about

Hey, my names Ariellll but I go by Rel. I don't look nor act my age & I know more than I should for my age, I lllloveee yo give advice, & think I do a pretty good job, wanna know if I really do, then ask me a question : ) !

First off -- I'm a very honest and straight forward person. I don't like drama and I'm pretty chill. When I'm older I would like to be a therapist. So, this site really allows me to practice ! :)

I tend to go by the fllllow and don't regret much. I'm in love with Lillll' Wayne. I could watch movies everyday of my life.



advice

there was this random 8th grader today talking to my friend, and i was like behind them so i didnt hear anything since we were like walking to our next classes, and then later she said she didnt know him and he was all like "where are you going?" then she told him where and the teacher and he was like saying how she was a good teacher and asked if he should walk her there. then he whispered to his friend that he was a fine woman?? haha i keep laughing at this and my friend said he had like a dreamy voice.. do you think he may like her? we dont really know, but we're going to see on monday, maybe. i was wondering who he was when i first saw them cause he was kinda leaning into her and it kinda seemed like he could have liked her.. i have no idea, haha but its funny that its this random 8th grader, though he's in our hallway.. and his classroom is right by ours! stalker? haha not sure, but kinda doubt it... anyway, what do you think? and what should she do about this situation?

It seems to me like hes joking, not to sound rude but alot of guys do that. Hes probably not a stalker. He could like her, just tell her to play around with him, maybe get to know him, become friends?

[view]

my ex-girlfriend called me " a whiffy" she said thats not how it is spelled and won't tell me because she loved to just annoy me.
so anyone know a word that sounds like that in another language and it's translation
possible it is
french
german
spanish
.
One of ym friends said it means old man.

Maybe their calling you "wifey" like wife/married couple. Alot of girls do that in my school.

[view]

My dad always calls me spoiled.. and i don't wanna be- but i think i am. I only buy designer stuff(not versacee.. but like a&f .. and hollister) i have 3 tiffany necklaces && 1 bracelet. I have lacoste polos. Ipod.. tv&& computerr.. and more...
I just don't want to be noted as spoiled..
am i?
thankss

In my personal opinon i don't think your spoiled because i buy things from there and juicy jeans and stuff. People always call me spoiled and so does my family. Being spoiled isnt a bad thing, it's if you act it. Like concieted and act like your better than people. Just think of it as your more fortunate than others, don't let it bother you. Your parents love you so they buy you those things. i think its fineee.

[view]

this girl at school told me that some guy david or somthing had a website and he goes on myspace and takes pictures and adds captions and posts them on his website. she's not exactly my friend so i don't know if she was lying or not because she said my sister was on there. does anyone know about this?

wait does he likes put them in his myspace slide show and then put their names under it. because i've got a guy that does that and his name is david and i dont know him?

[view]

Okay ive made out with a few guys before..but my new boyfriend never has..i really like him and i wanna make out with him like suuuper bad hehe but yea he says that he will mess it up and that he'll look stupid..it drives me crazy because i really want to make out with him..what do i do to make him ready?

tell him to go to www.sextutor.com theres everything there, from kissing to sex. It will help him.

[view]

what do you do if your boyfriend cheated on you with your younger sister?

bitch him and her out because thats wrong of him and exspecially your sister. no offense. and dump him pleaseee. hope i helped.

[view]

On myspace, I see alot of cool display names, people can do with their names

Like, for instance, this girls name is andrea and her display name is

and rea xo

but I can't seem to do anything besides Wacky Jackie with my name

my name is jackie! Please help!

It doesnt have to have your name in it. you can do Jackie &trades; like it does little TM.
OR L0VE JACKiE♥;

hope this is better.

