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Today at lunch we had these chicken nuggets in a gravy kinda sauce.It was really messy and I went to eat one and my so called friend shoved it in my mouth.It was all over my face and I got so pissed off at her.I kept saying to her` that was really mean, i would never do anything like that to you` I mean how could she do something so cruel to someone who is her friend?! We always get in arguments, but sometimes she can be nice. I can never get her to apoligize though, even when she does the damage I end up apoligizing.It makes me feel weak that I gotta give into her, so what should I do? She makes it seem like I'm being overly sensitive but a while back she could have done anything to me and I wouldn't of cared.I'm just sick of being treated the way she treats me...
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Maybe you should talk to her and tell her that she's acting really mean. You shouldn't have to apologize to her unless you did something to her, not the other way around.
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i've had a friend that is in the same position as you... she was being pushed around and she just finally got sick and tired of it... there may be a reason behind that though, she might be insecure with herself or may be having problems and she takes it out in the wrong ways, or she may just want attention. .. talk to her about it and tell her that you don't appreciate it when she pushes you around and that you wanted to be treated with respect. *good luck* :)
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honestly. if it were me i would tell her the if she didn't start treating me like a friend should then we can't be friends anymore.if you really do want to stay frinds with her tell her that the way shes been treating you is awful and you really won't let her treat you like that anymore. if she still trys to make it seem like your fault or that you're being overly sensitive tell her that its not your fault and your reaction is perfectly normal. stand up for yourself and let her know that you're not going to take that shit anymore. you deserve better. maybe she'll finally get the message, in the mean time try to spend more time with frineds who make you feel good, it'll really raise your spirits.
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I know people like this, so I speak from experience here.
If you want to keep the friendship, then I say you should go up to her while she's alone and talk to her. Tell her that you don't appreciate that she's treating you like that, and that if she doesn't stop, that you shouldn't be friends anymore, since friends are supposed to hold you up, not bring you down.
Or, if you're sick of her altogether, I would just let her know that if she's gonna treat you like she has, then you don't wanna be her friend. Ignore her from then on.
You don't deserve to be treated like that! Stand up for yourself. You'll feel so much better.
I hope I helped, and if you have any more questions, feel free to leave one in my inbox!
*Manders*
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Ok... so you've been telling her that shes been being mean to you and you don't like. Have you ever heard of the golden rule?? Simply do what she does to you to her and see if she likes it. Then when she gets mad tell her that she does all of the same kind of mean things to you. If your not the type to be mean to people, giver her the silent treatment fro a while. Maybe she'll come around. If she doesn't, well maybe she isn't much of a friend.
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Dont let her treat you like that because you need friends who treat you better and you deserve better. Tell her she needs to stop because you dont like how she is being mean to you. She doenst seem like a good friend. Also let her know she wont be able to do that because there wont be other chances or anything! You are defenetlly not being to sensitive! That would make me really mad to! Just dont worry about it but let her know you really mean what you say. ♥
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you need to tell her how you feel and tell her that she always isnt going to get second chances! and your not being over sensitive you just cna forgive obivsly she cant! G00D LUCK!
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