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where can i find a lime green bikini?
thanks
http://www2.victoriassecret.com/commerce/application/prodDisplay/?namespace=productDisplay&origin=onlineProductDisplay.jsp&event=display&prnbr=ZJ-208582&page=1&cgname=OSSWMBIKTST&rfnbr=1232
http://www2.victoriassecret.com/commerce/application/prodDisplay/?namespace=productDisplay&origin=onlineProductDisplay.jsp&event=display&prnbr=ZJ-207240&page=1&cgname=OSSWMBIKTST&rfnbr=1232
^^ Those are the closest Victorias secret have. They have a lot of bikinis in a slightly darker shade, called emerald.
http://www.amazon.com/Salinas-Swimwear-green-ruffled-bikini/dp/B000CRTEYO
That's another one I found
16/f
well i like this guy. hes 18. hes really nice and we hang out alot. were friends. he doesnt know i like him and i dont know if he likes me. once in a while ill catch him lookin at me. but hes the kind of guy that doesnt show his feelings at all. like his ex gf, when she called he would go in the next room and talk and when someone would ask who it was he would be like "dont worry about it". i wanna know if he likes me but i dont want to tell him and find out that he dont..cause i would feel weird around him when we hang out. we never hang out alone. we are always with one of his friends and sometimes one of my friends. what should i do?
is there any signs to show that he likes me?
You could get one of your friends to talk to one of his friends. Have Him/her say "They'd be so cute together. Do you think they like each other? I've asked her, she won't tell me anything. What about him, does he ever say anything about her?"
Something like that, to play it cool but find out the information you need. You could also talk to his friend, or have your friend talk directly to him.
I have a few stained teeth. Like.. there's red-orange ish scratch like marks on my teeth. Stained.. I had braces for like 3 years and my teeth were a bit stained where the glue stuff was.
How do i fix it without getting it bleached professionally [I don't have the money]
I don't smile because of it.
I would love to start smiling again.
I use crest white strips, and my best friend uses crest night effects, and we both have bright white smiles =)
this probably doesn't make sense, but there is this rap song i saw on a cell phone commercial. it is also on the 'evolution of dance' thing on youtube if you've ever seen that. the only words i know from it is that he says, ' the music, the moments.' it sounds like eminem but i dont know. i just want to know the name and who it is by because i really like itt ! thanks
Lose Yourself- Eminem
i really really like secondhand serenade's songs. like, the acoustic ones like awake, broken, and vulnerable. is there any other bands/artists that have kinda the same style as them, maybe someone who sings acoustic, that are also good?
thanks.
Goo Goo Dolls
Five Times August
Matt Wertz
Jamestown Story
The Scene Aesthetic
Corey Crowder
Too Sorry For Apologies
Trading Yesterday
Hale
Good Luck
okay im turning fourteen on the eleventh and i want to have a birthday party but i don't have any ideas. i either want to invite my three best freinds or invite my whole clique which is roughly 15 girls.
i need some ideas for both.
thanks in advance :)
I would go with three best friends. When parties get too big, they tend to be less fun they will get for the person throwing them.
How about going out to dinner, then back to your house for movies? Renting a hotel so you can swim and hit the jacuzzi? Bake some cookies? Order in pizza and play Never Have I Ever or some old fashioned Truth or Dare. Make sure things don't get mean or out of hand with Truth or Dare, though. That tends to happen. I'm sure since they are your good friends, you will have no problem thinking of fun things to do.
If you opt for the 15 girls, you can do variations of the above also. You could also go outside if its not too cold and play ditch (hide and seek in the dark). It sounds childish, but my friends and I are all 16-18, and we LOVE to play that when we get together. Brings back good memories, you know? If you have a video camera, have some fun with that. You could do funny 'talk shows' and stuff like that, then go back and laugh at it later. You could have a Twister competition.
The possibilities are endless! I hope you have an amazing time!
I like this guy who likes me back. Only problem is, he has a girlfriend. He cheated on her with me, and we were hooking up for a couple weeks. Then we talked about it all and he said "im confused, because i mean i love my girlfriend but then i see you, and i like you too. i dont think we should hook up until i know whats going on with her." so i left it at that. i was really upset for the next few days. we still talk, and i saw him the other night and he was standing behind me with his arms around me. little things he does makes me know he cares. but i dont know what to make of it. he tells me he misses me, and he was sad today when he said that he doesnt think i still like him because i dont call him or IM him all the time. i told him i dont want to be a pain. i miss him so much, and i know he misses me. but whats the deal..? sorry this is so long
I know this isn't what you want to hear, but I have to say it. He doesn't care about you. Not fully, anyways. If he cared about you, he wouldn't do this to you.
