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miss fickle!
hi, i'm chloe
This boy asked me to go out with him as in be in a girlfriend, boyfriend thing. I wanted to say yes but said no instead because, I wasn't sure I knew how to be someones girlfriend and would like more to go out on a couple of dates with him than start a relationship. But my friend had set the whole "asking me out thing" up, so I'd have a boyfriend and is now saying "he's probably the only boy who'll ever like you" which is making me regret doing it.But I'll look stupid if I ask him out now plus he's being a bit out of order to me at the moment. What should I do?
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#1)tell her this: that you dont know how and would rather experiment going on a few dates before becoming his girlfriend/him being you boyfriend.
#2)Tell him the same thing you told your friend who set you up.
#3) if your notinto him then just tell him and her. the truth is always best. trust me i know.
hope i helped
-janelle
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If he was a bit out of order you probably did the right thing. In the future if you change your mind you will have to tell him, because chances are he won't ask for fear of getting rejected.
As far as him being the only one to ever ask you out... that's just laughable. Of course someone else will ask you out. That is just silly! :)
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Wow.. what a nice thing for your friend to say. But I won't get into that matter. As for this guy, go out on a couple dates with him. It's okay if you want to get to know him better than automatically jump into a relationship. But if you think you are, then maybe you should inform him of that? Tell him you like him, he asked you out, so chances are he likes you too. And wouldn't mind going out with you TOO much, since you apparently will never find anyone else. (I'M KIDDING!!)
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whoa, fist of all, what sort of real friend makes a statement like that??
If you don't feel comfortable with becoming someone's "girlfriend" without knowing them, then by all means don't do it.
Sounds to me like you are very wise in that matter.
And if he's reacting that way after rejection, I would not worry with him either.
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you don't have to "know" how to be someone's girlfriend... just be yourself... if you feel comfortable going on a few dates with him first so that you can get to know him better, tell him that . i doubt that he will be the only guy that will ever like you... there's plenty of great guys out there that you'll meet that will like you... but just tell him that you want to get to know him better and then once you're more comfortable being around him, he will probably get the hint. *hope i helped* :)
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you cant really take lessons on being a girlfriend or anything, if you really like this boy things should come naturally, even if its a bit akward at first thats probably because of nerves. i think that if you want to go out with him then you should ask him now. also in regards to you friend saying "he's probably the only boy who'll ever like you" thats a really mean, not very friend-like thing to say, im sure he WONT be the only boy to ever like you, there will be many more to come and if this friend is always saying things like that shes not a very good friend...sorry i went a bit off topic...i think if you do really like him then you should ask him out, i'll bet he'll be so happy that he won't even think about whether you look stupid or not. i think he may just be being "a bit out of order" to you because he liked you and you said "no", he probably just feels rejected.
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~rainbow
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You don't have to "know" how to be a girlfriend. It should all come nauraly in liking someone, and if you really like a guy, you should know how you want to act around him. I think you should ask him out again before it's too late.
~Alexa~
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