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I never knew that 1+1 made three :]
(I'm 15/m if this helps)Okay, so my best friends (a girl and a guy) are on the verge of a relationship and everytime they have something planned, they always invite me. This makes me feel like a third wheel and I get the awkward feeling when i'm around them that they don't really want me there. I feel like the only reason that i'm being included in their plans is because i'm their best friend and they pity me.
I dont really have a specific question but if you could form one on your own out of my explaining and answer it, that would be great.
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my friend use to do this to me..just tell them you feel like a third wheel and that you dont wanna go because you feel awkward. if they dont understand then there not good friends. or you could invite another person to come along :]
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i have an older sister the same age as yours! your not a pity person in my opion your best friends loves to hang out with you and if you know this guy he might just like you alot too! :) also usely when girls ar kind of on nervous sometimes they call for the're best friend! :D ( sorry because of my speeling i'm just in a rush and i just HAD to answer your prob! :) :P )
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Well... you could see if he has a friend that he thinks would get along great with you. That guy friend could start hanging out with you guys and you might even start liking him. But if you dont think thats good advice then just dont go.
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If you feel like the 3rd wheel, don't go. Say how you feel to them or just say you have plans.
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say you cant go. when your friend asks you why, say something silly so they get the message, but you dont sound rude. you could say, "so i dont interrupt you two love birds" or something silly like that. be creative.
good luck
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