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hey everyone i want to become a singer but i cant sing so is there a way i can learn?

hey

It's funny that you ask that question because i, myself would love to learn how to sing. Although i dont have the best voice i know i can make it better. There are many ways to train your voice.
I was told to get a vocal coach, maybe you should try getting one too. Yes it is alot of money so if you can't AFORED one then dont worry about it. There are many workshops that help people out with their singing. And it's for free in some cases. All you have to do is research it online. Also you should practice all the time. When your in the shower, doing homework, working out, at home just being bored, whenever you can. It's the best way to workout your vocal cords. Anyways here are some sites that might help you out:

http://www.singingworkout.com/

http://www.vocalist.org/voiceteachers.html


http://www.singers.com/instructional/vocalcoach.html

http://dmoz.org/Arts/Music/Vocal/Courses_and_Lessons/

http://www.gbmc.org/voice/tips.cfm


http://zionevangelical.org/vocal_tips.htm

http://www.entnet.org/healthinfo/throat/Healthy-Voice.cfm

♥ maria ♥

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does anyone know who sings this song on bet

it goes make her feel good or something?

Hey

yeah. I love that song. It's by Teairra mari.
It's called make her feel good.

♥ maria ♥

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is jessica simpson a real blonde??

Hey

Umm yes she is.

♥ maria ♥

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I love singing and dancing and acting and I'm actually quite good at it I'm 13 and Ilive in south west london just want to do something than involves singing like join a drama group or something but I don't really know I don't want to go into profecional singing I just want to be ocupied and use it as a hobby does anyone know any sites?

Hey

Well i went on google and got these sites:


http://www.stageregister.co.uk/Members/DramaClub.htm

http://www.anth.org.uk/RSH/pages/week_work.html

http://www.nayt.org.uk/links/london.htm

http://www.gsmd.ac.uk/kbase/kb00000363b.htm

http://www.singers-uk.org/singing_schools_courses_and_singing_workshops_in_london_uk.htm

http://www.all4kidsuk.com/search_result/nokeyword/allareas/Workshops

http://www.youthartsonline.org/drama/courses/default.php

http://www.artsandkids.org.uk/render.aspx?siteID=1&navIDs=19,84,98


Hope that helps

if you need anymore sites just comment my inbox

Also you should try to ask your school if they have a drama club or try out for a school play. That should really help you out. If not ask around maybe they might know of a workshop or somewhere that you can sign up for.


♥ maria ♥

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how do i download AIM plus? will rate 5's

Hey

Try:

www.big-o-software.com

♥ maria ♥

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at what store can I buy boho bags?

hey

Any department stores would have them. Try Forever 21, Wet Seal, Nordstrom.

♥ maria ♥

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13/f i am a cheerleader and i am the worst on the team. i was wondering if there was anyone who wanted ot be my friend and teach me a little bit more about cheer. if you want to help give me your email address and we can be email friends. xoxo

Hey

well i went to cheerleading camp two years ago and i learned alot. I dont know what you need help in? The cheers themselfs? or the way to do the cheers or maybe something else. But if you want i'll be sure to help you out just tell me what you need help with. Just leave a comment in my inbox and i'll send you my aim and email.

♥ maria ♥

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hi umm I wanna try out for bball team at school I'm gonna be an 8th grader next year and i'm afraid I might be put in the 6th grade bball team what should I do!

Hey

well i dont understand why you would be put on the 6th grade bball team when your in 8th grade. I dont think they will do that. But ummm if you mean your really bad at bball and your scared they might not let you on the team and just place you with the 6th graders then i dont think you have much to worry about. They dont really do that. Either you get on the 8th grade team or no team. But every school is different and if you do get placed on the 6th grade team you could always just talk to your coach or somebody ahead of the team and tell them your not comfortable on the 6th grade team and that you dont think it's right. Im sure they will understand where your coming from. If that doesn't work you could ask your mother or someone older to go talk to the coach.

♥ maria ♥

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is tanning bad for you? what about tanning beds?

Hey

Well no tanning isn't bad for unless your in the sun for way too long and you dont use sunscreen. Otherwise it's not harmful. The same goes for tanning beds. They cause you no harm unless you go everyday.

♥ maria ♥

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i litterally always wear my hair the same way up and in a ponytail..i like having it up and out of my face though..i have long thick wavy curly hair..any ideas on what i can do and how?

Hey

well if you like having it up then still keep it up in a ponytail but try straighting your hair first then put it up. That might be nice. If you want something new try just straighting it and leaving it down. If it gets in your face then take a cute bobby pin and pin the front up. Or put in some cute Hair Clips. You could also try Curling Your Hair and putting it up in a ponytail. If you need any more ideas you can go to these websites :

http://www.lhj.com/home/Hair-Styles.html

http://www.seventeen.com/beauty/hairguide

If you have any other questions dont be scared to ask just comment my inbox. I'll be more then happy to help.

♥ maria ♥

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are boys turned off by big feet?

Hey

Well im not a boy but my ex boyfriends liked small feet. But hey every guy is different. They all get turned on and off by different things. But when you find the right guy he won't care about what size your feet are.

♥ maria ♥

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this is probably not under the right catagory, but latley like this clear stuff has been comming out of me and it makes my underwear went and sometimes is so much it feels like i peed my pants.i am 13/f and have been on my period for like 2 years.i am scared to tell anyone.do you kno what it is?

Hey

Aww dont be scared babe it's just discarge. Nothing to be worried about. If you have any more questions about it just talk to your doctor or someone older that you feel comfortable talking with, or if you like you could comment my inbox and i'll be more then happy to help you.

