all my friends have boyfriends right now.. i feel so sad because i dont. im always around them with their boyfriends and see how loved they are. i just got out of a long relationship and miss just the feeling of being told "i love you" or just the feeling of being held in that special guys arms. i feel lonely and ive tried looking. theres no one for me to go out with that i like. please help before i go into a depression.
dont go into depression over not being with somebody.. try your hardest to enjoy the single life.. but just keep tryin to look for that somebody eventually you will...hope i helped..~*DEZ*~ thuggirl041790
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we both know that we like each other and we flirt like crazy. we are now starting to cuddle a lot. and i make him laugh he makes me laugh and i really like him alot. and we are definitely hugging a lot. i am running out of ideas about what to do. he can't have a gf right now cuz of his school work (it's bad). so what do i do? i'm a 17 year old girl.
well age dosnt matter first of all.. and just take it to the next level.. go on and kiss him.. or somethng.. it dont even have to be with tongue it can jus be a lil peck on the cheek.. thats no big deal and its not nothin more then a lil friendly kiss..hope i helped
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there is this guy in my neighborhood who i met at a dance and we hung out several times, once in the hood over the holidays and at a few more dances. he's adorable, and i think i really like him. he might have a girlfriend though...id like some insights on what should happen here- should i try to befriend him? i'd really like to. what can i do to hang out with him or get him to notice me without seeming like a stalker or obsessed? btw, we go to different schools...both are single-sex schools...help?
Yea since you like this guy you should befriend him.. jus try to hang with him and talk to him as friends.. you can still talk to him and befriend him without seeming obsessed or like a stalker jus try not to be like up his ass all the time or something.. hope i helped hun..~*DEZ*~ thuggirl041790
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theres this kid who keeps on saying sup' dog to me and when i dont answer him he sayes a name so evil i cant repeat it even on the computor. this has become a problem because now my friends call me that sometimes.
Well you shouldnt be so damn stuck up and say something back.. you dont have to ignore him.. he probably never done anything to you he jus greeting you in his own way.. you could of said something like nothing to much or nothin chillin fam.. you dont have to jus act like he aint sayin nothing too you.. and by the way it sup dawg.. kid.. ~*DEZ*~ thuggirl041790
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hi i have a 3 yearold daughter but latly she been out of control she dont listen she is very bossy she wont potty train she hits throws things around gets into everything what can i do to help with all of this everyone is getting mad cuz she is not potty trained yet ive tryed pottys and the adult toliet but nothing works ive tryed soap and spankings and took her toys away but nothing is working can someone help me
liz
Just let her do it on her own.. or you can get somebody she looks up too.. to help her out with the whole thing.. and if she really likes toys or something this is what my big sister did for my niece she bought her a new toy every week and if she used the potty that whole week she got her toy at the end.. it dont even have to be an expensive toy.. but i hope i helped..~*DEZ*~ Thuggirl041790
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I have heard the term "dry sex" used a lot. What does it mean?
Well i never heard that but i would guess the girl isnt wet..hope i helped..~*DEZ*~ thuggirl041790
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Okay so I've been goin out with guy for about...4 months and i dont really like him.But it would feel soo weired if i dumped him bcuz hes a big part in my life.Idk what to do...
Well if hes a good part of your life and you care for him i dont see why you should break up wit him.. but if i didnt like him and been wit him that long then i would stay with him.. if i didnt like him to start with then i wouldnt of got wit him in the first place.. so i'd probably break up wit him and keep him as a friend..~*DEZ*~ Thuggirl041790
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do you think it is weird that a 17 year old is going out with a 13 year old, even if they love eachother more than anything in the world?
Well if your a guy going wit a 13 year old girl its kinda sick.. but if your a 17 year old girl i dont exactly know wha you'd see in a lil boy but ok.. well if they mature and what not then i guess its okay.. you cant go to jail yet for it.. so i hope i helped ~*DEZ*~ thuggirl041790
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ok, first of all, let me tell you that i just want to know what y'all think about this - please tell me honestly if you think this guy likes me or not. i usually see answers that 'since i don't know you both, i don't know', but please tell me your gut feeling.
i'm a senior and there's this guy who sits behind me in one of my classes (he's also a senior). i really like him and he can probably tell, but everyday when there's a break in the class or something we end up talking. not just like, 'can you help me with this worksheet' but more personal things. also, when i go through the halls i glance over and he's usually looking at me. from your viewpoint, do you think he likes me?
Hun sure sounds like he likes you..ask him.. and see whats up.. and i hope the best for you and him..good luck..~*DEZ*~ thuggirl041790
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OK i got this realllly cute real Guchi purse for my birthday. Its really cute! and I just figured out that the most popular girl in school has the same purse! Im really mad cause i really want to use it but i can't because if she see's it shes gonna hate me! and well she kinda likes me right now and lets me hang out with her and shes really nice and stuff. BUt we cant have any of the same stuff as them. Even clothes. It really stinks cause i love all her clothes and i have the oppurtunitiys to but them! I really like there group! should i even hang out with them?