He just likes the attention of two girls. That's why he said he doesn't think you still like him. Otherwise, he would understand that you shouldn't have to wait for him.
I say forget him, and here's why:
Once a Cheater, always a Cheater. Now, I wouldn't say this if he only cheated on his girlfriend once. Twice even. But You guys hooked up for a couple of weeks. That is not okay. If he will do it to her, then he WILL do it to you. And you have to face that. You don't need that in your life.
He obviously doesn't want you THAT badly, otherwise he'd dump his girlfriend. It's that simple. He'd find a way to make things happen.
Now, here's what I think you should do. Under no circumstances should you be 'the other woman' again. I'm not blaming you, but it's not a good situation to be in. He thinks he can have the best of both worlds, you need to show him that he can't. Tell him its wrong to do that to you and to his girlfriend, and that you aren't going to allow it anymore.
Now, if you still want to be with him, even after what I told you, tell him that its either you or his girlfriend, and if he 'can't choose' then you will chose for him, and you will no longer be one of his options. Its either all of you, or none. That's it.
Like I said, no more cheating. If someone finds out, you are going to be the one they point fingers at. His girlfriend might forgive him, but chances are she won't forgive you. Just a warning.
So good luck, I hope things work out for you. Again, I'm sorry if it's not what you wanted to hear, but I've seen my friends go through this situation more than a few times, so I have experience with it, and I want things to be the best they can be for you =)
i used to be extremely social at home..always calling people..always wanting to talk to my friends on aim..but lately i just feel like sleeping or listening to music in my room and when i get on aim theres only a couple people i ever even want to talk to and when im on the phone im usually wanting to get off (besides with one guy) i dont even call people often anymore because i never feel like it..could this be a sign of anything?
Well, when I get like that, it's usually because I'm exausted. Whether physically or emotionally. It could be because I've had a lot of homework lately, and just need to rest, or it could be because I recently got in a fight with someone, and my stress level is high.
But I'm wondering, how long has this been going on? Because if it's been awhile, it could be more.
And is this extending outside of the home? Are you still hanging out with your friends, having people over, talking in school?
If yes, it could be depression. But people usually know when they are depressed, kind of hard to be unaware =)
But, perhaps seasonal depression? You never know.
But, it could be nothing. People change all the time. It could also be just a phase. No big deal, nothing to worry about.
Just pay close attention to your feelings. Maybe talk to someone about them. A parent, perhaps? See what they say about it, and if they have noticed any changes in you. But stay positive, chances are it's nothing =)
If people say making out is not something that should be done in public, where is a good place to do it?
I'm still young, and I don't think my mother would like it if I went up to my bedroom with my boyfriend and just closed the door. =/
help?
On your porch. His house. Your house with your mom isn't home. Somewhere outside when people aren't around. I don't know if there are docks in your town, but in mine there are, and they are the BEST make out spot, especially at night.
Talk to you mom about it. She might not have as much objection to your bedroom, as long as you explain that kissing is all you will be doing. If telling her about kissing him is out of the question, try telling her that you need privacy. Tell her you can't have a relationship without privacy, and ask what she thinks about it. She might say your room is okay, or you can maybe work out an agreement, such as another room in the house (with no beds lol), and she will leave you guys alone.
Good luck!
thanks, that was actually the advice i needed. it really helped, it kinda opened my eyes a bit. ill know who to ask my next questions too =)
shortcake90 =]
I'm glad I could help! It's what I'm here for =). Just out of curiosity, which question is this feedback to?
I am a whiz on the computer and the Internet and she knows that - she is not disputing that - she always tells me that she wishes she knew how to use the computer the way I do. STORY: Ok today I had a fight with my mom. I had gone online to a major department store to find a furniture item for the Living Room. But I couldnt find it. Any way she called the store and they said that they do not have it in stock but they have it online. So she asked how can we find it online. I got defensive because I thought she was saying she thought I did not know how to use the Internet so I snapped at her. She got nasty. MY QUESTION: When people fight do they say nasty things that they dont mean just because they want to hurt the other person?
