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Q: this gurl is totally hot and every day she checks me out and smiles but weve known each other four 8 years i think of us as friends but all of a sudden i have feelings four her

wat do i tell her or wat do i do

Ask her out on a date but dont rush things because it would suck if you did something totally stupid and 8 yrs went down the drain-trix

Q: me and this gurl have been friends for years snd know shes hittin on me like askin me out on dates and even spending the night which all the fellas know i love and dont get me wrong its nice she is really hot and is the works

wat do i do by the way im 15

Sincerly:The pimp

If you like her ask her out dont be using her cuz no girl likes that-trix

Q: I dont believe in God, or Satan, or heaven and hell. I think its just a story told to us to try and make us act like better people. Please comment.

Thats how my best friend mark is and he said to be called atheist and i dont believe in what he believe i believe he should believe in god but thats how he was also brought up-trix

Q: this is gonna sound really bad...please no body be offinded...but i fell in love w/ this black guy and we dated for 6 months then i moved in w/ my aunt and uncle and they wont let me date him.i think its the most stupid thing ive ever heard in my whole damn life. what should i do.

Point out all the good things about him and how you have been dating for 6 months and its not right for them to go and walk all over them like they own you guys and maybe if he is comfortable he can meet them and have them see for themselves-trix

Q: hey my boy friend cheated on me and now he wont leave me alone!!hes begging 4 me to go back out with him but....he cheated on me n boy do i hate cheaters!! idk if i love him or like him or any thing!!!plez help!!!
signed~
~~confused!!!!

Yell at him and that will get the point to him and tell him you dont want anything to do with him and if and when you do then you will call him-trix

Q: This girl from church told me that she was in love, yes, in love with one of her female teachers. This girl is fourteen years old. I just need some advice on what I should say to her if I get to speack with her again.

She's gay... thats already wrong about crushing on the teacher.. being that she told you and you know her from church and this lady is way older then her so point out all the bad things-trix

Q: I met this guy and he says he likes me alot but the other day my friend said he never talks about me. I know he's a guy...but shouldn't he say something about me?

He may not say anything about you because he may not want to be emberassed if he you dont like him back but if he knows you like him back then he will probably talk about you because he has nothing to be emberassed about-trix

Q: i really like this guy and i think he likes me to but im shy and really afraid to ask him out.he always stares at me and blows kisses to me can some one help

Ask a friend to do it for you and then there ya go your set-trix

Q: is it ok to date online

I dont know if i would do it unless you've talking to this person for at least 2 yrs because you dont know fully what your getting yourself into just dont give your number or your address-trix

Q: is cybbering illgel

No but if you want my personal opinion on it i think its for ppl who are despret-trix

Q: I know this probably sounds dumb, but what is the diffrence between a handjob and a blowjob.. im only 12.. and ive heard alot of people talk about it- and i guess i dont understand or havent asked anybody what it is. thanks

Handjob is where you are pretty much jacking the guy off for him... and blowjob is with the mouth and ya suck on it-trix

Q: well my friend really annoys me should i tell her that or what

Yeah you should tell her but try and be nice about it also-trix

Q: ok im blonde right now but its like died blonde it looks good but i want to put some strawberry blonde highlights in with it i have blue eyes so i think that it would look good im just not sure how strawberry blonde goes with already blonde hair so can someone tell me how it would look or give me some sites to go to so i can see how it would look? thanks love lots... ps. my hair is like 2 inches past my shoulder

Askjeeves or google and just type in what you are looking for that what i did with alot of things hair, looks, help and ect. and that should be a help he is smart!!-trix

Q: I have a large very sore lump on my head near my neck. I want to know what it is and if it is serious.

Well i had one on top of my head and i went into the dr. because it didnt start to go away and its a stress bump and the dr. just gave me medicine like some sort of cream to put on it and it went away in the next 5 days but it was there for about a week and half and thats when i went in i hope i helped -trix ((((rate me))))

Q: kay, I'm currently dating a guy named Eric, but my ex keeps ciming around telling me he is going to use me and stuff like that, my ex wants me back, and he's trying hard to get what he wants, i haven't told him about Eric 'cause it's only been a couple days, is he jealous of my friendship with Eric that he knows about or is that just me?

It could be a little bit of both and maybe you should tell him about your bf because that could make things different also-trix

Q: As far back as I can remember I have seen things that weren't there(i.e. people, birds and dogs nothing inanimate). These things never talk, they don't scare me or interact with me. I have never told anyone about this before so I don't know if anyone else sees these. I know this is some sort of mental thing, but does anyone have any idea what this actually is? It doesn't bother me but I would like to know what it is. Does anyone know?

Maybe its a ghost of some type or marage but sometime people only see the ghost some look at is as a loved one lost of the guardian angel watching down and over them-trix

Q: to start..im 17! i feel so different from my family...im the youngest of 4!! i just dont wanna be around them anymore..my friends even tell me im wayyyy different from them!! i get sooo aggrivated with them over nothing! i really dont know what to do! i want to move out...im trying to save money but im between jobs now!:-/

Your almost 18 its okay just a lil bit longer and you'll be out in no time and try to stay at friends house as much as your possible can-trix

Q: ok my sis and her friend told me for the longest time that her brother who is in my grade liked me and i figured it out whern he asked me out so now were goin out and there always askin me questions about like personal things like what weve done and stuff i love hangin out wit my sister and her friend but when they envite my b/f we like dontr talk to eachother and i dont know y and when we tried they sit there and just start sayin stuff and when we dont there like y dont u talk

You prolly feel uncomfortable and you may want to give your friend and ur sis the impression that you and this guy are perfect for eachother so you dont say anything in the case of maybe you saying something to him-trix

Q: what do I do if i'm in love with another man and I'm married. My husband says we(the man I;m in love with) can be friends but things seem to be more than friends I really love this other man
I want to be with him! Help

It may be time to call it cuts on you and your husband or you and that other guy need to call it cuts but you need to think real hard on this but it could be difficult loosing the one you are married to but thats where you have to sacrifice either way you loose someone very important to you-trix

Q: ok well i dream stuff alot and it happens and i know that happesn sometimes but mine are like real and sometimes they will be of people i will meet the next day so i think i am dreaming of complete strangers but they turn out to be people i meet idont know wut do think of this cuz i can answer these peopes questinos before they ask them cuz in the dream they have already given me the answer
plz tel me if this happens 2 u 2

Sometimes when we are sleeping we are just wonderess and we cant control whats going on at all so its all bunches of things and its maybe just a cawinsidence that all that stuff happans or just luck but not all the time sometimes you know enough information on what will happan like predicting it-trix

bio

My name is Trix, I am 17. I love pink, and degrassi.

I just recently got out of a relationship of 21 months. I love him still but I'm moving on.

I've been there done that im sure

ex. (with the number of expierences)

-Long term relationships (2)
-Bad expierence with BF's family (1)
-Broken bones (11)
-Stitches (2)
-Seen someone killed (1)
-Loss of family (1)
-Cancer in the family (2)
-Family in Iraq (1)
-Mom had brain surgery (2)
-Loss of pet (4)
-Moved from state to state (5)
-New highschool (2)
-Car accident (3)

Like I said "been there done that"