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Q: Can anyone teach me some simple words and phrases in Hindi? Anything people say on a regular basis? Thanks!
try these sites:

http://www.wordanywhere.com/

http://www.eternalglories.com/faq/hindiwords.htm

http://home.unilang.org/courses/hindi/lesson2.htm

http://www.earthyfamily.com/I-words.htm

http://utopianvision.co.uk/hindi/dictionary/

http://www.eholidaysindia.com/language.htm

i hope those help you out....also try going on google and type in the search "hindi words and phrases" google works wonders ;]

♥ danielle

Q: 19/f
I lost my virginity to my boyfriend a few days ago in the shower. I happened to notice some blood trickling down the drain. It wasn't a lot, but it was enough to concern me. Is that normal? Please tell me!
it sounds to me like you broke your hymen or another name for it is that you "popped your cherry" it happens everytime its your first time having sex,but you can also break your hymen by inserting a tampon,horseback riding,when you masterbate putting something huge up your vagina,etc not just when its your first time having sex.You shouldnt bleed too much and it should stop just put a pad in your underwear if its getting all over your underwear and you should be fine,but if it dosent stop for about a week i would suggest going to a doctor,if you need anymore help or have any questions just leave one in my inbox ;]

♥ danielle

Q: i met this guy the other month through a friend..and he seems realli sweet and always textin me and phoning me...but the problem is he lives too far away! i have feelings for this guy and always thinking about him and want to be with him.
does this mean im madly in love with this guy even though we cant see each other?
Ahh im in the same situation as you....im in love with this kid he used to live in the same state as me but then had to move to florida which is far away which sucks because i think about him all the time and i wish he was here with me.I feel in love with him rather quickly hes the first guy that ive loved.Sometimes you just know when your in love.Love is when you cant really explain it but you know your in love hes just different then all the other guys youve liked and your feelings are also different with him and you want to talk to him every second of the day and wish you could just be with him right at that second.And whenever you think about him you cant help but smile.The truth is only you really know if your in love him or not you just know.I cant really tell you that you are or not its however you feel,youll know what love is and feels like.Maybe you both can plan to see each other one day.I hope i could help hun if you have anymore questions just leave one in my inbox :]


♥ danielle

Q: do you think that the song "Daughters" by John Mayer is a good father/daughter dance song for the father/daughter dance during a wedding reception?

opinions are much appreciated!! thanks!
I love that song! it would be perfect i heard it at a wedding when the bride danced with her father it was cute its a good choice of song to play for that dance.

♥ danielle

Q: is there a tracker for myspace that actually works???? all the ones i have gotten into dont do anythinggg
the only one i know of that works pretty well is http://www.trakzor.com/ but thats only if someone who views your profile has one also which pretty much sucks and can be worthless.So other then that nope the rest are all a piece of junk and dont work at all so dont believe anything you hear about those "awesome trackers" because that dont work plus myspace dosent allow any "real" trackers either.


♥ danielle

Q: I might have oral sex with my boyfriend so I was wondering, when he cums, are you supposed to spit or swallow it? What is more common?
Its whatever you prefer.The more common one is swallowing it,guys like it when you swallow it too but their cum sometimes tastes bad and sometimes tastes good it varies ive heard if they eat fruit or something sweet that their cums tastes better but i dont think thats a proven fact.If your uncomfortable to swallow it then spit it out your boyfriend im sure will understand you could get stds if you swallow it which isnt good.You could also just let the cum go on your chest and then after hes done wash it off in the bathroom.But i msure your boyfriend will respect you on whatever decision you make.Have Fun!

