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Ok im 13. I have a boyfriend but..i always so nervous around him, like i dont know what to say and i dont want to say something stupid or embarrasing. We aren't in the same class and we dont live near eachother so we don't even really see eachother much. Then in school he won't come over to me and i can never find him and when i do see him he's always with this girl Deena and her boyfriend Jeff. I really wish i wasn't soo nervous to talk to him and we could be closer and hold hands and hug. What should i do?
Signed ~Lemontwist
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sounds as if this is a boyfriend/girlfriend for the sake of saying that he has one maybe?
If I were you, I'd just keep this as looking at him as a friend and keep your options open, you are going to want someone who is going to be a friend to you first and doesn't sound like he's really doing that at school. Not saying this to hurt your feelings, but don't sell yourself short. Someone who really cares about you is going to be willing to also spend time with you. :)
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I'd probably talk to him more... he sounds kind of shy. And he's your boyfriend, so he probably wouldn't be all 'uh, I hate you, go away.' .. and seriously, you're always going to be nervous about talking to someone you like... just push it to the back of your mind. Invite him to go some place with you, and if you want to get 'closer' make the first move.
At least say hi to him in the hallway.. as long as Deena has a boyfriend, she shouldn't be much of a problem/care.
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Well, if you really like this guy the worst thing that could happen is rejection. If you spend time wondering what would happen if you did talk to him you'll never know what will actually happen until you do. Maybe he's shy too just like you...if you talk to him maybe you both wont be as shy and maybe something could happen...i hope i help! <3cK =)
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Just when your walking down the hallway, grab his hand and hold it lightly. it took me and my bf a bit to get over being nervous. but once the first move is made, it kinda all falls into place after that and you wont worry so much
gl <3
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i TOLLEY knwo how you feel like the EXACT SAME thign happened to me okay, when your shy like around him then that just proves like how much you like him! okay, you should one of your friends talk to him and say you should liek hang out with her and hug her and stuff because my friend did that and it toelly worked! X0X`
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