Hell no dont hang out wit em.. you are allowed to wear what you want.. fuck what she says or think.. i mean thats not cool.. actually that sounds pretty damn stupid to me.. i'd wear and use any thing i want.. if she dont wanna hang round you cause that then forget her.. jus rock the things you wanna wear and dont think bout what this girl says.. and um if shes so nice she not going to care..jus do what you want.. and wear and dont let this run lil things like that..~*DEZ*~ ThugGirl041790
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hi~...
there is this guy at school that i really really like. but i would never ask anybody out(i dont kno y but i just dont). WE hang out with the same people but we have never talked before. I was at a party friday night and he was there. so me and him and all our friends were standin around in a group/circle thing. And if i would stand somewhere he would stand right next to me and if i went on the other side of some people he would wait like a minute and then come over and stand next to me.. but he NEVER talks to me and i kno he is not shy not even when it comes to girls.. and i REALLY like him but i dont wan to like do sumthin to like let him kno that i like him and when he dosent like me and he would like be what is her problem or sumthin like that
so i am not sure if he likes me or not? what do i do?
well next time you and him and your friends are together again and having a conversation talk to him bout something i mean it dont have to be like you tellin him you like him. but jus be cool dont think about you likin him talk to him like you would with any of your other friends.. but make sure you aint all geeked or anything when you talk to him.. jus be cool and smooth and try to also not talk alot alot to get on his nerves.. but i hope i wasnt rude and i hope i helped..~*DEZ*~ Thuggirl041790
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How exactly can my boyfriend and i have some privacy without his sister or anyone watching us or barging in on us? not like..sexually..like just so we can have time together. Thanks!
Wel go somewhere else other then somewhere his siter is.. or wait til late at night to see him when they asleep or something,, but like jus go somewhere wit no one there to bother you.. or jus get your boyfriend to talk to em so that you have privacy.. hope i helped..~*DEZ*~ thuggirl041790
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im ADDICTED to sex. If I don't have it in less than at least a month, my stomach starts hurting, I become depressed..and everything. I know this sounds so stupid and don't call me a slut please...is this normal? or...what can i do to maybe hold my urge in? Because about every weekend I have sex (but with the same guy I always do it with) I`m also pregnate..and my hormones are going EXTRA crazy..15/f HELP!!!!!!!
Well i don't see how you can be addicted to sex.. but if its with the same guy and you love him or what ever i dont see why it should matter.. i mean i have sex almost every weekend too and its wit my baby..but its not jus a one time thing over the weekend either.. um i think its pretty normal..i wouldnt say your addicted tho..and um about the pregnanct thing good luck with it.. and your hormones going crazy is normal..~*DEZ*~ thuggirl041790
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ok i have this friend were seually sometimes thorses each other sometimes.and we flirt alot ! but he asked out someother girl that he never really talks to i was so shocked i idn't know what to do so i didn't talk to him for a day or 2 or when he looked at me i looked the other way .pretend i never saw him then i fought out they broke up with in a day then he decides to come up to me and hug we out of nowhere ?.....what the crap is that ?
well maybe he likes you and didnt realize how much he liked you til he got with this girl..but he might not wanna lose your friendship while being a girl either.. cause he might jus like you as a friend cause he hasnt asked you out or anything and it dont sound like he's shy or anything.. but jus go along with what he does and see what happens from there hope i helped..~*DEZ*~ thuggirl041790
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ok im 13 and i want to hang out with my boyfriend out of school but i dont no how to ask them..like im allowed to like go to the movies or the mall with them..but ive never had a guy over or go over his house (with them knowing) how do i get them to let me?
thanks in advance
well you dont exactly have to tell your parents that he's your boyfriend..your parents might think your too young or something.. but jus say he's a friend..or you could meet him up at the mall or at the movies..jus talk to your parents..see what they say bout you having guy friends.. ~*DEZ*~ thuggirl041790
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I know this isnt the most urgent message but since a few months ago ive been getting scabs on my scalp. Its really gross and sometimes when I move my hair around with my fingers they show and its disgusting and embarassing. Sometimes the scabs peel off and I find them in my hair and im thinking "What if someone sees me picking skin out of my hair?" and i get nervous. I also have acne all over my hairline in the front and thats also gross because when I want to pull my hair back they are all there and i have to put on alot of concealor so they wont be as noticeable.And even though im only 13 I think about it alot and sometimes I feel age doesnt matter as much when it comes to what you worry about because everyone is different. Alot of my friends say they dont notice it but I dont like it and its making me nervous and grossed out. What's wrong with me? What can I do to get rid of this stuff?
well i would first if you use like gel or hair spray something like that..that can bother your scalp dont use it anymore.. and for your face use a good acne wash,, i use this stuff called velocity from mary kay its great.. but like 28 dollars..but anyways i would suggest you go see a docter..an by the way you might wanna stop wearing concealor til you knows whats wrong..hope i helped..~*DEZ*~ thuggirl041790
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I really like this guy. Hes in all of my switching classes. The thing is i don't know what to do. I don't know if he likes me or not. