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But I'm back! (as of October 08) If you don't know or remember me my name is Ashley :) Currently 16 years old and a junior in highschool. I don't complain much and you'll always see a smile on my face.

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Is this a stupid thing to do?? Or does it feel better?

I've gotta think it would be uncomfortable but its probably harmless so the choice is yours.

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okay so im a virgin but all i can think about is having sex with my crush. its always on my mind. is there something wrong with me?! or is that actualy normal.. (im 16/f) HELP :/

This is very normal because your sex hormones are going crazy. Don't worry, it will happen when the time is right! =]

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i know that alot of people say only guys masterbate and yeah i know that isnt true its just more accepted that guys do right? i mean tons of girls do too?

More guys do it then girls but YES a lot of girls do it too

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I was wondering.. how often do guys get wet dreams? Like how old and how often

And how long do girls get periods? like till how old

I havent got it yet so i dont know like wuts gonna happend like wut will it feel like

and when a guy goes through puberty wut does it feel like??

thanks in advance &hearts

I don't know much about the guy question cause im a girl but for the period question, i can answer it. You usually get your period around 100 pounds, your age could vary from 11-17. Depending on the girl, you could have cramps, headaches, mood swings, backaches. For me its usually cramps every once in a while. Just be sure to carry pads [for your first time] in your purse.

Also if you have cramps for a few days in a row that means you might start so I would wear a pad to school if you think you are going to cause otherwise it would be embaressing.

Hope I helped!!

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Ok, i have a major problem! My best friend started goin out w/ this girl at the beginning of this school year. The problem is, he's not aloud to have a girlfriend. His parents obviously don't let him hang out w/ her outside of school but our families are good friends so i hang out with him every weekend. His girlfriend is incredibly jelous and despises me. She's told me that if i hang with him that she'll "dump" him. He's so happy with this girl and i don't want him to be sad. This girl and i are constantly fighting over the fact that me and him are nothin more than friends and that he luvs her. Well, recently he said that he doesn't want to be friends with me anymore becuase his girlfriend said that he can't! Understand that i luv this guy like the closest brother ever and i've cried myself to sleep every night. what do i do? we're only 13!

I'm sorry I can't help you more then telling you that you just need to TALK TO HIM. that is the ONLY soulution because you need to understand his point of view and he needs to understands yours. I hope you guys are friends again! Good Luck!

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Ok, i have bf...we're not totally serious or anything i mean we're only 13, but still i like him ALOT! he's always on my mind, we snuggle whenever we're around eachother. Neither one of us are aloud to date tho so our parents don't know. What should i get him for christmas? i really wanna show him i care. I mean, i do really really really like this guy!

I answered a question just like this earlier, heres a cheap but romantic idea.

I think the cutest gift ever is a photo album with pictures of the two of you. And maybe on the left page you could put a picture of you looking sad, then write "Before I met you" then on the right put a picture where you look beautiful and write "After I met you." I would just try to think of cute/unique ideas. Have fun!!

If thats a little TOO romantic, just get him something that has his favorite football [or whatever sport] label on it. like a T-shirt, had, keychain, pen, or make him something with it on it. GOOD LUCK!

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Ok well this is long but I need help! I used to like Dj and then as soon as I got to go out with Dj, I find out that Stephen likes me. I like stephen alot. Hes more my type. So I break up with Dj and start talking to stephen, He hasnt asked me out yet, but i hope its coming SOON! I really like him. I dont know how to push him into asking me out without being pushy as to where he hets angry? What shouls I say?

N E thing will help.
I will rate answers that make sense 4's and 5's!
Thankz

*MICHAELA
Im a girl
13
Florida

You really shouldn't try to push him to ask you out. If the time is right he will, just flirt him up. Try to look super cute around him and all that stuff. But DONT go and ask your friend to ask his friend to ask him if he is going to ask you out cause thats 5th grade stuff. Sorry Im not much more of a help! Good luck!

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i am a 14 year old girl who has REALLY SUCKY & UNRELiABLE friends. i really need to make new ones, but its just so hard. im trying to become more outgoing but its hard !! ANY ADViCE ?!!?!

i RATE FiVES T0 HELPFUL ANSWERS !!!!!

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I know exactly how you feel! That happened to me a while ago. Maybe if you have one friend who hangs out with a better group, sit at that table at lunch, start walking with different people to your classes, and even hang out with the guys [girls are way more catty that guys.] Sorry Im not much more of a help, good luck!!

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I just spent about $150 on my honey for Christmas, and I didn't get him anything for our one year anniverssary!I dont' know what to get him and I'm low on cash! Help me out and I'll rate sky high! thanks

I think the cutest gift ever is a photo album with pictures of the two of you. And maybe on the left page you could put a picture of you looking sad, then write "Before I met you" then on the right put a picture where you look beautiful and write "After I met you." I would just try to think of cute/unique ideas. Have fun!!

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my friend has a lot of freckles especially on her upper lip and she looks like she has a mustache and nooo cover ups hide it is there any way to get rid of freckles?

Apply lemon juice then have her lay in the sun. I'm just wondering though, why are you asking if its for your friend? Does she want to get rid of them herself, or do you? Don't mean to sound mean but I was just wondering.

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I have been aiming people and soon the convo dries up. can anyone give me a list of interesresting questions? like 10= could get you a 5, unless the questions are realy interesting.

Just ask a RANDOM question to get the person thinking/laughing/entertained.
1: Did you hear so and so hooked up?
2: What was the last movie you saw?
3: Are you doing anything friday?
4: Do you know what a chinchilla is?
5: Sooo..anything new happening?
6: Did you know porcepines [sp?] float?
7: Wow did you know I totally love you? lol
8: Who do you hate?
9: What should I wear tomorrow?
10. [I remember a guy asked me this and it caught my attention] When was the first time you made out and with who?

Mine probably sound stupid to you but it is some ideas. Have fun!

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is there anyway to find out no name numbers that call you on your cell??

thanks!!

If it shows the number then just call and say I got a call from this number and find out =] But if it says restricted then I don't think there is a way, sorry

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