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Q: im lookin 4 a good pair of shoes u can skateboard wit but are still cute got any ideas

Roxys-trix

Q: my friends sis is 11 and she weighs 102lbs she want to know if she should loose weight or if she is good for her age.

It depends on how tall she is. Cuz if she is like 4 ft. then she is a bit overweight. but she is like really tall for her age then she shouldnt worry about it at all-trix

Q: hi, this is me amy. i have a problem with this grl in school. ALL she does is talk about horses, reads about them, and drax pictures of them. I would love her to stop but she wont. also this kid she likes HATES her but i dont want to KILL her dreams. So what should i do.
singed
GymCutie234

Haha thats kinda funny. Well if you dont like her tell her. tell her the true facts. Hey the truth hurts sometimes. but just be careful cuz theres this lil thing and it is called payback and payback is a bitch. so be careful with what you do or say..-trix

Q: I'm a 21 year old college student with a male friend, 23, who I have known for 3 years now. He asked me several times for a booty call. I've always said no regardless of the fact that I've had a minor crush on him all along (he knows this). Recently during one of our marathon discussions, he told me I knew him better than he knew himself... Could it be possible that he's put his booty call days behind him?

Possible he still probably has it on his mind though hoping that maybe on day you will suggest it or something. -trix

Q: I'm 24 and I've been with my boyfriend, Rob, for 2 years. He's got everything I look for in a guy. He is tall, dark and handsome with a wonderful personality.
But every 6 months I visit my parents who are living in Canada and 2 years ago (just after I'd started seeing my boyfriend) I went to see them as usual. And there I met Jason. His parents are friends with my parents and the first time I saw Jason, he just blew me away. We had this incredible connection and chemistry and it was something I'd never ever felt before. The instant attraction between us was unbearable. But obviously there was Rob to think of and I was there for only 2 weeks, so nothing happened. When I got back and saw Rob, I'd kicked myself for even thinking there may be something with Jason, because Rob was just perfect. But 6 months later, I went to Canada once again to see my parents and just like before, Jason managed to take my breath away. It was as if we'd never been apart. There was still that amazing chemistry but this time stronger. But again, nothing happened. It was exactly the same last year when I saw my parents twice. So this has been going on for 2 years and even though I'm still with Rob and he's wonderful, I just can't forget Jason (he's still single). He's always somewhere in my mind. I can't imagine my life without Rob but I find myself wondering what Jason is doing and excited about seeing him again. Is this fate trying to tell me something? I feel lost and confused. Please give me your thoughts.

Talk to jason see what he thinks and go out for lunch.. but just as friends cuz you have rob. Dont do anything you have 2nd thoughts of regretting or wanting back. Cuz sometimes once you let go you can never grab on again.-trix

Q: well this is my prob see im goin into highschool and im like the only one of my friends not scared cause my sis is gonna be a sinior and i know like all her friends and then i have friends that are sophmors and jouniors too and everyone is sitting there telling me i needto introduce them but i dont wanna get them annoyed so i tell them no and so there scared and they want ot go to a diffrent high school that a privte school there all scared that me and my other friend are gonna ditch them cause we know more people then them and the ones comin from other schools whats there deal???

Umm im pretty sure you know there deal.. THEY ARE SCARED.. you said it a few times. think about it and reassure them they shouldnt be scared. They just probably dont want you leaving there sides for some whole other new group of frinds and they will end up loosing you as a friend. im sure that is not what they want.-trix

Q: this is kristi.. i wrote about ricky awhile ago... well i wrote him a letter and gave it to him on the last day of skool.. i know kinda lame but hey at least i gave it to him. well it said that i liked him and that we should hang out this summer then i put my number at the bottom... well he called me THAT NIGHT. we talked bout everything BUT the letter, but we found out that were going to hawaii... same island and everything at the same time so we r gonna meet up there to hang out.. how perfect huh? well does that mean anything that he called me that nite when i said call me this SUMMER?
luv kristi

He was obviuslly thinking about you. I would tell him when you guys are away together alone. it would be cute and like perfect!! It seems to me from what i have been reading you guys really like eachother so tell him and he may tell you he likes you alot also-trix

Q: I don't know how this is possible, a while ago, i was crazy for pinapples. I'm still in a while ago though, so i'm still addicted. A cop caught me for eating and driving with pineapples and he recommended me to go to pineapple rehab, i don't know why he said that, is there really a pineapple rehabilitation center.
Piney Woman

He was probably just messing around with you to be funny to lighten things up. Hes a wise cracker huh? -trix

Q: I want to tell this guy I like him but he has a girlfriend!The first time I met him he told me he liked me!I have a feeling I have waited too long and that he doesnt want me anymore!But I think about him all the time and I am in love w/ him!Signed,bummed love
I am 13 and a female!

Go and tell him if he came right out and told you then you should just come right out and tell him.-trix

Q: i am going out with this lad, but i am in love with his best mate. what shalli do?

