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Q: hi my names dean i meet this girl 2 and a half years ago see ust to fancy me but i had a gf and now i dont and i told her i like her its just im not sure if see likes me sooo what should i do so help me please
Well if you already told the girl you like her then I would ask her what she thinks about that and whats going to happan and if she would every consider going on a date with you and see where that leads things... just bring it up casually and tell her you wish you would have relized you liked this girl sooner then what you did-trix

Q: does anyone know of a store that i could get movie and tv posters from? also, about how much would they cost?
thanks
Spencers and back home they had a Stardar store i dont know if you have them there... and as far as the prices go they were pretty reasonable prices... sorry if i wasn't much help :(-trix

Q: What is the fastest street legal car
Maybe a F50 i dont know i just know they are hard to handle driving-trix

Q: what kind of ferrari was will smith driving in Bad Boys 2
Well i dont know that kind of question but im sure you could ask jeeves that question or google that question and they could probably help you out with that or a car dealer maybe-trix

Q: okay so ive liked this guy for about 8 or more months and i guess hes liked me. well neither of us are sure what happened but we both got a diff person and we both started dating other people. well this summer after i broke up w/ my bf me and him have started like each other again. but i told him i wouldnt go out w/ him until things cooled down w/ me and my x. but now he tells me he still loves me and stuff but hes still out w/ other girls and i told him i was ready to go out but now hes saying he doesnt want to ruin our friendship. WHATS GOING ON! i mean even after he said the friendship thing he still tells me he loves me and calls me and stuff. any suggestions?
Well this is happaning to my friend Rose and Mitch (my cuz) and Her and Ben broke up but she was waiting for things to settle down between her and Ben after they broke up and so now Ben is going to go out with Kelly most likely and Mitch went out with another girl but she dumped him because he did something so then Rose was getting ready to tell him one day that she was ready to go out with him but he said he thinks they should just remain friends and he didnt want to take chances of going out and not being friends afterwards but rose said that if they were good enough friends now there wouldnt be much of a change if they did break up but it looks as if he understood her prespective after a few days and now they are going to go out... so maybe point out to him that you to are good firends and it will make the relationship pretty easier and more comfortable with eachother and if you guys did break up there wouldnt be much of a change afterwards because you guys were such good of friends from the beginning and the whole Love thing he may love thats what mitch did to rose to and thats like you and this guy playing there mini play but i think you and her have the same thing going on and you both will end up with the guys-trix

Q: hey how do you tell what level a moderator you are at???? ill rate you for this!!!!
You will get a notice at the top of page or whatever and it will say what level moderator you are if you a level 2 and if you are thats what i am you will have lil smilies next to the questions in the pool-trix :)

Q: how do i see how ppl rated me ?
in your column you can tell on the feedback page but you cant see who did unless they leave who it was but you can click on the number and see what the question was...-trix

Q: i'm 13 and all i ever want is to sing and listen to music. I really want to get alot better but besides lessons idk how. i just want to be a good singer that people want to hear.
how do i do that?
My friend tunes her voice along with a piano... thats a way i guess-trix

Q: I'm going into my freshman year in high school. What are some do's & don'ts for high school?
Dont act a fool like ludacris says lol but just be friendly and you should be fine!-trix

Q: My family expects me to be exactly like my cousin, "Sarah". Sarah's one of those preppy, popular girls, & I'm not even close to that. I have a few close friends & I'm more laid-back. Just because we look alike (we look like sisters), everyone expects us to act alike. I hate being compared to Sarah all the time & being expected to be like her. I don't want to be her shadow. How can I handle this?
Tell your family your not her and she's not you your not going to follow in somebody else's footsteps all the time you may do something that sarah does but not exact your going to follow in her footsteps a lil bit but take a detour tell them to love you for who you are for who they want you to be!-trix

Q: This category probably doesn't match my questions but oh well. Anyways... I really don't have that much body hair but most of what I have is black hair. Does anyone know how to bleach my like arm hair blonde? Don't say "be happy with who you are and don't try to change your looks" but just to make it clear to yall, I am doing this for myself, not for any 1 else. Please help asap atleast answer b4 like July 9 or 10 or w/e. Please and thank you! I will rate you if you answer and if it's a reasonable answer. Thankz so much! Luv yall!
Well you could get a kit from wal-mart, k-mart, target, osco drug, or wal-greens and go from there... but if your hair is black that would be the problem right there... and maybe if you put your arms out in the sun too they could help with the darkness of the hair color-trix!!

