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I just started tanning and the other day my mom told me to make sure to wear a bra when i go in because its bad if i dont. Is that true? Could i get breat cancer from not wearing one? Or any thing else because i thought that tanning could only give you skin cancer and eye damage.

im pretty sure nothing can happen i mean your mom told you that she just wants to be safe but u can ask her or u could ask your tanning place that you go to! G00D LUCK! X0X`

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ok there is this guy i like but i dont know how 2 tell him i like and i think he likes my friend so wat should i do

you could tell him that you like him by writing him a note and hiving to him or putting it in his locker, u could also talk to him in person and tell him how you feel, you could tlel him over the phone, or have a friends talk to him for you, just make sure that you tell him how you feel toward him! G00D LUCK! X0X`

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there is this Kid that i happen to have a crush on but of course my luck he likes my best friend. my friend dosent like him and he knows. he comes over to my house almost every weekend and hangs out with her and i, im really starting to fall for him what should i do?

you really need to tell him how you feel, maybe he likes you you should just tell him how you feel! G00D LUCK! X0X`

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i have this project to do and it says that i have to create a timeline of WWII also the holocaust but it also says be creative. i have all the information but i need a creatine way of making a time line for that period of time

one thing that would maje your project awsome and what teachers love is when the project is colorfull! G00D LUCK! X0X`

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thanks for your adive....but i have a problem i dont know how to express myself. i can do it here fine but in person or on the phone i dont think i have the courage to do that. im afraid he is going to be like get over it or he will tell me he never had feelings for me. do u have any ideas on how i could ask him without freaking out

you could try writing him a note and haveing like one of your friends give it to him or in his locker, or you could have one of your friends talk to him yet that wouldnt be the same, maybe you should wait for a time when u build up enough crouage to talk to him face to face that would be the best thing to do, u go up to him and tell him we need to talk and then just tell him what has been going on!i really hope i helped! G00D LUCK!` X0X`

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i am 15 and never liked someone as much as i like "4" ( we will pretend thats his name* He was my first boy that i fell head of heels in love with. We hooked up and sadly he was the first person ive ever done anything with. and he knew that and made that night i spent with him one of the best in my life. i went to the spring dance with him, i had a great time and so did he!BUT here comes the problem, hes next door neighbor is in love with him....and shes was getting pissed at me because i was with him at the dance and ya i think they hooked up this past weekend. i never really had him but i thought i was close and i dont want him to go. another problem is he is 18 and heading off for the whole summer and then he wil be gone in the fall for college. i really dont know what to do,im sick of beeing confused can u please help me :(

wow, the best thing to do in this problem is that u need to tell him how you feel, and tell hi mthat u really like him and express your feelings to him,G00D LUCK X0X`

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My friend is soo rude, she's 15, and i'm 15 too! Well yesterday was her birthday and on Friday she wants to have a birthday celebration by going to the movies, she invited me. Now she's asking me if my mom can take us! It's pissing me off because isn't her mom supposed to take us seen as it's her bday party. What can i tell her

tell her that its her party and that her mom needs to take everyone becuase its not your party s0 ur m0m dosent need to take you and i just think that thats really rude to ask if anothers persons mom can take them and their friends to the movies! tell her how you feel! G00D LUCK X0X`

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Today at lunch we had these chicken nuggets in a gravy kinda sauce.It was really messy and I went to eat one and my so called friend shoved it in my mouth.It was all over my face and I got so pissed off at her.I kept saying to her` that was really mean, i would never do anything like that to you` I mean how could she do something so cruel to someone who is her friend?! We always get in arguments, but sometimes she can be nice. I can never get her to apoligize though, even when she does the damage I end up apoligizing.It makes me feel weak that I gotta give into her, so what should I do? She makes it seem like I'm being overly sensitive but a while back she could have done anything to me and I wouldn't of cared.I'm just sick of being treated the way she treats me...

you need to tell her how you feel and tell her that she always isnt going to get second chances! and your not being over sensitive you just cna forgive obivsly she cant! G00D LUCK!
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my name is *Cassy*

I like this one boy that sits acrossed from me in class and every day we look into each others eyes for like 10 minutes and he always has a satisfied look on his face, can you tell me some ways to see if he likes me????? I RATE HIGH!!! please give me some advice...:-(

most likely he DIFFENATLY likes you let hi mknwo you liek him know! G00D lUCK! X0X`

