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"There's no other love like the love for a brother. There's no other love like the love from a brother." A lot has changed since I was in High-school and first created my column - almost 8 years ago!!!! I now have two gorgeous Boys who mean the World to me; Brody, who is 3 and a half years old, and Brayden, who will be a year in November. I live my life for these two Boys. They make every second worth it. xxoo ♥ ♥
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my b/f's back n i'm gunna be in trouble...
Hey now, hey now, my boyfriends back.
i'm 5''5 and 120 pounds is that fat? if so.. how much should i lose and how should i lose it? i really dont like how much i weigh..
I don't find that fat at all. But, if your not happy with yourself, start running or do some crunches before you go to bed. =)
Ok im 14 and a 34 in like ltd 2 bras that is wicked small!!! but im fit! and i went through everything.. im going to be a freshman in a couple of days!!! what do i do!!! im small! and i cant wait for them to groww!!! and guys are going to not want to go out with me HELP!!!! and dont tell me to stuff cause that is like so obviose!!!
signed so SMALL!!
Well your boobs just don't grow over night, so, I say just get one of them padded bras. They make your boobs look more fuller.
i heard my friends talking about camel toes.. what exactly is 1 and how do u kno if u have 1? thanks alot
Haha - It means that the person pants are riding up her crouch. Kidda like a wedgie but the other way around.
If you never have or are new to the whole kissing scene....is there a way to tell your doing it right or if your good at it?
If your doing it right, the guy will probably want to keep kissing you =) There's really no right and wrong way to kiss, just let it "flow".
so i am goin into da 8th grade and my skin is tan and i have dark brown eyes .i dont kno which eyshadow to use, and i don't know what i shud do wit my hair, my hair is dark brown and is straight. please help.
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Well for darker people, anything would look good. From pink and blue eyeshadow to light colors like browns and peachy kinds. You chould even put on some black eye-liner, that goes great with dark eye'd people. For your hair, tie it back in a bun, leave it haft up haft down, braid it back, leave it down curl some peices, put it up in a pony tail and curl the pony, pig tails, ect. Hope I helped!
Hey! I have a problem....okay..I told my best friend to tell this guy that I like him and now he is nervous to even talk to me...and now I feel the same way about him.....I'm confused! What do I do?
Well, totally normal thing we have going on here. You guys probably both like eachother, so your both scared to say something to eachother. If your to scared to talk to him in person, cause you always get them butterfly's, ask him for his e-mail. You can always chat on the net and you wont feel so nervous. Then maybe one you feel right with eachother, start talking on the phone, then onto talking to eachother in person. Good luck.
My friend smokes..and hes 13. Im trying to ask him to quit and i give him my point of view. Ive tried almost everything in the book..so dont say talk to him. i have.
Wow. That's such a young age to start smoking at. Well, first off. Does HE want to quit? If he doesn't want to, no need in trying to talk him about quiting. He's the only one who can do it, not his friends. If he does want to quit, get him to just start smoking less and less everyday. If that doesn't work get him on the patch or that gum stuff.
yesterday at the doctors i got a shot in my arm (kind of my shoulder) and it didnt hurt at all, but now today it hurts really bad it feels like i have a bruise where the shot was and it hurts really bad whenever i move my arm. is this normal or should i be concerned? im starting to worry. how long should this pain last?
It's totally normal. We had to get shots at school last year in our shoulder, up at the top. It didn't hurt at all but how ever, when I woke up the next day I couldn't move my arm... it was so weak. Don't worry about it, it's probably just the shot you got. It shouldn't last long, maybe a couple of days. =)
Well.. I'm not sure how to put this... last year before school ended.. I started liking this kid named Kevin. Well we dated.. and then decided we didnt know enough about each other to be together so we broke up. Then he said when he gets to know me better we will get back together. I've talked to Kevin ever since school ended and yesterday we hung out all day long.. and he really really likes me. and If i didnt have a boyfriend wed be together. I really like Kevin. My problem is. I have a boyfriend. And I like Kevin more then my own boyfriend. And I'm not sure how to break up with him. Without him knowing that I'm going to be with Kevin. :( Ahh man... I sound like a slut.
You don't sound like a slut at all hun. It's just your feelings, their all mixed up. If you like this Kevin guy more then your boyfriend, you have to do 1 thing - dump your boyfriend. It's not right to be with someone and like another person more then your boyfriend. Just tell your boyfriend you rather be friends because the feelings aren't there anymore. As for this Kevin guy, don't go out with him right away once you dump your boyfriend. Your gunna have to give it a little time, a couple of weeks. You can still hangout with Kevin and everything, just give it a little time to get together.. so your boyfriend wont be that hurt. Good luck.
I have asked a lot of people for advice on this, but no one has an answer. I start school tommorow.
On the last day of school last year, 8th grade, I sort of asked out this guy, Alex, whom I liked and who liked me, by saying "If I dump Jerry will you go out with me" (yes i know im a jerk) and he said he would and I said we hadda hang out over summer. I really did intend to, in the beginning of summer I called him a few times and there was never any answer. Then I went to a lot of camps, but I did have some time in between. I went out with this guy during one camp but we sorta drifted apart. Now school is starting tommorow and it's going to be so awkward. I don't know what to say to Alex...I did intend to hang out with him, but it just didn't work...And I don't know if I like him anymore or what seeing how I haven't seen him all summer. I need advice real soon on what to sasy to him tommorow and how 2 handle this thing. It's a pretty sticky situation. Thanks.