♥ danielle

Q: What are some good techno songs?


i found some websites that said which were the best techno songs...


http://www.make-your-own-dance-and-techno-songs.com/best-techno-songs.html

http://forum.pcstats.com/archive/index.php/t-17508.html

http://filesharingtalk.com/vb3/t107255.html

http://www.synthtopia.com/Articles/ElectronicMusicStylesTech.html

♥ danielle

Q: When you make out is it more normal to close your eyes or keep them open? If I just kept my eyes open would it be weird? What do you guys do?
Its more normal and more romantic to keep your eyes closed in my opinion.You can keep your eyes open,but i wouldnt suggest it,it would look kinda weird and maybe seem a little uncomfortable for you.I keep my eyes closed :]

♥ danielle

Q: Is there a way to rip your jeans so it looks natural??
Ive never actually ripped my jeans ive wanted too but my mom dosent like the whole style of it,but anyways i found some websites where it shows you how to get ripped jeans i hope they work out for you.....

http://www.wikihow.com/Rip-Your-Own-Jeans

http://www.wikihow.com/Distress-Jeans-Without-Using-Sand-Paper

http://reviews.ebay.com/How-To-Rip-Your-Jeans_W0QQugidZ10000000000007806

http://sg.answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20060628135938AAZLfKN

http://hipforums.com/forums/printthread.php?t=26842

http://www.menshealth.co.uk/talk/thread.phtml/post788504/



♥ danielle


Q: so ive been on my period for about..3 days now *first time* and it is getting heavier each day, or it seems to be. and i was wondering if that was normal and if there is anything else i need to know. thnks in advance :]
Yupp hun its completely normal :]
Go here for more information on your period:
http://kidshealth.org/teen/sexual_health/girls/menstruation.html

♥ danielle

Q: im 14 years old and f. im going into 9th grade, ive been going out w/ my bf for almost 10 months and we have dry sex is that slutty?
In my opinion no,its good that you guys are having dry sex instead of actual sex because their are actual concequences(sp)when you do that.I have friends who do dry sex and theres not the type of people who you would think are "slutty" in anyway.So dont think thats slutty at all its perfectly fine ;]

♥ danielle


Q: What are awesome vacation spots you've been to? Tokyo is a must-go on my list, but I can't go there this year and don't know where else to go.
I havent been to any of these places but i know people who have been to them and they say their beautiful! In Mexico theres cabo san lucas and cancun,all of hawaiis islands are a must see,they key west in florida is a pretty place ive been there but if your not into the whole party or club scene it might not be the best place for you,theres also the bahamas,australia,france,oh and italy its gorgeous there.It really depends on what your interested in,what weather you like,things like that i suggest maybe searching on those type of vacation planner sites and find some places that you might be interested in.


♥ danielle

Q: ok so i need like a realy nice recipe too impress some people i want the recipe to be realy nice and a bit fancy not too fancy though and could you include all directions for it and what i need to make set the oven at etc. thanks bunches!

*+*mari*+*
I found this one website where it shows you a a couple of good recipes to impress your guests:http://ask.metafilter.com/mefi/27936
i hope that helps you out :]

♥ danielle

Q: i have a mole in my pubic area and i want to get it removed but i dont know what to tell my mom does it really mattter if i get it removed?
I have a mole there too.I would get it checked out by a doctor just to see what he/she thinks.It could be cancerious.TO know if you shoudl really go to the doctors check and see if the mole has changed colors or has gotten a little dry or flaky then thats a sign it should deffinately be removed.Ask your mom to take you to the doctors or ask her to look at it and see what she thinks.


♥ danielle

Q: im a heavy 15 year old, and i want to gett flatter abs before school starts in september. what could i do without trying to do a million crunches a night? thank you
Try these websites :

http://magazines.ivillage.com/marieclaire/mind/health/articles/0,,434735_637051,00.html

http://www.musclesurf.com/get-rid-of-love-handles.html

http://exercise.about.com/cs/abs/f/flatabs.htm

http://www.findarticles.com/p/articles/mi_m1608/is_3_18/ai_83343024/pg_6

http://www.faqfarm.com/Q/What_kind_of_ab_exercises_should_you_do_to_get_flat_abs

Do alot of cardio and pilates (they really sculpt your body and help you lose weight) also walk like on the treadmill or lift weights for 30 minutes 3 or 4 times a week.And dont eat foods high in cholesteroal (sp),sodium,transfat,and calories.Eat lots of veggies and fruits too ;]

