been said, but I'm just here to confirm this: your face will improve once you stop washing your face. I would always pile different products on my face thinking it could only help, but I only made the problem bigger. I wahs my face with a scrub once a week at the most and it's a lot clearer. Besides, your face gets moist in the shower from the water, so it's being cleaned more often than you may think.

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guys always yell perverted things to me like "you wanna fuck tonight?" or "hey wanna give me head?!" whats some good comebacks that i can say to them?

If they ask if you'll give them head, say: "Sorry, I hear it's dangerous to stick small objects in my mouth!"
-It's probably best not to say anything, though.

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how do you delete the history on your computer? thanks in advance and ill rate!

Internet Explorer:
1.At the tip of the tool bar-click on "Tools".
2.There is a drop-down list, so click the last one listed which says "Internet Options".
3. It should be set to the first tab that says "General".
4. Beneath the tab there are three sections. The last one is what you're looking for.
5. If you want to delete all your history: make sure the number is set to zero and then click "Clear History".

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I've recently started to learn playing the guitar. I know the basic chords but that's pretty much it. I know nothing about the frets or tuning the guitar or anything. I also don't have my own guitar, i use my cousins who i only see once a week. I'm still determined to learn though. Any tips?

Same situation over here. My dad just bought one for me at a pawn shop that was 70 dollars. That type of store is very likely to carry one. Try this site: http://www.e-chords.com/
You can practice songs in which you're familiar with and towards the bottom of the page it tells you exactly where to place your fingers for the notes. Good luck!

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Yesterday I went up to the college I'll be starting in the fall. I registered for my classes and what not. There were other freshman there too. No one knew each other, but by the end of the day they were all talking with one another. I didn't say a word all day. No one said anything to me. I'm not saying it's all their fault. I should have spoken up and joined in the coversation, but I'm too scared I guess. I'd love to go up and start a conversation with someone, but I'm always worried they'll just look at me weird and wonder why I'm talking to them.

I'm not exactly shy, I'm just never the one to start a conversation, you know? I don't know where to start or what to talk about. On the other hand, if someone approached me, I'd talk with them no problem. So how can I fix this? I'm worried that if I wait for people to come to me I won't meet anyone. The whole reason I wanted to go away to college was so I could meet new people, but it's harder than I thought I guess.

Suggestions?

Wow, we must be soul sisters =] Your situation is my life story. What I like to think of his how to make a good first impression and as we all know the first ones are the ones that last a lifetime. If people see you as one who is timid, it's going to be hard to break out of that type of behavior, so take some time to think of how outgoing you're willing to be and show through example just how energetic you are! You'll be fine =]

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me and my boyfriend like.
make our myspace songs good songs that show we have a good relationship.

like. i used to have.
"must have done something right" by relient k.
and right now he has
"you are the one" by shiny toy guns.

can you name some more like those?

You and I-Jason Mraz
True- Ryan C.

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