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well me and my boyfriend, david, have been going out on and off for about 3 years. since 5th grade.. and now i'm in 8th. he goes to different school than i do.. so i only see him on weekends.. or every other weekend. well this year we havent' gone out at all until about a mounth ago.we were doing just fine until last week he broke up with me because he said i was too "bitchy". then the next day he asked me back out and he told me that he was so sorry and he didn't realize how much he liked me and stuff. so i had to hink about it for a little bit.. but then yesterday i panicked at the last minute and told him yes.. but i'm starting to regret it.. because i recently started liking this other guy. his name is chase. he's a lot different than david but i've never gone out with him before. i really like chase now but i just dont know what to do.. or which guy i should choose. if me and david broke up i'm pretty sure chase and i would go out.. the only problem is.. chase is more mature than david in a behavior way.. but david is more mature than chase in a "relation ship" way.. since me and david are back together.. we dont' talk as much on the phone. mostly sit there in silence.. and i get annoyed of him really easily now! what should i do?
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*sigh* it's obvious for you to dump this David fellow, once a relationship is done it's done. Also if it's an on and off thing it's not a healthy relationship and distant one's aren't a good idea either. If this Chase makes you feel like cleopatra and you like him, just go out with him. You don't want to regret another thing do you? and besides, i know it's not my say but i don't think you should go out with anyone you're still in gradeschool anyway am i right? but then again it's my say but hopefully use it in consideration. Anyway take care and good luck
" the heart wants what it wants"
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well, it doesnt sound like you really want to go out with david anyways. you should end this relationship. things are never as steady once a guy calls you ''bitchy''. Chase may be your getaway, but even without chase, david was is //probably// going to have to go sometime anyways.
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If you're finding you're not happy in the relationship, end it. It's not fair to David to let the relationship continue ( as sort of a pity date thing ), and it's not fair to you. You should date somebody whose going to make you happy, and you'd think you'd have a great time with.
And plus, personally, I would rather want to be with someone more mature. And you never know, as the relationship develops between you and Chase, he could realize what you like and don't like, and wisen up & grow more maturely in your relationship. People always change for the better.
So go with the guy whose going to make you the most happy, not them.
If I were you, I'd give Chase a shot. See what happens. You and David have been together for three long years, and it just doesn't seem to be working out anymore. Besides, you're only in 8th grade. You're a teenager ; you're supposed to be going out with different types of guys, seeing what types you like, don't like, and just having a great time living life.
I hope I helped.
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