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My name is Teza.. short for Tereza. I was born in Croatia and I speak more than one language. I'm 22 years old & I completed 2 college degrees in 3 years. My a bachelors is in Business Administration concentration in Human Resources and my Masters degree is also in HR.
I started this advice column about 9years ago and I was so young but it was something that I always loved to do. I am trying to get back to answering questions, at least a few per day. With that said, if you have questions about school, friends, make up, etc., feel free to ask.
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Im going into 7th grade and never had a bf!
Everyone tells me im pretty and I've been popular and everything at my school. Im even a model!
But I dont brag or anything
But anyways theres this boy I like and I really want to get closer to him. Once he tried to kiss me but my mom walked into the house and he stopped. And now were kinda like friends. Is there anything I can do to get him to like me again?
Well its fine that you never had a boyfriend. Most girls dont until like 15. You just need to take things slow for right now. I mean your only going into the 7th grade. You will get a boyfriend but if you are in a rush it just wont happen. Its good that you like this guy now. You have to get to know him well first && take things slow. Flirt a lot and the sweeter you are he will fall for you. But the more you look for a b/f you wont find one. It just happens. Good luck babe!
Sometimes in the day I feel like water or pee is leaking out of my vagina
Is this normal? and even sometimes I get stains in my underwear.
Thats discharge and its normal. Just wear those light pads so you dont get stains on your undies. But when you get discharge it usually means that you will get your period soon.
i'm 15 and my boyfriend and i have been going out for like a year and a half. my question is:
if your boyfriend has been ignoring you for like a month, but hasnt like hinted anything about breaking up, whut does it all mean?
- confused
He has a lot on his mind and hes confused. Who knows what about but you need to talk to him and see whats up. Sometimes it can mean that the feelings might start to change but you never know. Just talk to him and comfort him about it.
well I have a girlfriend and I love her to death but idk if she knows that i love her as much as i do. how can i tell her how much i love her?
Sometimes you cant just tell a person how much you love them.. you have to show them. So try showing it to her and proving to her that you really do love her a lot. Call her when you're bored.. call her and say good night. Do sweet little things for her and it will mean a lot to her!!
OK, my hair is just about shoulder length, maybe a little bit longer. It's thick and reallyyyyy wavy and frizzy. If i straighten it at night, like right before i go to bed, shood i keep it up or down overnight? Which will help it stay straight?
Keep it down. But if your hair is frizzy I think you should get the John Freeda Friz Ease.. it will help out a lot. Then spray the straightening spray in your hair. I have this spray called Ion and you spray it in your hair and it wont damige it or burn your hair so it doesnt get split ends and get frizzy. Then I have this hair silk.. its also called Ion and you put it in your hair to tone it down and make it shinyer and not frizzy and poofy.
i was wondering if you should shave above your knee's and if you do will it turn all gross like when you shave below your knee?
I RATE 5'S
No it wont be gross but yes you can and if you have hair up above your knee then yes. If not then its not nessesary.
ok i am going into 7th grade and i am worried if guys lik me cuz when i was in emementary skool everybody didn't lik me wat should i do?>
plzz help me
Thats not always true. When you go to middle school there will be a lot more people and you can always make new friends. Do you know why those people didnt like you? If you do then try to fix it. Be nice to everyone and dont be a lil bitch like the rest of the girls lol.
dont you just HATE it when people rate you really low just bc you tell the truth?
cookierat123
Yup, but sometimes they just dont want to hear the truth. It doesnt bother me tho. Its just annoying because they ask for advice and when you tell them they're just like ehh.. lol!
do you know what lo's last name is
Bosworth.
I asked the question about the hair growing around my vag.. and how long till i get my period and how can i tell when im going to get it?
++ can i practive putting tampons on? or will it harm everyhitng?
You will get discharge && maybe cramps. You never know when you will get it. But yeah you can practice it wont harm anything.
can you wear a pad while swimming? or is a tampon reccomended.. can you not wear any?
Pads.. no. You can but thats just gross. I mean it will fall apart and its not comftrable. If you dont wear anything you will leak and blood will be everywhere. So wear a tampon. They are most comftrable.
can you have the umm.. hmm.. i dont know how to say this.. but the backgrounds.. CAN YOU USE THE BACKGROUNDS FOR MY COLOMN WITHOUT HAVING A PAID ACCOUNT?? if yes, how do you get it in there.
Yes.. you have to have a url code for it. Like you can get it off photobucket. Go to Column Setting and put it in there.