Some people do say things just to hurt the other. Sadly, my mother is this way. I know a lot of people this way. Now, don't get confused between saying something to hurt you, and simply snapping back. They could be two entirely different things =)
my stomach can be contained when i suck it in, but my butt is pretty big! maybe its just because im african.. but its kinda annoying since it sorta sticks out, XD;. Im not that fat, but im not skinny either, so it kinda looks a little out of proportion when my stomach isnt that fat. how can i get everything like.. in shape, basically? should I just run everyday (I already need to do that for stamina)? i dunno if it will affect these 'areas' lol. also, what foods make you get a bigger butt? i'll eat less of them, too.
Let me start out by saying- LUCKY YOU! I have NO butt. And that's the one thing that I really wish I had. But, you know, the grass is always greener...
haha ANYWAYS
You can't do anything to lose weight in just your butt. You have to lose weight all over. Working out is very important, You need cardio and aerobic exercise to burn calories, and then special exercises to work your buttocks to firm it up and develop muscles.
For cardio/aerobic exercise, You can jog, powerwalk, dance, swim, work on the eliptical trainer, etc.
For excercises for you butt, I googled it, and these are some websites I came up with. If you don't like these, perhaps look around on google somemore untill you find ones that suit you.
http://www.prevention.com/article/0,5778,s1-2-87-46-1658-1,00.html
http://www.weightlossforall.com/butt-exercise.htm
ALSO- I found this site about flattering your butt to make it look smaller in jeans. I thought you might be interested =)
http://magazines.ivillage.com/marieclaire/fashion/figure/photo/0,,673626_673630,00.html
how do i know if i like a guy? like. . . i cant tell the difference because i might have a crush on my best friend. OR do i just see him as my best friend, because i cant tell. i get excited to see him and im also anxious to talk to him. but sometimes i ignore him too. i dont know, i just wanted to hear your guys opinions. any stories of your own experiences? =)
Well. You have to ask yourself a series of questions. Can I see myself as his girlfriend? Can I see myself kissing him? Can I see us together in a year? Things like that. Pay a lot of attention to how you react to him. You could just have what I call a "mini-crush" on him. Where, you kind of like him and his attention he gives you, but you don't really want to date him or anything. There's a big difference between a crush and Liking someone, in my opinion. When you like someone, you want to date them. Now, my advice? Don't date him unless you have extremely strong feelings for the guy(that you are sure of) that you just can't get rid of. Because- Your friend ship will never, ever be the same after you guys date. So if this is something that's just a passing thing, then ignore it, because it's not worth it.
In my experience- It's not worth it. I've done it, as well as one of my close girl friends has done it. Ruined friendships over it.
Try to ignore or downplay your feelings for him for awhile. If they don't go away, they could be more serious, but chances are they will. Try to focus on a different guy. If you're able to do that, you will know that your feelings weren't 'real' for you best friend!
Best of luck to you! Keep me posted =)
does anyone know what those popsicles are called that are kind of sherbet and there blue red and white. They have little crevices In them.
Thanks in advance.
Generally the name is Bomb Pops, but some brands call them Rocket Pops.
Dude. I LOVE bomb pops. Now I really want one hehe
haha were both shortcakes, weird eh? oh and i JUST curled my hair, and it sucks because i brushed it, and i just read what you wrote about not brushing your hair. shoot. ahah well i guess ill know for next time now. =)
haha well, I hope it works out for you. My hair stylist 'showed me the light' on hair curling, otherwise, I'd still be making it look a hot mess haha.
The best thing, is if you can get away with sleeping on it wet, like I do, then you literally don't have to spend time on your hair, and it looks like you spent forever on it. I love it =)
im going to apply to work there and everytime i go there i see all the workers wearing a&f clothes.are you supose to? and if so do they give you a discount of the clothes there or what?
