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help...
I have been going out with my girlfriend for about a year now and I do everything I can. I always get her presents and stuff like that whenever I can. I'm always with her, I make her feel special (she told me this, its not an assumption), and just make everythign better for her (she told me this to). We usually are so so so good together but there are some bad times. I screwed up and she says sorry isn't enough. It was nothing like cheating or anything just an assumption I made. She says that I have to do something or its over. I have given her many presents now and I do whatever she wants right when she says to. Except when she says to do something to make it up. I have tried something romantic, tried kissing her and telling her how much I love her and i will literally die for her. But its not enough. She now wont see me she said do something. But everything I think of means I need money and my car, but I'm completely broke and have no car right now. i told her that and she said i dont need money or a car to make it up to her. I dont have any ideas. Does anyone have any? It has to be something spectacular, I cant lose her, it would hurt to much, its just not an option. Please I need an idea, a really really good one.
Thanks.
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hey,
what you've done already SHOULD be enough, but if she wont accept that, try this:
make a collage of all of your pictures. use this for the cover. then get a bunch of pages, and on each one, write these things for each page. LONG stuff, too i guess..
1-how much she means to you
2-why you love her
3-why you're sorry
4-how much you love her
5-what she's done for your life
6-how you'd be if you lost her
7,8,9 ect-your memories together
then staple together and make it a little book. put it in her mail, or ring her doorbell and put it on her doorstep.
i'd definitely fall for that, and i'm sure most other girls would, too :)
hope everything works out,
xoxo
kat!
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Write her a poem. It is one of the most personal things you could do. If she won't forgive you after that, then I have no idea what could be done.
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okay well im a girl and im not THAT intense about when my boyfriend does something, BUT i do know that he has said somethings to me that may have hurt, i dont know exactly what you may have said to her but maybe just dont give up on saying ur sorry and making her feel good in any way, i mean money isnt the answer to everything maybe you could even make her something, that always gets to the heart. Maybe even try telling her that you didnt mean ANY thing you said to her. this is a tuff situation but good luck i hope i helped..=]
sarah
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