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Im 18 years old..born & raised in northern va. I love to have fun with my girls, and ofcourse love to shop. Im a goody goody and damn proud of it! Feel free to ask me any questions, thats what this website is for : )

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I went out with this guy for 5 months and then me and him broke up, but I still love him, but now I'm going out with this other guy. Well, me and him broke up too because I told him how I felt about the guy that i dated for 5 months. Now I dont know what to do because now that I'm not dating either, they both want to date me again and I don't know what to do because they are making me choose. What should I do? Please give me some good advice!

Choose the guy the old guy because you broke up with your new guy because you still had feelings for him..so obviously...you already chose the one you like.

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I absolutely love Christmas! I absolutely think its the bets time of year, and i begin celebrating it around the begining of november. Christmas goes by soo fast, why wait to decorate and listen to Christmas music and begin the christmas cheer? I feel like i'm the only one who feels like this..is there anybody else??

Im not even christian...and I love christmas. I love the snowy, christmas lights, merry feeling you know? But it's only good for some time..after a while you wanna go into spring...

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does any1 know any hair tips or anything i can do to get the paris hilton look? I rate! thanks!

Well, right after you wash your hair, (make sure you use conditioner) blow dry it straight. You should have someone else do it for you so it turns out nice from the back as well.

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okay.... i have a crush... well more than a crush on this guy. He is so so nice and really good looking. he has the best abs and body. The only hook to this awsome guy is he's...well.. my brother. What should i do? Should i tell him my feelings or should i keep it hush, hush?

Please Help Me.

Well, I dont think you really have feelings for him because he's your brother. You've known him all your life, and probably have a strong relationship with him, which makes you feel really close to him. I think your feelings are confused right now, and you definately shouldn't tell him because it will probably freak him out.

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okay i have tis problem there is this guy that i like, well i love! but when he is around me he acted like he likes me but i don't know how he feels, but i made up my mind to get over him he knows that i like him so i wrote him and e-mail saying that i think it would be better for us not to talk to each other at all and today i saw him and he was really staring at me but after church i avoid him so i didn't talk to him even konw i really wanted to.
so my question is should i just keep my distance or should i go up and talk to him!

Never let moments go by where later you'll think....I should've...
just go and talk to him...keeping your distance wont get you anything.

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Ok, theres this guy I like and ive liked him for a long time. This summer though, he would be kinda mean, but then he would ask me out...then so far this school year, he stares at me during class, but he goes and asks some other to homecoming...Does this guy like me or not. Please help me figure this out!

If he really liked you , I think he would ask YOU to homecoming. Or maybe he's tryna make you jealous by askin someone else? You should try talkin to him and if hes mean...den forget him...if he acts "normal"..that means he was just playin hard to get..i guess?

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What do you think is the scariest movie you have ever watched... I need some ideas for some really scary movies

Exorcist is scary..I still havnt seen all of it im so scared haha....umm..i heard the grudge was reeeally scary. THe amityville horror...rated scariest movie of all time by alot of polls...

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i always wanted a bf how do you get a bf lol other then flirting and if it is flirting what should i say and how can i communicate with him more ( tommorow im going to this party and i think he's going to be there)

Listen...im not the best person to ask this because i dont date BUT let me tell u one thing, dont ever get a boyfriend just to have one ... if you really like this guy...talk to him...get to kno him..make sure he doesnt already have a gf...and if he likes you, you'll know eventuallly somehow u know? if ur not sure get one of ur friends to find out from him...and if he does like u...tell him how u feel n dere u go..u got urself a man lol

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hey, 2morro is halloween, and i was wondering, wat would b some things yu could do with a couple friends? we're in 8th gradeee. thx =)

GO TRICK OR TREATING...i hate it when kids think their too old...come on im 16 and i wish i could go trick or treatin but i have to work! .. aye go see the grudge...heard its real good

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I have a question...
i know it mind sound really nasty,but i have a huge ass crush on one of my girl cuzins.i like her alot but i dunno wut she'll think of me if she finds out!!!i have really deep feelings for her,i mean everytime i see her i get nervouse and shit but da big deal is SHE'S MY CUZ!So please tell this P.I.M.P wut to do!!!!I AM 17 and my cuzin who i like, is 16

Hmm...well, in some cultures liking your cousin isn't a big deal...in my culture, its normal for cousins to get married. I don't know where your from, but if your white, I recommend getting over it because Im pretty sure your cousin will reject you..and probably never talk to you again. Also, if your just attracted to the way she looks, maybe you don't like her, just think shes pretty, you know what I mean?

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ok..i have a bf and we live kinda close but he goes to another school but i never see him we r in the same religion class but that is for only an hour every week and he doesnt really like to go out like to the movies so does anybody no wat i should do without breaking up with him
thanks

Talk to eachother on the phone, if you have a cell phone, let him call you at night time...and talk all night...get to know more about eachother you know? You guys can hang out at the foodcourt at your local mall...or go over to his house and study together. good luck*

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on a minimum, how much are u supossed to drink daily?

8 glasses of water a day is recommended but the more, the better!

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ive been with my boyfriend for just a week or so and he wants to have sex, and i want to too...and he told me he loved me but i dunno to belive him or not, what do i do?

wow, just a week? Okay, if you ask for my true advice, pre-marital sex is wrong, but thats because i have strong beleifs on that topic...which goes into religion and morals. but anyways, you've only been with him for a week, i really think you should a bit longer. YOu can try other sexual stuff, but just going all the way all of a sudden is too fast dont you think? and you don't even know if you beleive this guy taht he loves you....so how can you be so sure you want to take such a big step with him already? I think you should wait longer, get to know him better girl, this way you have nothing to lose and if he says..."if you wont do it with then ill leave" ... let him...trust me.