Thats kinda bad.. i dont know if you should tell him but its always best that you should that way you dont seriously really hurt the guy further down the road... call you and yours "lads" relationship off for now and see what happans.-trix

Q: umm well im going to the beach, and my bathing suit is making me look fat? should i get another one? or look extra fat

signed: Big J-Fizz

Well.. if you can handle it just for now then i would go to the beach with just the suit you have got then later sometime this week or something go get a new suit.. but if you feel really uncomfortable then go and grab one-trix

Q: what do u do when ur best/f wants to kill herself and u cant do anything about it bc u dont live any where near her any more?

Tell someone who is close to you and her and tell them the whole sitution about whats going on. because you really dont want your best friend hurt. i am sure thats the last thing you want to happan to you or even her or her family-trix

Q: okay i am a 14 year old male. i met this girl over the internet and i think she likes me because she drops little hints like calls me babe, or calls me sexy, or said she has a dream about me. from what she says she seemed really nice.well we talk about three hours a day. today she asked me out. i like her but that seems a little wierd to go out on the internet. what do i say if i really like her

Well umm.. tell her you are willing to give it a shot but before you to do go out let her know how you feel first about the whole online internet relationship things.. you think they are kinda wierd.. that way she knows that if you do call it off.. then.. that will be why and ask her if you can have a gf there cuz it wont be fair completely if you are tied down to some girl you can see except be nicer when you say it-trix

Q: ok im bisex and so is my girl/f ((ima girl)) and we were at the movies and when ppl ask if were together we always say yes well this guy asked us if we were bi or sumpin and i was bout to say yes and shes like ha no this is just my friend and she sat by him and made out wit him and i dont no what to do!!

Tell her how you feel... unless you want payback and do it to her.. but thats not very nice. so just tell her how you feel about the whole thing. -trix

Q: Hearts and roses and kisses galore,

What the hell is all this shit for.

Poeple get mushy and start acting queer,

This is definitely the most annoying day of the year.

This day needs to be over, come and pass,

Before I shove a dozen roses up cupids ass.

I'll spend the day so drunk I can't speak,

And probably wear black the rest of the week.

Guys act all sweet but soon it will fade,

For all they are trying to do is get laid.

The arrow cupid shot at me must have not hit,

Because I think love is a big crock of shit.

So here is my story what more can I say,

Love is a bitch so fuck Valentine's Day

WOW! thats kinda.. mean.. i dont feel like that when valentines day rolls around. Its one of the best days of the years. Cheer up if thats how you really feel. -trix

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Q: ok there is this guy i'm always flirting with and we always hook-up like this one time i was at this party and i gave him a lap dance and just started making out with him but i don't even like him and he doesn't like me we are just really good friends but with benefits and not sure what to do because i like this other guy but he's weird and thats a whole other story so what sould i do

It would if I knew the other half of the story. But if you really like this guy and you want his attention then i would cut down on messing around w/that other guy .. cuz he might not like you foolin around with the other guy thinkin that you may do that if you guys do go out in the future-trix

Q: well, i have had my period but it's late. like a week and a half late, what should i do and why is this happening?

Dont worry about it. I read something about this in magazines it varies it comes at a wierd times sometime you dont even know when its coming it can skip months it usually happans to teen ages 12-18.. so dont worry to much about it-trix

Q: Well, there is this boy that i like, and i used to think that he liked me, he used to tease me and blow in my ear, but from far away, like 5 inches... lol. well, n e way, ever since our teacher moved our seats, he doesn't really seem to notice me alot. I mean, he touches me and likes to play with me every now and then, but it looks like he hates me. Well, he talks to the other girls and my friends sometimes, but he never notices me. I kinda smacked him on the head today and he hit me back! i smacked him silly! so, it's like he doesn't rtespect me or something, does he like me or not? he lkes to look at me when im not looking and smile sometimes when he passes by.

Hmm pay more attention to him maybe go up to him during free time or passing time in the halls and tlk to him .. like when he is talking to your friends join in the conversation or something-trix

Q: hey,
i love this 1 girl i mean i cant get my mind offa her ive been tryin 2 forget about her for 6 months because all signs say she doesnt like me any more but im hopin she still does ya know???? i mean you got any ideas on how i could try and get her back or possibly forget about her ill try anything SOME! HELP!!!

Signed,
Crushed Heart (aka Jax)

Find out from her friends maybe drop her hints that you like her back and she might do the same-good luck o0o-trix-o0o

bio

My name is Trix, I am 17. I love pink, and degrassi.

I just recently got out of a relationship of 21 months. I love him still but I'm moving on.

I've been there done that im sure

ex. (with the number of expierences)

-Long term relationships (2)
-Bad expierence with BF's family (1)
-Broken bones (11)
-Stitches (2)
-Seen someone killed (1)
-Loss of family (1)
-Cancer in the family (2)
-Family in Iraq (1)
-Mom had brain surgery (2)
-Loss of pet (4)
-Moved from state to state (5)
-New highschool (2)
-Car accident (3)

Like I said "been there done that"