[view]

For Christmas I would like to give my mother a very special gift. I have no idea what she would like! I'm 14/f if that helps, and she is 100% Polish and is 43, if that helps too. She's a mother of three also. Please don't tell me to ask her what she likes, every gift I have purchased her in the past (jewlery, candles, etc.) she has not liked. I also don't want to bake her anything such as a cake, or make her a poem, because these have been my past gifts. If you are a mother, could you please tell me what you would like as a gift from your 14 year old daughter?? and even if you are not a mother, please help. If you say to make her something from the heart, then please tell me what it is and the crafts I need. It would also help if you were VERY specific.
thanks in advance
xo

If you likes to be pampered get her a gift card from a salon. Or go to her favorite store and pick or out something or also get her a gift card. What i did with my mom was we were at the mall and i had her show me things she liked and i picked it out from there, so that she wouldnt know exactly what i got her but i knew she would like it. I hope i helped.

[view]

I'm not sure where to put this, but I really need advice on how to get my hair curly. This is what I normally do to make my hair curly: I take a shower at about 4 p.m. and then wait until my hair dries to put it into 6 braids. The next morning I take it out and use Tresme Styling Mousse to "scrunch" my hair, or keep the curls in instead of having my hair turn flat. This works okay, but I really wan't to know if there's a better and quicker way to do this. I don't want to curl my hair, nor do want to do anything that will damage it such as blow drying and straightening.
thanks in advance!
xo

Your pretty much out of luck because if you have really straight hair like me you have to curl it or "scrunch" it with special styling gel and then blow dry it. I had asked a beautician ( hair stylist) about this for myself and she said the only way to make it really stay if you want to use gel is to blow dry it afterward. Blow drying, curling, straightening (etc) your hair every once in a while isnt bad at all. If your really worried about it get a hair protectant for that. But it does look alot better than brades. Believe me, i've tried.

[view]

What does the phrase, "I wear my heart on my sleeve." mean?
Thanks :)

It means you show your heart to everyon; like you dont hide your feelings or emotions.

[view]


Kay. So I`m preppy- polos, miniskirts A&F and pearls, the whole 9 yards. So.. I'm running out of outfits and styles, any ideas? I`ve done the polos & pearls... and the leggings & skirts.. and the uggs with jeans... oh and cashmere sweatersss... but I`m running out. I like to start trends, any good ones I could start at my school? I'm up for new looks- but im mostly preppy. PLEASE HELP.

Just so you know you didn't start those trends.

There's no more other cute things you can do from abercrombie. There's the skirts with the leg warmers and flip flops. Their not like leggings. they go on your cavles. It's really cute. Another thing is the button up shirts (long sleves with the collar) and have a cashmere sweater over it. But other wise everything is done. If they have an Urban Outfitters where you live check that store out, they have alot of new trends but it's different then abercrombie, but just as nice.

[view]

i feel really stupid asking this but..

whats a handjob (and blowjob)?

Here go to www.sextutors.com
There's everything on there.
from kissing to sex.
Hope i helped

[view]

Ok! Me and My boyfriend Logan both are really jealous, and greedy people. So, one day he gets mad at me for going over to my friend Dougs house, so we get into an argument, and I bring up the time he went to his friends house, who he happened to have asked out last year, and he got mad at me saying it's not the same, so we both agreed that he would avoid Brittany if I avoided every guy I knew. But, he took it back today, and said he wanted to be her friend again. So I said I wanted to go to Dougs birthday, and he got mad at me, and said that I was being selfish.

So, basicaly...

Am I being selfish, or do I have the right to be mad? Because, if I have the right to be mad, I don't want to back off, I want to keep arguing until he comes to realize that maybe he screwed up, but if I am just being selfish, I want to appologize so everything will be better again.

No he's being selfish. If he thinks you should avoid all guys you know then that means he has to avoid all the girls he knows. It goes hand and hand. the same thing can't be right for you but wrong for him. If i were you i'd do what i want even though he's your boyfriend. Its your right on who you hang out with not his. Dont apologize!!!!

[view]

I have a question about a book I have to read for school...the name is Inkheart by Cornelia Funke. I am supposed to do a creative response on it and I was thinking of making the box like in the book but I'm not sure what to all include in it. If anyone can help give me some insight that'd be greatly appreciated. Thanks!