Yes, you have to wear all of their clothes at all time. They do give you a nice discount, because otherwise, you can't afford thier clothes on the salary. The amount of discount varies on the item. (My cousin worked there a few years ago, the discount amounts could have changed since then)
okay so as you can see from the subject, my boyfriends mom got me this dress and its a size 8. and i havent seen it yet but my bf told me that she got it. and right now im in a size like 12 maybe. and the next time im gonna see them (its a long dist. relationship) is in feb. on the weekend of the 16th. so is there anyway possible i can get down to a size 8 in the next like 3weeks?
i'll do anything. (just i dont have money to go to a gym.)
please help!!!!
thanks so much :)
I've been told that 6-8 lbs is the average amount of weight you need to lose to go down a size. Like from a 12 to an 11. so then you would need to lose *Roughly* 24-32 lbs to get into that size. Which is either impossible or unhealthy in that short amount of time. Now, thats scientifically speaking. You could, perhaps, get down to a size 10, and hope the size 8 fit. But, you also could be worrying for nothing. It might run big and fit you as you are, or it could run small, and you would have worked yourself to death for nothing. So, I'd say Jog or power walk 3-5 times a week for 30 minutes, working your way up as you get more inshape. Drink lots of water, and eat healthy. No midnight sweet tooths! =) You should start seeing results soon. They may not be drastic, but they will be beneficial. Even if the dress doesn't fit, there's nothing wrong with being healthy!
Don't stress about it though, seriously. Whatever happens, things will work out. I'm sure you can just exchange it if it doesn't fit!
Good Luck and Have Fun!
I am almost 14 and I've never had my period before. I have a few questions that I really need answered.
1.) I heard that you gain weight during your period/puberty. I'm definitely in puberty right now, but I'm afraid that when I get my period, I'll gain alot of weight. Is this true?
2.) Does it feel uncomfortable to exercise when you have your period? I would really like to keep biking (about 60 min) daily. But I'm afraid it will feel uncomfortable if I have my period when exercising.
3.) Do tampons hurt to put in the first few times? I am probably going to have to wear them when exercising. But can you put them in wrong or can they get stuck? Also, which brand of tampons do you like the best?
1.) You may gain weight. It shouldn't be a lot though. You'll get curvier, your hips will widen, you will get bigger breasts, maybe more of a butt, other than that though, you shouldn't have any large weight gain.
2.) This all depends on your flow and whether you have cramps or not. If your flow is heavy, you may feel uncomfortable and want to refrain from exercising. And also, if you have cramps, while a little movement is said to make you feel better, you may not feel like moving much.
3.) It might hurt a little the first time you are putting it in because you won't know for sure how to do it. But it shouldn't be intense pain. Just experiment and you'll get it right. They shouldn't hurt while in, if it does hurt, then chances are its not all the way in, and you'll need to put it in further. You shouldn't have a problem with it getting stuck. Just make sure you leave the string out. I prefer Tampax Pearl tampons the best =)
Good Luck!
how do you pronounce chi? lol i feel so stupid but is it like chee or chy or what?
I've always heard it pronounced Chee
Heyyy.
Well my Valentine`s Day dance is coming up *& i was wondering whats a good outfit from Abercrombie *& Fitch (http://www.abercrombie.com/anf/index.html)
i`m ordering it online so tell me what are some good outfits.
(preferrably red or pink or a valentine`s day colors)
thank you!
Option 1
http://www.abercrombie.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/product_10051_10901_308560_-1_12275
For a really casual, comfy, yet cute look, wear that In pink, over a plain white tank top (even a beater) with Jeans.
Or-
Option 2
http://www.abercrombie.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/product_10051_10901_323983_-1_12282
That in Pink
http://www.abercrombie.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/product_10051_10901_317886_-1_13062
With that under it
With Jeans or a skirt, whichever is better for you
Or-
option 3
http://www.abercrombie.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/product_10051_10901_1_-1_12277
That in Red or Pink, over a plain white tank top
Or-
option 4
Wear one of these in pink for a casual look
http://www.abercrombie.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/product_10051_10901_1_-1_12264
http://www.abercrombie.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/product_10051_10901_325430_-1_12264
http://www.abercrombie.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/product_10051_10901_325401_-1_12264
http://www.abercrombie.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/product_10051_10901_301402_-1_12264
& to dress up one of the tshirts, you could wear it with this skirt in white-
http://www.abercrombie.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/product_10051_10901_1_-1_12280
And wear this jacket over it-
http://www.abercrombie.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/product_10051_10901_1_-1_12268
or you could just wear the t shirts with jeans, and wear this sweater in cream over it-
http://www.abercrombie.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/product_10051_10901_1_-1_12282
My Favorite? The T shirt option(4), or the 2nd option. Good luck, I'm sure you'll look great!