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Should she ever be my friend again????
Hello
I think I have a major problem. You see me and this girl have been friends since we were born. But however since she has gotten older she has the WORST temper problem. She will barge into the room yelling at me becuase she is mad at life because she has 3 siblings at home and I only have 1 but she moved out so I am basiclly the only child.She also has the worst bragging problem... she will brag about EVERYTHING Thats not all though.... she will be so angery becuase I am better fit, and I have more friends.... not trying to sound concieted or anything but it is true... please help
Then lately she yelled at me saying that she would NEVER want to be friends. But 1 day later she wants to be friends again. But I dont think I want to though. please help me
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I relate to your problem so much. I knew this girl who i had been friends with ever since i was born too. We were best friends for 14 years. She had a temper problem and there was alot of other really bad things she did too. I was really hurt by her for so many years but never did anything until this one day I straight out told her how I felt and just stopped being friends with her. I knew she probably couldn't change because that was her personality and she got from her dad. And because of what i did she has said that she has became a better person. I hope she has. What you should do though is tell your friend the truth. If she can't change for you then she probably is not worth being friends, especially if shes hurting you. Just do what you think is right. When i stoped being friends with the girl i knew, i felt so much better and know i have two best friends that i love so much.
I hope everything works out for you!
idk how to write to you..i'm new at this so thats why i'm writting here. lol
but i just wanted to say
your welcome and thanks! :]
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Well first off, before you make a big decision of not being friends think it through. Try talking to her. I've been in this situation, it's just that my friend I guess was a little bit more dramatic than I want anybody to be. But remember she won't change over night. It's a long term process that will take awhile. And if you have time to take it, then yes you should probably try to work things out. If she really likes you and wants to keep being friends she'll try to change and not make you drag away. But if she ignores you, than you probably shouldn't be friends if she is going to have all those dramatic moments. Don't make your decision overnight, because you may have mixed emotions in the future and no one wants to hear "I want to be friends and then you don't want to be friends. Think it through and think if this relationship is special or if it has always been crappy and not exciting = ]
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If the relationship is questionable, then you need to drop it. You shouldn't continue on with this "friendship" because this person does not know how to be a friend at this point.
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