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Hey Everyone!
My Names Tory I'm 15 years old and a freshman in highschool.
I really like riding horses,watching Grey's Anatomy (my favorite is Kate Walsh aka Addison),fashion, graphic design, and taking pictures. I'm pretty good with most computer, iPod, and Myspace things so if you ever need any help with those, feel free to ask me. I also know a lot about drama, particularly with small groups.
But those are just a few of the things that I am pretty farmilar with, so if you ever need help with anything please don't hesitate to IM me, or leave a question in my inbox.
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okay i have a question for girls... ive got the worst cramps right now.. like i feel like im going to die... does anyody have any at home remedys or somethin to make em go away... i already took 2 tylonol and a calcuim pill... but what else can i do to make em not hurt so bad, or even better, go away!! please help

These work the best for me
1. Hot water bottle
2.Put your blankets-pellows and pjs in the dryer for like 5-10 min b4 bed or if ya just wanna rest
3.Lots of movies choclate bed music and rest!

Hope this helps lots i know cramps SUCK!!

LUV Torance

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whats a really good .. fast .. free.. music downloader ? i have WinMX and so many of the songs arent able to be dowloaded .. i want a downloader where all the songs are goood to download and it has to be free! please help! a link to a site would also be awesome! i rate 5's.. thanks:)

lime wire works good most of the time... (Limewire.com)

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oh my god, im the one asking all of those period questions. any way, it looks like the blood is coming from my butt. nd its been for 3 days. but i like have all of the period symptoms. so on the pad, where does the blood end up?? towards the back, front, middle, anyting else you want to tell me. ..

Hey ... Here to help you!! Yay

Well for me it is in between the front and the middle. ( make sence)

if i were you i would talk to my mom. i know it can be akward but she'll help you out with ?'s alot.. mine did.

k well hope this helps...ne more ?'s send em my way!

Luvz hope it works out---Torance

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On Sunday I'm going to the beach wwith my family and another family who has a 14 year old son. He's a year older than me and he's cute!!! I have these one pieces that i look good in, but i also have some bikinis. The problem with my bikinis is my nipples show through the fabric!!! Yuck!! Should i wear the bikini anyway or go with a one piece?

My advice would definitly be to not wear the one pice... we are not 9 any more and when a hot guy is around i would wanna show it off if i were you so i sujust a two pice. for that nipple prblm...if have a suit that doesnt fit you or that you dont like ne more (or use an old shirt (some type of cloth)a suit would work best tho.

I Would:

1. cut out pices from the suit or cloth that will fit in the same part as the top on your two pice.
2.get crazy glue and glue the together (like the pice would glue to the back (the part that covers ur chest) and noone would see it)
3. Now your hot!!!

Hope this help Mucho luv ---Torance

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my hair is kinda frizzy. I dont usually blow dry my hair and i use herbal esscenses (sp?) shampoo and conditioner. What are some ways to make my hair less frizzy without getting that frizz ease stuff or blow drying (that takes a long time. i have a lot of hair)?????
i'll rate 5's for good answers!

Well what Im not sure if this counts as frizz ease stuff or not so this is just a sugjestion (sp sorry). My hair is the same way and i just use this conditioner Called ***Sleek and Shine Fortifying Cream Conditioner By:Garnier Fructis *** (mostly green and some orange on the bottle) you can find it practically any place.It works awsomely well! just replace it with herbal esscense condtioner.... well hope i helped

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im trying to lose a little bit of weight. im wondering, if i start to lose weight, will my boobs get smaller?

if you lose more than 5 lbs. most likely not. 20+ lbs will most likely make your breasts a bit smaller.

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I'm thinking about using Veet (the hair removing stuff). Is it bad for your skin?

No veet isnt bad for your skin, i use it all the time. it actually makes your skin very smooth and silky, if you have sensitive skin test it out first on a small patch of leg hair. And of course,read the directions. be sure not to swim 24 hours after you use it. wait a least a day.

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is henna permanent or does it eventually wash out?

Henna will come off after a week or soo! okay well hope that helps!

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is sally a cute name? or is marianna better?

i like marina best...sallys a bit out dated..just my oppinon ~TT~

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so i have a boyfriend lets call him B. and a really close friend lets call him A. well so i talk 2 A more than B and then when i do B gets jealous. so last night i was on the phone with B and i told him how i felt and he said ill call you a lot more now and i was like k kool thats a start then he had 2 get off the phone bc his mom needed 2 use the phone and his friend was there also and i was like bye ill see you 2marrow and he said love you and i paused and said love you 2 and we got off the phone. so then i called A and told him what B said and he was a lil sad and i was like whats wrong rnt you happy 4 me and he said yea but he lied no one can ever love you as much as me and i couldnt talk for at least 5 mins and he was telling me all this stuff about me like stuff i wouldnt even notice i do. i just dont know if i should tell B or not and if i should break up with B and go out with A. but me and A were going out untill he broke up with me bc he didnt want to be in a relationship right now and so then i started going out with B.

what should i do?

signed,

confused in love

well it sounds like A really loves you>and im not really sure ABOUT B umm if i were i would go out with a.....but thats just me i dont like guys who get jealous over stuff like dat! but a really sounds like he loves u but you sound like you love be. i kno this sounds werid but do what U HONESTLY WANT! ~tt~