I read that book for a book report too actually. I would but the book in there because it's the main thing. The book is all about Inkheart. I'd put matches in there or something like that, because thats representing Dustfinger. I'd also put faries and little creatures in there because they all come out in the end. Also you could make a little display village of Capricorn's. You could try to make the shadow. Im really not sure what else you could do with this book for that. This is kind of a difficult book to do with that project.

[view]

i was wondering the difficulties of taking care of a yorke are. i'm 14 years old and i live with my 12 year old brother and parents, and i was wondering if this would be a good enviornment for a yorke. i was also wondering about any cute orginal names for a little yorke thats male, thank you in advance.
xo

Yorkie's are one of the hardest dogs to take care of. They are in the terrier family, all terriers are the hardest to maintain. I have a maltese myself and he's alot of work. Since their small they can be trained to go to the bathroom in a litter box or on a special doggy pad. But you have to train them when their young.
They have to be groomed often, unless you want their hair to grow out, to the group like show yorkie dogs are. They have to be brushed no less then one time a week, bathed every one-two monthes or so. They like attention. Hope i helped. And for a boy dog's name i've always wanted to name them pepper. That would work for you because yorkies have brown and black hair. Oh and if you get a tea cup yorkie they can get sick very easily. Sorry i rambled one.

[view]

Ok, well on friday there is a school dance that i am going to with my boyfriend and all my friends. Well, there is slow dancing, and all the teachers are wacthing, and im just scared to sow dane because we ARE going to slow dance but I am just really scared...
what should i do?

please, i would appreciate some answers!

=]

thankss!

It's not scary, at all. The teachers aren't watching just because, probably to see where his hands are thats it. It helps if your nervous to talk to the person your dancing with while your dancing.; It kinda takes your mind off of it. Don't be scared.

[view]

I met this woment about 2months ago and we have talked everyday since. We both had just got out of bad relationships. We had said that we would remain just friends, yet we have acknowledge an attraction towards each other. We have kissed on occasion. We have both agreed that we are perfect for each other, yet agree that it is not a good time for both of us. One minute she is telling me that I am the one for her, and next that we are just friends.What do i do

Tell her how you feel about her. I seem's like shes stringing you along alittle. Your letting her make up the whole decision on you two. Or tell her to make up her mind, to not keep changing it all the time. I don't get whats holding her back.
Hope i helped

[view]

(I'm 15/m if this helps)Okay, so my best friends (a girl and a guy) are on the verge of a relationship and everytime they have something planned, they always invite me. This makes me feel like a third wheel and I get the awkward feeling when i'm around them that they don't really want me there. I feel like the only reason that i'm being included in their plans is because i'm their best friend and they pity me.
I dont really have a specific question but if you could form one on your own out of my explaining and answer it, that would be great.

If you feel like the 3rd wheel, don't go. Say how you feel to them or just say you have plans.

[view]

13/f

My discharge smells TERRIBLE.
& im embarrassed by it. I take
showers daily, and im sick of
feeling dirty and stuff. Any
remedies that you make AT HOME
[so parents dont find outttt]
& is safe to put down there?

There's really nothing you can do about it. It usually happen's before & after your period. So this is normal and there's nothing wrong if your parent's find out, it probably happens/happened to your mother. If you feel uncomfortable put a panty-liner down there.
Hope I helped.

[view]

Im a female
im about 5'7 and i weigh 145 lbs.
But im muscular
Do i need to loose alot of weight?

I've been on a diet for like 3 years
but i have like an over eatting problem , so you know...

Your fine for your weight.
go here. http://am-i-fat.com/
fill it out and it will tell you that you have a BMI of 23 %, and that you should stay like your are. But of you weigh 150 with your height it says to do more exercising.

Hope i helped.

[view]

<<< Previous Advice Column
Next Advice Column >>>
humorist-workshop
eXTReMe Tracker