♥ maria ♥

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hey i was just wondering if you know any songs like punk rock. like blink 182

Hey

yeah try these:

Three days grace - i hate everything about you
The used - all that i've got
the killers - mr brightside
all american rejects - swing swing
all american rejects - one more sad song
all american rejects - dirty little secret
sum 41 - the hell song
story of the year - until the day i die

♥ maria ♥

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Alright well I have been sick for about HALF the summer.. and so ive had to be inside all the time and im as white as a feather WHITE not light.. well I was wondering if you had any tips on how to get tanner faster (without using the fake stuff)

Hey

The only thing i can think of is try going outside to the beach or just your backyard or wherever you can tan. Make sure you use tanning lotion. The ones that give you a tan not the ones that protect you from it. The lotion that i use is called Australian gold tanning oil. It works wonders. If you go to the beach be sure to get wet before you tan because the sun will absorb the salt water and help you tan even better. If that doesn't get you as dark as you want go to a tanning bed. It's not harmful unless you go everyday.

♥ maria ♥

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i love this girl. But not in a love love way. as a friend, and i am a girl myself. but i love her alot. noo not as in girlfriend love dont get the wrong idea. but when i told her i loved her she thought i loved her as in more then a friend and she blocked me on aim. what should i do? i tried calling but she wont pick up

Hey

I am sorry if what i am about to say will hurt you but it's the truth. If this girl was truly your bestfriend she would have understood what you meant. Or if she had doubts she would have talked to you about it without acting like a baby, and hiding from you. Because that's basically what she's doing. "HIDING"! But maybe she honestly thought you meant it the other way and feels very uncomfortable with the whole situation. In that case i understand why she might be hiding. But what i think you should do in this case is talk to her. If you really do care about her and want to save this friendship. If she won't let you talk then do whatever you can to get to her. Email her! Leave her a message on her cell phone. if she doesn't have one ask her mother to take a message for her. Try instant messaging her on another sn. But i honestly think the best way to get to her is writing her a letter and giving it to her mother to give to her. Make sure to write down all your feelings and explain what you meant.

If you ever need anything else or just need someone to talk to im here.

♥ maria ♥

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IDK where to put the URL for the music. I have a pre made layout for my Myspace and if i just put the URL in the about me section it doesnt play but the URL just shows up on my webpage. Where do i put the URL?

Hey

Your putting the URL in the right place it's just There's a code for that. You can also put the URL in your music section but it doesn't matter. But i can't past the code up here because it doesn't show up but if you go here:

http://myspacehelp.uni.cc/

It should have the code. Theres alot of different codes for myspace. If that doesn't help just leave me a comment in my inbox with your email or sn and ill send you the code and if you have any other questions be sure to ask.

♥ maria ♥

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My Dad is a perfectionist and it can really get on my nerves and today i was talking to me about something and he just said he knows everything about it so what should i do?


signed
annoyed

Hey

awww im really sorry that your dad's like that but you can't really change him. He is who he is. You can always try talking to him. Although im not sure what you can say without hurting him. How about asking your mother or someone else older to talk to him about it that way it's not you asking him to stop. Or try ignoring it. Like when he talks to you just try to block out the part you dont want to hear. But i think you should just let it go because he is your father and no matter how annyoing he may get he loves you and you love him. He's not perfect but think of it this way if you really love a person you let the little things slip. Otherwise you would be going crazy over the little things and come to think of it that would make you a perfectionist. And i know you dont want that to happen. Well if you need anything else be sure to comment my inbox. I'll be more then happy to try to help.

♥ maria ♥

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i am not russian but my boyfriend is. He likes russian music. is there any music name i could dl or buy? like names?

Hey

well im russian, and i love russian music.
My favorite band is kraski.

Any song by them is great. You can go to

http://www.limewire.com/english/content/home.shtml

and download it there.

It's free and easy to use. Also you can try to download any song by alsu. she's great too.


♥ maria ♥

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wat does masterbate mean? I have seen it in tons of advice columns and I don't know what it means!
i dont need to no but i am curious

hey


Masturbation The act of touching oneself to produce a favorable feeling in the groin area. Usually accompanied by some sort of mental, visual, or audio stimulation to assist in reaching climax.

If you dont understand that then it's when you touch yourself down there for sexual pleasure.Or if you use something to give you sexual pleasure down there. for every person it's different.


♥ maria ♥

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can any one give me good songs

about loving someone and trying to get over them and your sad stuff like that

(techno would be good)


Hey

I love techno music and it's funny because my favorite techno music has to be the sad ones.

Try these :

The rock project - Never ( favorite song ever)

Sarina paris - You

Alice deejay - better off alone

Lasgo - something

atb - Ecstasy

Aubrey - if you dont know me by now

Deedee - forever - ian van dahl remix

Dj pulse - lonely

Erika - Relations

Tina ann - Rise again


Ps: not all of them are sad only some but they are all about love and stuff.

here are some other songs :

Rock/ punk

The all american rejects - swing swing

Sugar ray - when it's over

Jimmy eat world - the middle

Three days grace - i hate everything about you

Linkin park - breaking the habits

Linkin park - in the end

Maroon 5 - This love

simple plan - addicted


Hip/hop


hip hop - Im gonna be alright

JLo- Aint it funny remix

Justin timberlake - cry me a river

Mario winans - Never really was

Usher - let it burn

3lw - baby ima do right


pop

Ace of base -Never gonna say im sorry

Ace of base - Dont turn around

Hilary duff - So yesterday

hilary duff- come clean

kelly clarkson - since you been gone

jojo - get out leave

nelly furtado - im like a bird


No doubt - dont speak

michelle branch - goodbye to you

Stacie orrico - stuck

sarah mclachlan- fallen


Hope that helps

You can go to

http://www.limewire.com/english/content/home.shtml

to download the songs. It's free and easy to use

if you have any questions be sure to ask.

♥ maria ♥

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