Q: I have this new girl in my neighborhood. My friend really likes her but I don't. Because when my friend is with her they ignore me. Now that it's summer they're always having a water fight, and they're arn't inviteing me to have a water fight. Should I ask if I can play or just watch them have the best time of their lives while I do nothing but watch tv. I need someone to answer me quick.
Just go ask them to play and if they say no take a water balloon and chuck it at their faces... no im jk although that would be funny but if they say no they are not very good friends in the first place but i mean yeah give them some space and then maybe you and your friend could hang out and she could give you and him some space im sure you have more then 1 friend invite some friends over to hang out and make your own water fight!! oo!! you could do a war!! dun dun dun!!-trix

Q: when someone says go streakin what do they mean?
their naked and they are going to go streaking!-trix

Q: Will Clorox Bleach bleach your hair? I don't want to try it out and find out that it works! This isn't really important but I would apprechiate it if you would answer this.
I appoligize if I didn't spell apprechiate right.
Its appreciate.... and i dont think i would try.. thats probably pretty bad for your hair actually... Maybe the show Jackass will get around to bleaching their hair with Clorox Bleach... then you can find it out through someone else's mistake... if it is a mistake ;)-trix

Q: okay me and this gurl r goin out one night she came to my room and we had some fun (if u know wat i mean)her mom came looking for her she caught us and know i cant see her ne more i love her and tried to sneek out but every time i do i get caught

wat do i do

P.S im a 16 year old male
Hmmm.... Well you need to go to her parents to apologize first i know it might be a hard thing to do but you gotta do it do it for that girl that you love and maybe her mom wont like you at first or want you to have anything to do with her daughter at first but in given time she will probably crash in and let you see her. But she will probably give you certain times you can see her. Also let her mom know how much she means to you.-trix

Q: ok... i have a guy friend & i think bout him 24/7
we have known eachother for bout 1 month but didnt start to talk till 2 weeks ago..so i let him hit it the next day after we 1st talked. ( i know i shouldnt of but i wanted some) & since then we have been pretty close.n-e-way for some reason i say i dont like him & when we kiss i dont see fireworks or nothin. i dont think i like him, but if i didnt then why i spend all day thinkin bout him.he had 2 different situations goin on his gurl & then me. so i told him i didnt want to be on the side. so when i decided not to talk to him i got off the phone for the last time & i started cryin. i guess im havin mixed emotions or somethin. but some1 plz tell me how u think i feel bout this guy................p.s im 16...~1~
I think u probably should have given it more time then what you did maybe start your friendship over again from scratch and work from there-trix

Q: can women fall pregnant by a man who is 20years older then them
Yup my aunt is 22 turning 23 and my uncle is 45 so its possible.... this question makes me wonder...-trix

Q: You worry me,
You’re face so dark and cold.
You must be ready to kill me.
This night is dark,
No one will notice this.
No one will care.
You wanted me to die for years.
You revealed it tonight,
The night of hell.

My night of torment was not like before,
So sweet and full of cheer
Your good mood turned into anger,
And it engulfed me,
This will never be the same as it was before,
You thought I was a toy for you to play with,
But I’m not a voodoo doll,
But so it seems I have acted as one for you.
My whole life was a lie,
The life I spent with you,
The one that was most precious to me.

My life was wasted on you,
Your face is the worst sight in the world.
If only I could trust you anymore,
We could live in a fairy tale.
But, your last lie to me,
Won’t make anything the same,
You said you would hold my hand through thick and thin,
But you never said torture and cruelty,
I’m an idiot to trust you.

Blood drips upon this paper as I write my last goodbye
Can't you see that all we ever had was but a lie
I sit here and wonder just how hard you tried
To sing me to sleep that night with your one cold lullaby
But to your pleasure it’s enough
Because you just heard the sound of my voice choke.


Ok, I know this was terrible, but please give me some feedback.
Wow this is good and very dramatic like emotional and stuff i bet it makes the other person your talking about feel down/bad keep writing-trix (((((please rate)))))

Q: ok. i have blonde, sort of curly/wavy hair and its a little below my shoulders and im starting to change my style a little bit into EMO, i have glasses and i wanted to get like wispy bangs like hilary duff. would i look completely stupid with bangs or would it look good?? PLEASE help me!!
Well i dont like hilary duff for the 1st thing and i dont much go for the whole bang things i think of bangs as a girl with goody to shoes but some ppl just can pull the bangs look off but i cant it may look cute.-trix

Q: I have a problem with conflicts, well you could say that. And whenever I feel really bad I cut..... It's hard for me to stop, because it brings out anger, I don't really know what to do, and I need help.
Tell a parent or a close family friend quickly!!!-trix

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bAhAmAmA0250
My name is Trix, I am 17. I love pink, and degrassi.

I just recently got out of a relationship of 21 months. I love him still but I'm moving on.

I've been there done that im sure

ex. (with the number of expierences)

-Long term relationships (2)
-Bad expierence with BF's family (1)
-Broken bones (11)
-Stitches (2)
-Seen someone killed (1)
-Loss of family (1)
-Cancer in the family (2)
-Family in Iraq (1)
-Mom had brain surgery (2)
-Loss of pet (4)
-Moved from state to state (5)
-New highschool (2)
-Car accident (3)

Like I said "been there done that"

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