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Liar Liar
Ok i have this friend Jackie, She's really fun and she acts like the best friend ever. but she has this lying thing that she wont stop. she'll lie about anything!! her dad hates me so i cant hang around with her around him and she lies about him too. when i ask if she can do something, she'll lie and say her dad is home just because she wants to go somewhere else. then she'd make stupid things up like i have a crush and she'll say "OMG I SAW *HIM* AND HE SAID HI JACKIE! WHATS UP. IM GOING TO CALL RACHEAL TODAY" and then i didnt believe her, bc i never do cuz shes always lying. so i went and i asked him if he saw her and he's like, no...i didnt. so she lies all the time. AND she'll look for stupid reasons to fight with anyone. I've told her i knew she was lying all the time and i wanted her to stop but then she got mad at me for like 7 months and then im always the one to apoligize even though i didnt do anything. so how can i make her stop lying and not get mad at me for nothing?
thanx so much!
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I know someone just like her. With a person like her, you are going to have to cut to the chase to solve this. Talk with her. Tell her you are tired of her lies. Tell her it needs to stop or you can't stay friends with her, that you need to be able to trust your friends. The big thing to do though- don't take a break while telling her this. She will likely make excuses. '
Good luck,
~*Tiffany*~
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SAME PROBLEM GIRL!! ,kayla >:O. Well what you have to do is hang out with at least some different people,and she must be a good liar... thats how kayla is to me. DONT tell her a lot of things but make it seem your open with her so she isnt sad or mad... and never talk about anyone behind there backs to her...shes the type that will tell that person everything bad you say just so you guys wont be friends...she likes to get involved with your personal life ..so dont tell her everything about you[[personal wise]]
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Hey!
I had the same problem. One of my best friends, Alexa, did the same thing to me only worse. she would deny we were ever friends around some people but when it was just us it would be like we were sisters. I would recomend talking to her first but In the end you may have to no longer be her friend anymore. I know it is hard to hear but as soon as you are no longer friends, or you get over her not only will you make REAL friends but you will discover who you really are! But you may never get her to stop lying. sorry but Good Luck!
~*~Sour~*~
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I understand completly what you are experiencing. Tell her,friends- dont need to lie to eachother..so why lie? If she keeps lieing don't be friends with her..How good of a friend can she be if she has to make up stories for attention...It seems kinda desperate and tell her that. If it ends your friendship..so what? there are so many people out there who arent so pethetic to make up stuff.
Good luck,
LiSa*
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She is being a fake friend. I dont think you should even be freinds with her. I mean I know you want to but thats just her. She will never stop lying. Just let her lie and dont talk to her for a while. If she gets mad at you screw her cause shes so ignorant. You have way more better friends and you dont need her trust me. Just try to make this work between you guys and make sure she knows you arent kidding about it! ♥
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You could probably stop being her friend. Or you can be and remain the ultra gullible idiot you are and stay her friend.
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