♥ danielle

Q: Hi I’m a 16 year old female and I need some advice on something. I’m bisexual and nobody really knows except for a person that is close to me. She is a girl that I always had a feeling that she was bi or lesbian. So I have a crush on her and I invite her to my house. And it’s not easy for me to talk with people because I’m shy so it was a little awkward. But night comes and we are laying in bed talking and end up having sex that was amazing. So this happens a couple more times and I keep on trying to tell her that I have feelings for her but it’s really hard for me because I am SO confused about her. She tells me she’s bi then later she says she used to be and I’m thinking does she even like me or was she just using me. I have no one to talk to about this because nobody knows I’m a bi, and I’m just aching for this girl. I can’t get over her I’ve tried dating guys (which just doesn’t work it feels weird dating them, kinda like acting) and since I live in a small town there aren’t many girls my age that are gay that proclaim it (like me). And the ones that do are all in scenes.
So, how do I confort her about this, it's been months since we slept together and it's hard to bring it up because of the time. And just whta do you think about all of this?
Wow,this is kinda similar to a tv show i watch.Hmm i think either shes soo scared because she dosent want people to know or just nervous about you guys being together.Or,she just dosent want to admit to herself that she's bi or you know she could just be "experimenting" with girls for fun and just trying it out.I would just say "so and so i think that we should talk about our situation and our relationship with each other".If she just brushes it off and says whatever pretty much i would just move on im sure theirs plenty other teen girls that are either bi or is a lesbian in your area i would try maybe looking on google for a website on teen bisexuals/lesbians try even teen chat rooms and strike up a conversation with someone,but i know its gonna be tough to get over her,it takes me forever to get over a guy but youll pull through it.On the other hand,if she wants to talk about it and seems to still be interested in you,you should say something like "So so and so do you think maybe we could try this out? you know being a couple?" ask her when its just the two of you if youd like since youve said your a shy person i think it would be better.If you need anymore help with anything hun just leave me another in my inbox ; ] I hope i could answer your question,and i hope everything will work out for you! Good Luck!


♥ danielle

Q: How come when people ask you a private question and rate you, it doesn't count torward your raiting? I personally take more pride in answering a question that was asked to me personally because that person took the time and chose ME to give them the best advice.
I wondered that myself,i think it would be a good idea to have ratings count when their personally answered by you.I would see if your question is in the FAQ under the topic "miscellaneous" or if you are a moderator suggest it here :http://www.advicenators.com/discussion.php

♥ danielle


Hmm wow i guess i understand but thats still kinda stupid i mean who would really do that?! thts just odd to me

Q: I'm 17 and my ex is 22. We went out when i was 15 and he was 20. My friends all told me this was gross and weird, but i didn't think so
What are your opinions?
Also, is it illegal to go out with someone at that age?.....(in Canada)
That website should have the answer to your question about if its illigal or not:http://www.parl.gc.ca/information/library/PRBpubs/prb993-e.htm

Now for my opinion on the subject,i think its wrong.If you were 15 and he was 20 thats too big of an age gap.He could drink in one year and you couldnt even drive yet.Its like a man being with a child and i just think thats disgusting.Now,if you were like say 17 or 18 and he was 20 then id say its not that big of a deal because your closer in age.


♥ danielle

Q: I'm a 17 year old virgin. I haven't engaged in any sexual activity. I've been with my amazing boyfriend for almost a year and we have had conversations about sex. He's told me he likes when a girl shaves down there. I've never done that! How do I go about doing this before we do anything sexual? I don't want it to get irritated and not look right. How do I make sure it's smooth and what steps should I take?
Dont shave upwards because it will irritate the skin and cause you too have ugly red bumps and ingrown hairs.Shave downwards and dont forget to use lotion after,it will heal the skin and it usually causes you too not be as itchy down there.I thought this website might help you:http://www.hair-removal-shaver.com/shave-your-vagina.html


♥ danielle

Q: what r the pros and cons of using a tampon?
I really like tampons their pretty comfortable and you can leave them in their for up too 7 or 8 hours.You dont feel it in you either.The only bad thing i think is toxic shock syndrome it can make you really sick if you leave it in their over 7 or 8 hours.I foudn a website for pros and cons of tampons:

http://www.deliciouslivingmag.com/magazine/index.cfm?fuseaction=article&issueID=23&articleID=308

♥ danielle

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