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relationship issues
Hi I’m a 16 year old female and I need some advice on something. I’m bisexual and nobody really knows except for a person that is close to me. She is a girl that I always had a feeling that she was bi or lesbian. So I have a crush on her and I invite her to my house. And it’s not easy for me to talk with people because I’m shy so it was a little awkward. But night comes and we are laying in bed talking and end up having sex that was amazing. So this happens a couple more times and I keep on trying to tell her that I have feelings for her but it’s really hard for me because I am SO confused about her. She tells me she’s bi then later she says she used to be and I’m thinking does she even like me or was she just using me. I have no one to talk to about this because nobody knows I’m a bi, and I’m just aching for this girl. I can’t get over her I’ve tried dating guys (which just doesn’t work it feels weird dating them, kinda like acting) and since I live in a small town there aren’t many girls my age that are gay that proclaim it (like me). And the ones that do are all in scenes.
So, how do I confort her about this, it's been months since we slept together and it's hard to bring it up because of the time. And just whta do you think about all of this?
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Wow,this is kinda similar to a tv show i watch.Hmm i think either shes soo scared because she dosent want people to know or just nervous about you guys being together.Or,she just dosent want to admit to herself that she's bi or you know she could just be "experimenting" with girls for fun and just trying it out.I would just say "so and so i think that we should talk about our situation and our relationship with each other".If she just brushes it off and says whatever pretty much i would just move on im sure theirs plenty other teen girls that are either bi or is a lesbian in your area i would try maybe looking on google for a website on teen bisexuals/lesbians try even teen chat rooms and strike up a conversation with someone,but i know its gonna be tough to get over her,it takes me forever to get over a guy but youll pull through it.On the other hand,if she wants to talk about it and seems to still be interested in you,you should say something like "So so and so do you think maybe we could try this out? you know being a couple?" ask her when its just the two of you if youd like since youve said your a shy person i think it would be better.If you need anymore help with anything hun just leave me another in my inbox ; ] I hope i could answer your question,and i hope everything will work out for you! Good Luck!
♥ danielle
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