Why are boys so... i dont even know what word to use.. i mean they tell you they love you just to get in your pants! and they are sooo confusing, they bring so much pain but i still want them! ... grrr, am i making any sense? all i truley want is this...
i want a boy---
who can wrestle with me
and let me win.
who i can talk to about anything.
who laughs at my jokes.
a boy who puts my cold hands
in his warm hoodie pockets.
who lets me use his sweatshirt
for a pillow.
who buys me 25 cent rings,
and sticky hands.
who says i love you & means it.
who will kiss me in the rain,
in the sunshine, and in the snow.
who calls unexpectedly.
who will have many inside jokes
with me and remember each one.
a boy who notices girl's haircuts.
who realizes that girls say things
but dont always mean them.
who i can go swimming with
on hot days.
who can tell me his problems
and let me help.
who will listen to me talk--
about the new nail polish i got.
who will bring me seashells
from the beach.
who will let me beat him up
when i get angry.
who writes love letters to me,
but doesn't send them.
who draws pictures and slips them
gently into my locker slot.
who saves his genuine, big smiles for me.
a boy with deep eyes,
that can see through faces into depths.
who wears baseball hats and
lets me wear his too.
who gives me his t-shirt to change into
and not expect to get it back.
who knows my favorite color, song,
car, vegetable, perfume and
the color of my toothbrush.
a boy who will shake my dad's handand look my mother in the eye.
who will call me by my full name--
first, middle and last.
a boy who will kiss me and
tell me i'm beautiful.
a boy who will let me cry to him.
who will squeeze my hips just right.
who suprises me and compliments
my manicure and plays with my hair.
who knows when i have a math test
or when i fail one.
a boy who smells like
he just stepped out of the shower.
who tells me i have a nice laugh,
and a smile that lights up the room.
a boy who's simply mine to hold."
that is exactly what i want!
why cant i get that?
Aww babe! Woah It's kind of difficult tho. I mean that sounds like the PERFECT guy and there is no such thing! I would kill to meet a guy like that but its just never there =( I mean guys will break your heart but one day you will find that special guy who is close to perfect and you will be happy!
im noticing im growing hair around my vag. is that normal? what does it mean?
You hit puberty! Congrats! Its normal.
hahah i smoke bout 2 bags of weed a day should i stop??
Cut down to one bag at least!
i need help on what to wear i got 3 tops and i cant choice.. i am goin to the mall to see a close friend that i havent seen but i need help with a top..
1)http://photobucket.com/albums/a181/sointoyoux0x/?action=view¤t=2f5f8131.jpg
2) http://i11.photobucket.com/albums/a181/sointoyoux0x/ccda716e.jpg
3) http://i11.photobucket.com/albums/a181/sointoyoux0x/ccda716e.jpg
i am planin to wear blue jeans and pink and black shoes. my hair will be striaght but i dont know if i will wear a hat that has the inatails of my first and last name on it and it is black and red... should wear a hat or not?? and whcih top should i wear???
I like the first shirt the best but if you are going to wear black && pink shoes then wear the pink flowery shirt because it will match the best. But dont wear a hat.
what does the term mean "to pop a girls cherry when she has sex?
It means when you have your hymen broken. It bleeds but it only happens the first time you have sex.
well this guy i work with likes me a lot and i only like him as a friend and i told him that a lot of times and i thought he understood that...so i act mean to him at work but i just be playin with him...and he takes it seriously and i just be like okay whatever...well he calls me sometimes i dont answer because i dont have my phone with me...but when i do answer he asks me to the movies and i said i cant because i have to work and then i gotta go out of town...and he didnt believe me that much but he accepted that...then he told me on the phone how he thinks about me and told me not to get mad...he said that he thought i was a dyke because i kept being mean to him and that im a virgin because i act so grouchy and i dont i just act mean cause im either tired or im just playin around with him...and he said a bunch of other stuff and it pissed me off so what should i do cause i dont wanna have to face him at work...another thing he said is if im gonna marry me my cousin when i get older because everytime im always talkin to my cousins or over their house and thats cause we're really cool...sorry this is so long but i dont know what to do and i dont know how to face him!!
This guy deserves a slap in the face. He would annoy me soo bad!! You need to tell him once again but use a voice where you're mad and you just cant take it anymore! Just tell him " Look! I dont like you like that && stop friggin bothering me.. blah blah blah!" Just say whatever is on your mind. Talk to your boss and tell him that he is distractiong you from working and that you would like a different schedule maybe or just not to work with him. It should work.
i am redoing my room. the walls are white, and the rug is light-blue, which i cant change. does anyone have any ideas on what colors/theme i should use. i'm 14 if it helps.
Light green,blue/light orange or yellow! Mix && match those colors and it will look amazing.
I have this t shirt that all the kids at my camp signed. but now i want to make it look cooler. What can I do to make my shirt stand out?
Thats what I`m gonna do with my t-shirts like that. Get some cute fabric && sparkly large thing beads. Sew them on there && it will look cute! Go to Walmart and get these gelly things. They come in little bottles with tons if colors. They can go on clothes and stuff. There have glow in the dark ones. I dont know if you know what I`m talking about but once you go there and look you will know. You can decorate things with that && its really adorable! Have fun decorating!