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ok ..im 14/f and one of my best friends is 14/m..he doesnt go to my school...although lives in the district and i seem him here and there...hes been askin me how to ask a girl out..and i kept telling him to be himself..he just wont listen to me on that part advice...and he kepts telling me to put myself in that position..and i said "no" then he said "well its not hard 4 u ur a girl" and i said "its hard 4 us as well..bc we have to turn down guys we dont like"..and i dk how to tell just to be himself..bc he wont listen to that...and he a few days ago he asked me "how do i ask a girl out and not get turned down??"..and im like idk its not something predictable...and he goes to a private school..and i go to public school..so i have no clue who this girl is..if i did ..i would have asked her if she liked him..but i dk ....so im pointless at this point...im suppose to go to the movies see him later today w/ one of our best friends..who goes to my school..who used lived down the street from him...so can u help me? -thx in advance *i rate*

Well rather than telling him.."just be yourself"...try tellin him.."Girls love it when guys are themselves around them" ... that might get him to listen! lol....and tell him that girls dont like guys who "try" or "act" different than who they really are...it really is unattractive you know? every girl wants to be with a guy who is laid back and nice naturally... aite girl good luck

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Hi everyone,
I came to USA 4 years back because of job and now in the attempt of earning and saving more money, I am stuck up here. My family( My wife and my kids) was with me for last 2 years and they went back recently to my home country because of certain family problems. I am missing my family too much. I dont know, how american/european/russian/asian people feel if they undergo in the same situation. Let me know what and how you feel. Thanks. MACHADS

Well no matter what race you are, if your family leaves you, no doubt your gonna miss them like crazy. Well to get through this hard time, try calling them alot...send them cards and letters letting them know you miss them...best wishes*

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my two bestfriends hate me for no reason! they think i talk about them when i dont nd ive told them a million times that i dont talk about them. i still want to be freinds with them, what should i do? please help!

Talk to them in person ... and ask them why they hate you all of sudden, tell them you'd never do something to hurt them .. and if they still refuse to listen, make sure you never say somethin sour to them because then they'll be like.."omg she really does talk shyt!"...so just stay nice to them...and tell them.."I thought we were bestfriends, I guess I was wrong" ... girl maybe their just jealous of you...you never know?

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This seems to constantly occur for me. I was hoping someone could help me. There's this guy who shall remain nameless and just recently I realized that I have liked him for awhile. Lets just say he's been on my mind a lot. Everytime I like a guy, one of my friends always has a crush on him too but I never say anything, I always remain silent on guys I like. I have a hard time. This time I think I blew it because there have been times where I would think that we both liked each other a lot and neither of us would say anything. It just sucks because I was finally going to tell him how I feel and one of my friends revealed that she had liked him for awhile. Now they are going to an event together and I don't know what to do?

Aww girl that must be hard...well since their already going together, theres not much you can do...you don't want to steal him from that girl because that girl is your friend...and the last thing you want to be known is as a boyfriend stealer. It would be wrong to go behind her back and flirt with him...and im sure you already know that. Well I guess this guy is out of your hands until your sure she's not interested. Maybe you could talk to her and ask her casually, "so whats up with you and ___?" If she says nothing really, you could tell her how you feel but if she says...oh im soo happy im with him...then you should back off and remember next time to tell your friends as soon as you have a crush so they wont even think about him...good luck*

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does anyone know how to fade freckles?
.:~*I rate 5's*~:.

You could get that power foundation stuff(available anywhere but the best kind if from hechts or aveda), go to them and tell them, I need foundation to hide my freckles and they'll def be happy to help you out.

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theres this guy that goes to my friends school....... My friends want me to go out with him for a week bc they feel bad for him.....but of course i wont.... so he asked me out like 20 times and i said nooooo and tell him i have a bf sooo he doesnt ask me out.... but he still does...... i dont want to go out with him bc hes not, not, not my type. He asks my friends when my birthday is and its soon so hes getting me something... what to i do to make him stop

haha yeah that does get annoying..and its like.."ugh i actually felt sorry for you.." haha well, I think if you've already told him nicely you don't like him...then it's your right to tell him in a harsh way to stop bugging you. I mean...annoyance can turn into harassment pretty quickly...let him know clearly that you aint interested. Next time he asks you out, be like. "Damn did you not get the point the first 100 timez i told you? I DON FREAKIN LIKE YOU .. GET LOST!" yeah its mean but itll work.

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I have a boyfriend, whom I have been dating for two years and 2 months. I started college this year. The college is just a couple of hours away from home. We seen each other two days before I left for college, but have only talked four times since then. I have tried to get together with him on weekends that I'm home, especially this past weekend because it was homecoming weekend and also his birthday was this past Monday. He doesn't seem interested in talking with me. I haven't received one letter or phone call from him since we have been down there, yet all the other girls in the dorm that have a boyfriend have either gotten a million letters from their significant other or got a phone call from him, or both. That would be my roommate. I don't know if I should ditch him or give him a little more time because he may be too caught up in school work. I'm too afraid to talk to him about it because I'm afraid of how he might react. Can anyone help me and guide me in the direction I need to go?

In a relationship you should never be afraid of how your man is going to react...hmm....it's really weird he hasnt even called you, come on, if he really missed you dont you think he could pick up that phone and dial up? You should definately talk to him about it, dont hold feelings in cause that'll drive you insane and hurt you more. Talk to him but dont mention your other roommates...wouldnt you hate it if he compared you with other girlfriends? But yeah, tell him that you miss talking to him and ask if he feels the same...ask him what he wants but in a casual and sweet way...good luck

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