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my friends SUCK.
i am a 14 year old girl who has REALLY SUCKY & UNRELiABLE friends. i really need to make new ones, but its just so hard. im trying to become more outgoing but its hard !! ANY ADViCE ?!!?!
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join clubs to help you meet friends. you can also play sports. trust me it helps
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Hang around different people it sounds simple, but it should work easily but sometimes if your shy people will come to you, or look at some more interests and hobbies where you can meet other people
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throw a big party and invite a few people who you know but not that well.. and tell them to bring along a few friends (im not talking about the kind of drinking party like in mean girls) play games.. and just tlak to the people.. then you might come to like somme people.
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Aw im sorry about your ahem EX friends haha but here are some tips to making new ones
first say hi and then just ask them abiut their interests and get to know them. see if they want to hang out with you sometime soon. if they say yes, you're really close to having a new friend!
^^ let me know if i helped!
**hope it works out**
x-O Annerszz_101 x-O
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all you really have t0o do is be nice to other people and say hi and have fun and they will start talkin to you and stuff !!
♥ Samra
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Get rid of the sucky unreliable friends, they never end up caring about you or realizing their mistakes. Now do you have any other people you kinda know from any of your classes(like the girl who sits next to you in math etc)you could try to get to know them better by asking them about themselves. Whenever you meet someone new ask them about themselves, afterall its what they know the most about =) You could also try joining a club or being on a sports team, that way you will meet someone with similar interests.
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Kate
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thats one of those questions that is really hard. but i hope i can be of some assistance. what you need to do is first talk to your "friends" and let them know they arent being all that great. if you dont have the heart to do this. then just gradually start to hang with them less and then start to hang with other people in your school. u know your friends arent good for you so illiminate them from your life. harsh but best for you. youll learn alot from good friends. notta from bad friends. your family will see a difference in your attitude and most likely school. i know cause i went through the same thing when i moved to a new school when i turned 13. try and see. hotrod
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try to make a good friend that you can really rely on
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I know how you feel but like don't change yourself to get better friends... you have to act like yourself.. Just wait a little while and like get to know all the people that you like try to ignore or something because those people could be your best friends... you never know...
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i am the same age as you and im in the same spot right now. heres what i am doing..... just talking to the people that i know are cool but that i dont hang with and all that. just trying to make better friends with the people i have known for years and never really paid attention to much. just try to relize the people you have that you may not even really think of. sometimes they will be the best to you. dont just ditch your unreliable friends....they are still friends. so just be nice to them and dont let yourself be put to fault for anything. strenghten the friendships with the people you know but dont hang with and make some new friends.
-alex
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I know exactly how you feel! That happened to me a while ago. Maybe if you have one friend who hangs out with a better group, sit at that table at lunch, start walking with different people to your classes, and even hang out with the guys [girls are way more catty that guys.] Sorry Im not much more of a help, good luck!!
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Yeah eventhough you feel you friends are like that its good that you wanna try and make new ones. My advice is that find something you like to do and see the people who also like what you do. Like soccer or swimming and then youll start making new friends. Im in ROTC and have many friends from there. I hope I helped you
~Bianca~
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