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I have this weird question ...
You know many of the singers out there are born into being famous. Well what about the other singers out there who weren't..how did they become famous?!?
*Jacquelyn

I guess they just really persued thier dreams....by like sending thier tapes/cds or thier vocies to producers or sumthin. sang in city talnet shows! i dunno .... hope that helps TT

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When you have a tampon in can you still pee I mean go to the bathroom?

please anawer

of course you can

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is it possible to get the pill without your parents knowing, or do they have to be with you and sign something, i'm not on the pill or anything, and i'm not thinking of using it in the near future, i'm just curious for later.
is it possible to get the pill without anyone knowing (besides the doctor)

I dont think you have to get thier consent or any thing.but i would talk to the people at your local planned parenthood.... hope that help ~TT~

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sometimes i can not tell the difference between capital and lowercase letters,and sometime i look at words and they are backwards or flipped,also i get confused with the letters "d" and "b" or "y" and "g" or "m" and "w"
Why does this happen?

You could be dislecic(sp) ummmmm go see a eye or normal doctor...~ TT ~

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For some reason, things that my husband says or does make me so irritated and angry I end up saying mean things to him. He is very negative and says things that aggravate me, but I know that I overract and need to control my temper. For example, we were watching a kid's talent show that I really enjoy, and every time I try to watch it with him, he makes snide remarks about the kids and their parents. He seems to disaprove of children competing in a talent contest and parents encouraging their talents. I ended up getting angry the last time this happened (just recently). I turned off the show and told him he was being idiotic and there nothing wrong with children having a talent and pursuing it. He kept on calling it "child abuse" because a little boy was out of breath after playing the drums on the show, and making a big deal out of the fact that he was "only 5 years old." So what? I told him a lot of famous musicians and athletes started at young ages, and it's not child abuse if they enjoy what they are doing. I think he is very narrow-minded about this subject and other things as well and it leads to some heated arguments, mostly on my part because I think I explain my point of view much more clearly than he does and he tends to just repeat the same things over and over. It wasn't till much later in the argument that he said he disaproved of the music that the boy was drumming to because it was heavy metal and had strange lyrics. I said that you can't even make out the lyrics in the songs and even if you could, I doubt that a five-year old would understand them. Besides, he listens to this music too. This led to an argument that there shouldn't be music that you can't play in front of your kids. I believe all music should have clean lyrics. He said why don't we go further and have only g-rated t.v. and movies? I said that it is easier to control t.v. and movies. You can block out channels you don't want kids to watch, but you can't do anything about people in other cars blaring their obnoxous music with vulgar lyrics when your kids are in the car with you. I know I have strong opinions, and some of you probably don't agree with me, but I can't help how I feel. I guess I need to learn how to express my opinions without hurting my husband. I love him, I just don't always agree with him. Does anyone have any advice? I know I've been judgemental and already feel bad about it, so try not to make me feel worse. Thanks.

hey! Um i know this may sound kind of werid but send your letter to Dr. Phil...Dr.phil.com. um even when your really mad just try and think happy thought and try to reason with him. try not to yell..talk in a calm natrual voice as if you were dicussing in arestruant or libary. That should keep the arugument from getting overdrawn an heated. Or just dont even bring up something that you know will set him or you off...and if he brings up an irratating subject ignore it or try and change the subject....okay hope that helps. Sorry for all the spelling errors!!!:0}

~TT~

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Ok so im gettign a frecnh manicur3e on Wensdya and I was wondering if they could still do it even tho my nails are short, like there is barely no white on the tips, THANKS

If the people at the place are good then they should be able to do it ..... yay ~ TT ~

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my parents keep asking me why im so sad. the funny thing is im as happy as i normally am i just feel kinda sick, and when i tell them that they think im trying to get out of going places with them. it is so stupid. they keep asking me if i was in a break up or if i got in a fight with my friends and it is so stupid. can someone please tell me how to convince them im not depressed? i rate thanx

Just try and be willing to go places with them...even stupid ones.....also just tell your mom be like i swear im not depessed if you have your period blame it on dat if you dont say you think you might be getting it! cause thats not really a lie cause you do feel sick..... im not werid i swear...~ tt ~

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Is it wrong to masturbate yourself?Will anyone find out without telling them?

No its not wrong at all!! its only a healthy sign of sexuality(sp)!! no will find out unless you tell them!! not like theres a sign on you that says (kick me i masturbated 2day)

Hope that helps!

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well theres this guy i like, but my EX-bff likes him too! i asked him who he likes better me or her! he said me~how do i get him to ask me out or how do i ask him out

You could say:::Hey would ever wanna hang out sometime u no like alone? i dont no.... i would say something like that. Or you could be like hypathecally(sp) if i asked you out what you say? if says yes be like and if it wasnt hypathecally(sp sorry).....well i hope i helped you out in some small way.~ tt ~

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there is a song by a male singer and i luv this song i dont know anything about this song except 2 lines one is 'its off the record ' and another is' they say dont have sex before your married but when the babys born they say its meant to be God created everything who created slavery it must of been the devils work' plse help nobody knows what im taqlkn about ill rate 5s if you can help

hey im pretty sure this is rite:

The Artist: Bossman. The Song: Off the Record

I love it! >

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