Hey lovers...
i be ERiN thank ya very much♥!!!
i love giving advice when i can, and when i have my own problems, i enjoy getting advice
i hope i can help you, && i hope you can help me!!!
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-erin
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Member Since: November 16, 2006
Answers: 7
Last Update: November 23, 2006
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Okay, there is this guy I've been going out with now for a bit over a month. When my friend hooked us up, we had never even talked to each other before, but she insisted that he liked me, so I said yes to give him a chance. His friends say it's hard for him to admit to things. My boyfriend talks about this girl a lot, but he told me that he USED to like her and that it wouldn't be fair for him to like her while he's going out with me. But sometimes I wonder if he's going out with me because he likes me, or if he's going out with me because he wants to have a girlfriend. He's never had a girlfriend before me. He honestly doesn't show much interest, but he is shy. His friends say he never talks about me. I don't know..is there a way to get him interested if he's not? I don't even know if I should bring up these issues if he has a hard time admitting things. Ugh..I really like him, and it would hurt to have him not like me at all. Please help?! (link)
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Its always better to live knowing the truth than to live a lie. you cant just sit around about this kind of thing. you have to ask him exactly what you just asked us. sit him down and say, "do you like me.. at all? or .. am i just.. your girlfriend because you want one?" you have to know. if you dont want to do this, then try getting him to talk more. maybe then you'll be able to tell if he likes you. talk to him about simple stuff that guys dont mind answering.. like maybe about classes or something? if you have same classes then maybe- "uggh, i hate _____(fill in blank of teacher). i cant believe she gave us so much homework!" or something. a conversation starter.
-mexatxyourxservice
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(I'm 15/m if this helps)Okay, so my best friends (a girl and a guy) are on the verge of a relationship and everytime they have something planned, they always invite me. This makes me feel like a third wheel and I get the awkward feeling when i'm around them that they don't really want me there. I feel like the only reason that i'm being included in their plans is because i'm their best friend and they pity me.
I dont really have a specific question but if you could form one on your own out of my explaining and answer it, that would be great. (link)
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say you cant go. when your friend asks you why, say something silly so they get the message, but you dont sound rude. you could say, "so i dont interrupt you two love birds" or something silly like that. be creative.
good luck
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Hi, i'm a girl, 15 years old. So i like my best friend(15/male). I've liked him since I was in 5th grade! (I am now in 10th) He says he kind of likes me, but he doesn't know if he wants to go out with me. We've hooked up before, but I want more than that. how can I let him know that I can't be just friends with him, that I want MORE!
thank you!
-jool (link)
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you have to just tell him that. if its been 5 years and he hasnt got the message, you should probably say something. whatever happens, make sure it doesnt ruin your friendship. friendship is most important.
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okay, so im 15/f.
i have this guy friend ((who i kinda like :x)) and he is still really depressed about him and his ex g/f [[also my friend]] breaking up about 2 weeks ago.He still clearly likes her and now he knows who she likes and its really hurting him, i can tell. so what kind of things could i do to cheer him up maybe? i dont like seeing him so sad. (link)
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well, if you like him and she dumped him, he cant be half bad. you should tell him that her dumping you is a mistake. she'll regret it later. help him through it. if your friendship strengthens enough, he may come to realize that youre a cool kid too xD
hehe- hope it all works out
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okay im in a class called BCIS. which is like computer. and i sit next to one of my best friends, and this other guy whos awesome. well i bring food everytime to that class. bake cookies, bring food jsut for the fun of it cause everyones happy when i bring food :] last time i brought Mike n Ikes. i have BCIS tomorrow. what snack should i bring?? (link)
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bring something small so that you can hand it out without much work hassle. as said before, starbursts is a good one. or maybe skittles or m&m's.
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last christmas me and one of my close friends decided to swap gifts. i bought her this really nice sally hansen nail polish set for $10 from CVS and i loved it so i got it for her. we traded gifts the next morning and i opened up a really cheap bracelet from claires with no tag, and an opened nail polish bottle with polish on the cap.
i'm not being selfish, but who would do that?
when i confronted her about the nail polish, she actually told me that she got it from her aunt, used it, and didn't like the color. how pathetic is that??
so after i confronted her and told her it was open, and that doing that is really rude, she turned all red and started saying "it's the thought that counts!" in my head i was saying, yeah but it doesnt mean squat if you don't put any thought into it! and then i told her how the nail polish i got her was expensive and she said it wasnt! how dare she
she asked to swap gifts again this winter, what should i do? (link)
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you should decide a price range because last year you got ripped off. it may be about the thought, but if she gave you a nail polish color that she didnt like, it seems like the only thing she was thinking of was herself. you may want to establish that gifts must be between 10-15 dollars or something. that way you dont need to go all out, and she cant give you used items. if she does it again anyways, then politely give her the gift back and say you cant accept a gift that has no value to your friendship.
-erin
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well me and my boyfriend, david, have been going out on and off for about 3 years. since 5th grade.. and now i'm in 8th. he goes to different school than i do.. so i only see him on weekends.. or every other weekend. well this year we havent' gone out at all until about a mounth ago.we were doing just fine until last week he broke up with me because he said i was too "bitchy". then the next day he asked me back out and he told me that he was so sorry and he didn't realize how much he liked me and stuff. so i had to hink about it for a little bit.. but then yesterday i panicked at the last minute and told him yes.. but i'm starting to regret it.. because i recently started liking this other guy. his name is chase. he's a lot different than david but i've never gone out with him before. i really like chase now but i just dont know what to do.. or which guy i should choose. if me and david broke up i'm pretty sure chase and i would go out.. the only problem is.. chase is more mature than david in a behavior way.. but david is more mature than chase in a "relation ship" way.. since me and david are back together.. we dont' talk as much on the phone. mostly sit there in silence.. and i get annoyed of him really easily now! what should i do? (link)
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well, it doesnt sound like you really want to go out with david anyways. you should end this relationship. things are never as steady once a guy calls you ''bitchy''. Chase may be your getaway, but even without chase, david was is //probably// going to have to go sometime anyways.
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