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For the past 3 years I have been walking home its al been safe and no one ever got hurt, untill today....
My sister (Shes 12 and in 5th grade) was walking hom with her boyfriend (same age as kate) like any other day and the light was green but no cars were comming so as kate waited for the light to turn red her boyfrined darted acoross the road for no cars were comming, it that short of time someone turned out of a parking lot a couple yards away and turned and hit the little boy, My little sister saw the accident and heard the band of the TRUCK hit the little boy flinging him and then stoped a couple feet away from where his body layed. He was life flighted to a hospital because he was bleeding and complaning about his back hurting. My sister has calmed down after being REALLLY upset and crying none stop for an hour shes not home right now shes with my dad and i want to know. Is he going to be okay? Hes little ., Whats the chance of his surviving? IT SCARES ME SOO MUCH BECAUSE IF SHE WOULD OF FOLLOWED HIM SHE WOULD BE IN MY SHOES,
also my best friend and sister always say that i am a "mother hen" and make fun of me because if a car isnt slowing down fast enough evne during a red light or if i even think a car is going to be too close i will hold them bakc with my arms ... and then today.. I am sick to my stomich!

PLEASE ANWER!!!
THANKS SOO MUCH

for his chances of survivle it depends on how badly he is injured, if its horrible then he has a lease chance of surviving and if the actcident wasent that bad then he has a better chance it all depends, if he is in the hospital u could go and ask his doctor or call his parents and ask, im so sorry! hope i helped! G00D LUCK! X0X`

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Hey. I'm Colleen. I'm 14/f.

Me and my three best friends, Emily, Ally, and Marissa have been best friends for a while. We've never gotten into a fight until this year. Were always fighting now and talking about eachother. I don't even really think were best friends anymore because Emily told me that she doesn't think Marissa likes her anymore because she never talks to her. Instead she talks ABOUT her to me. They both do. I don't think Ally likes me because she ignores me. Ally told me in a note that Emily said to their other friend Jackie that it seems like Jackie and Ally are best friends and me and Marissa are best friends. I like them all the same and I really wanna be best friends with them again! What should I do?

xoxo_CoLLeEn!*!

diffeantly tell them how you feel . .tel them that things arnt liek they used to be and u liekd them better that way! G00D LUCK! X0X`

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is it safe to have sex while your on your period?

well . . not if u dont use a condom! X0X`

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My BF and I have been going out for a month. And we kiss and W/E outside of school, but past couple of days we have been doing little kisses after 4th. we both feel kinda uncomfortable cause all my friends go AWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW really loudly n obviously when we do and its really annoying! i've told them to stop but they dont! have can i make them?! i rate ^^

tell them that it really borthers you and u want them to please stop bucasue it makes you guys feel uncomfortable! G00D LUCK! X0X`

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Does anyone know another html code that creates underlining besides

here is site where u can find it . .http://www.buddy4u.com/view/?u=xXx+HTML+xXx
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they dont care...they think im not worth it

people care. . IM me! X0X`

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okay my friends..lets call them...bob, tom, joe, and billy...bob, tom and joe are mad at me because me and billy are buddys..they think were to buddyish..its so stupid...and they are my closest friend besides my buddy...they think when i go around her i get hyper if im sad befor..there all in my class except billy.. so i have no1 in class...what do i do...sorry for the langht

just tell your friends how you feel! X0X`

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the mouse on my laptop broke, the one where you use your finger to move.. and it wont move at all and this has been happening for the past 2 weeks and everytime the mouse doesnt work, i need to press tab to get everywhere. i tried to plug in a mouse but there are no plugs for the mouse. i heard that all laptops had this but why doesnt this laptop have it? by the way this laptop is from dell and it saysinspiron | 1100 on the top ..can someone help me make the mouse work?

i dont knwo of a way to get it to work and i went through the same thing with my computer and u shoudl try to go to the place were u bought your laptop and then tell them what your problem is and then they fixed it! hope it helped! X0X`

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theres this boy...my mom like loves him and she wants me to go out with him and he's all she talks about..well i rlly like him and he knows that..we walk home together everyday and just like talk about different stuff..but i really wanna kno wat he thinks about me and if he likes me back and stuff...please help me find a way to ask him wat he thinks without lookin desperate because he's not in my grade...he's a grade lower but he's my age so it's okay

have a friend or someone ask him if he likes you or wateverbecause at my school thats what everyone does and it works! X0X`

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Ok im 13. I have a boyfriend but..i always so nervous around him, like i dont know what to say and i dont want to say something stupid or embarrasing. We aren't in the same class and we dont live near eachother so we don't even really see eachother much. Then in school he won't come over to me and i can never find him and when i do see him he's always with this girl Deena and her boyfriend Jeff. I really wish i wasn't soo nervous to talk to him and we could be closer and hold hands and hug. What should i do?
Signed ~Lemontwist

i TOLLEY knwo how you feel like the EXACT SAME thign happened to me okay, when your shy like around him then that just proves like how much you like him! okay, you should one of your friends talk to him and say you should liek hang out with her and hug her and stuff because my friend did that and it toelly worked! X0X`

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