Tell him the truth. Just tell him that you don't think things are working out to great and that you rather be friends for now. I mean, you guys didn't talk the hole summer. He probably thought you guys weren't "together" anymore. That's probably why he chould have not returned any of your calls. So, when you get to school just tell him you rather be friends. I'm pretty sure he'll understand and everything will be cool.
well there is this boy i really think i like him.. and my friends think i should go out w/ him and all this other stuff im like rite.. to go out w/ someone that means the other person has to like you back they say he likes me but i really dont think he does hes really quiet and im kinda shy so i never want to aproach him or when hes w/ his friends i dont want to say hi or anythang then so at school we really dont talk or anythang .. so what can i do to "flirt" w/ him i guess you could say or to just talk to him and stuff you know? well thanks.. oh by the way i rate well =]
Make a lot of eye contact, ask him how his day is going so far. Laugh at all his jokes (even if they aren't all that funny). Maybe while your talking to him, smile, laugh and lightly touch his arm or something. Maybe even get his e-mail or sn so you guys can talk on the computer. Maybe you wont be so shy if you talk over the computer and hangout a little more.
okie well i was at aparty n this guy got bet 40$ to makeout w. me.. but u see we didnt i was messin w. him cuz i new he was messn w. me soo he started to lean over like he wanted a kiss n i wouldnt soo he would get up n come bac n act the same way soo i finally got tired of it soo i kissed him but u see as we were movin in he moved soo i kissed his chin n well he stands up n gose we did it we madeout but everyone was around n they all no we didnt n hes like ur breath stinks n then he acted liek he was puking.. well i rele like that guy but i was rele mean to him.. was that a thing a jerk would do n should i just forget about him
Woah, that does sound like a jerk. I think you should forget about him all together. First he bets 40$ to kiss you, then said your breath stinks and acted like he was puking? That's a jerk right there. Forget about him. There's a lot of better acting guys out there. One's that wont do that! Good luck.
Ok heres the deal ...
I got a fone going in to ninth grade my moms old fone its so old it doesnt even have games( and new ones cant be downloade) but my sister just went into ninth grade and my mom said she was going to get her old phone ( tyhe one she got new when i got mine) but when we got to the verizion place ... my sister came home with a brand new camera fone!! i just bought a car and i need the hands free kit ( new your state law) but my stupid fone is so old they dont sell the kits any more!! i asked my mom if i could buy a new fone with my own money and she told me no ! Its not fair that my sister gets a new fone fully paid for but im not even allowed to buy my own !! Its not even that i want the best ... i just want something new so that i can hook it up into my car! Ive tried every thing i can think of and please dont say talk to her cause it never works !
I say go buy it yourself. You want to pay for your new phone with your money that you have. It's not her money. You should be able to spend the money you made on whatever you wish. So, I say, go out there and get that phone!
im 14..female and i weigh 124 lbs...i hav curves definatly...well im nto happy with my body..i want to be size 00 and small...all the guys like small gurls..i look like a cow in a bathing suit and am starting to get cellulate on thighs/butt...i feel fat in anything i wear now...my point is is that im thinkin about going annorexic...bc i have a really pretty face and a ugly body if i go annorexic i will be pretty...maybe not full blown annorexic..but like not alot of food...a little bites here and there...but not alot @ all...and not makeing myself throw up..just not eating....how soon do u think i will lose weight...plz dont say "dont do this blah blah" bc i just want to know how much weight do u think i will lose in 2wks? plz answer that ?!!
Okay, so you want us not to say "Don't do this". Okay, I won't say don't do this, but it's your life. Mmm, how much weight you will lose in 2 weeks, a lot. You'll be super small.. I'm saying you'll probably lose about 15-20 pounds if not, more.
what are 2 jobs similar to a wedding planner?
Party planner, florist, a cake maker, a decorator, dress maker.
When I was 12 years old, I was raped, and became pregnant. I never told my daughter how she was conceived. She is 13 years old, and I just found out that she's pregnant. Her boyfriend's father kicked him out of his house as a result. Abortion is out of the question. We have to decide whether my daughter and her boyfriend will raise the baby themselves or allow me to adopt the child. So I have three questions.
1. How do I tell my daughter the truth about how she was conceived?
2. Should I allow her boyfriend to move in with us, and if so, is it okay to make them sleep in seperate rooms? (His only other option is to move out of the country with his mother.)
3. Do you think it would be better for my daughter to raise her child or should I adopt the baby? (I was unable to have any other children.)
Sorry so long, but any advice would be appreciated.
1. Just sit her down one day, kidda have a day of just you and her together. Just simply say that when you were 12 you were raped and got pregnant. Do tell her that even though that happened she means the world to her and you love her.
2. Yes, you should allow her boyfriend to move in with you. Yes, it is okay for you to make them sleep in seperate rooms. Her boyfriend sounds like he doesn't have anyone to turn to, besides you guys. I don't think she would want her boyfriend to move. He should be close to his kid and be there for your daughter.
3. You should talk this over with your daughter. She's probably not ready for a child, but you should let her keep it. Just help her out with the child when she's having a hard time, be there for her.
is wakling just (or close) as good for you as running? like can i loose weight from walking 20 minutes a day or does it have to be running? thanks i rate!!
Yep, walking is just as good as running. But, if you would like to lose weight a little more faster, running is better.
do you have boobs ?
*Looks down* Yah, I guess I do. What about you?
how should i keep my belly FLAT?
Do crunches before you go to bed every night.