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i am 15 and never liked someone as much as i like "4" ( we will pretend thats his name* He was my first boy that i fell head of heels in love with. We hooked up and sadly he was the first person ive ever done anything with. and he knew that and made that night i spent with him one of the best in my life. i went to the spring dance with him, i had a great time and so did he!BUT here comes the problem, hes next door neighbor is in love with him....and shes was getting pissed at me because i was with him at the dance and ya i think they hooked up this past weekend. i never really had him but i thought i was close and i dont want him to go. another problem is he is 18 and heading off for the whole summer and then he wil be gone in the fall for college. i really dont know what to do,im sick of beeing confused can u please help me :(
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wow - you really care about him. first off, it's not sad that he was the first guy you've ever done stuff with-there's gals out there who's maybe in there 30's who haven't done stuff with guys yet - so don't fret *lol* - anyways i think that you should ask him if anything happened between him and the "girl next door" because if something did happen then he's obviously not getting what he wants from you or he lost interest - sorry if that was mean but sometimes the truth hurts hun(trust me i know =) but if he said nothing happened - you should trust what he says. about him going to college - you shouldn't be too sad about that. he's going away to get an education which equals a job for when he gets older. you can always keep in touch with letters, fax, email, IM, or phone calls - also he should be able to get the holidays maybe weekends off every now and then to come and visit you, but if you stop talking and he stops coming to see you very slowly - either he's getting tired of being tied up - or he's with someone new(sorry to tell you hun - dont worry though it happens to a lot of people)
-hope for the best for you!!
-good luck hun =)
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i believe that you should deffinatly tell him your feelings. if he truly cares about you enough he will take it serious and most likely take you up on an offer for a date. but if you don't tell him you wont know for the rest of your life. and that is something awful to live with. good luck with "4"
xo friendly advise ox
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wow, the best thing to do in this problem is that u need to tell him how you feel, and tell hi mthat u really like him and express your feelings to him,G00D LUCK X0X`
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Well, this guy obviously means a lot a lot to you and you definitly mean a lot to him... forget about that skanky next door neighbor. You didn't see him with her at the dance, did you? NO! He was taking time out of his day to spend with you! That's love! About the whole... college issue... it's about his education. Sweetie, there's nothing you can possibly do about it. He HAS to go to college. But on holidays, they let out college students and he can see you. It might not be a whole lot but... still... it should be good for you. You can write a letter every day and stuff. I remember when I was in college. The guy I was dating never went to college so I had to break up with him because we were in Texas and I went to Arizona State University! Still, you guys love each other. Just... hang in there, sweetie. You can handle this. BE TOUGH! LOL.
LUV YA LOTS!
BEST OF LUCK!
~~~Kayla~~~
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Hey!
Well that is a problem. If it were me... i would say screw your nieghbor but me and my nieghbors aren't very close. Your nieghbor shouldn't effect you he likes YOU not her. I bet he didn't hook up with her from what you have said. However, there is nothing you can do about "4" going to college, he has to go. but you know what you can see each other on his breaks and stuff. Best of Luck!
~*~Sour~*~
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try to see what he did that weekend. if he lies then hes not for you. and college- he will visit and there is always IM and phone calls. dont worry
~natt~
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