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Question Posted Friday June 25 2004, 11:16 pm

okay me and this gurl r goin out one night she came to my room and we had some fun (if u know wat i mean)her mom came looking for her she caught us and know i cant see her ne more i love her and tried to sneek out but every time i do i get caught

wat do i do

P.S im a 16 year old male


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bAhAmAmA0250 answered Thursday July 8 2004, 3:28 pm:
Hmmm.... Well you need to go to her parents to apologize first i know it might be a hard thing to do but you gotta do it do it for that girl that you love and maybe her mom wont like you at first or want you to have anything to do with her daughter at first but in given time she will probably crash in and let you see her. But she will probably give you certain times you can see her. Also let her mom know how much she means to you.-trix

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crackafosho answered Sunday June 27 2004, 12:26 am:
Get a friend thas a girl to contact her n use her to be your link to ya gurl... get it? =)

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mack answered Saturday June 26 2004, 11:47 am:
Ok, first you must pick one of these options


@ call instead of going over

@ wait until the mother goes to work

@ meet her in the movies that should give you some time together!!

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~~TalkinTina~~ answered Saturday June 26 2004, 12:33 am:
wow that sucks im 16 and i know how that is my mom walked in on me and my b/f and i have to say dont go to the mom to say sorry because the mom wont care go to your girl and i sounds like you are the only one sneeking out you need to have her pitch in to if she loved you the same she would. have her say shes going to the movies with a friend but you meet her there instead if you need any help on excuses on getting you/her out of the house just ask me. trust me im a queen at getting out of the house

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MissJ1414 answered Friday June 25 2004, 11:51 pm:
You need to go to her mom and apoligize.. Then you will feel more comfortable. Don't stop the relationship because your embarised.

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Siren_Cytherea answered Friday June 25 2004, 11:41 pm:
Heh
Classic...
Alright, firstly, home probably wasn't the best place to "have fun." But you know that. I reccomend going out. ;)
Sneaking out is not a good solution. It only lands you in more trouble. I suggest you talk to her mom. Just go to her house one day, and tell her mom you'd like to speak to her. By "had some fun" I assume you mean had sex. Explain your reasoning for doing so, and prove to her that you love her daughter and the last thing you'd do is hurt her.
No sneaking around! If you do that, the mother will think you're untrustworthy, and that's just bad.
Give that a try and see how it goes. Don't talk on the phone. Do it in person. =)
If you need more help, don't hesitate to ask. =)
-Siren =)

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~*RiSs*~ answered Friday June 25 2004, 11:41 pm:
all i can say is that if u really do love her then tell ure mom or dad or who ever that and if they look back in the past then they might see that they did the same stuff then they may let her come over again if not then i dont know wat to tell ya!!!sorry!!
love ya lotz~~
~~riss

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blonde answered Friday June 25 2004, 11:23 pm:
You need to talk with her parents. Tell them that you love her. You are going to have to not mess around with her anymore. Just date. You have your whole life ahead of you. 16 is too young to be "having fun" in your room. Make her parents trust you and believe what you say. Good luck!

Love, Blonde

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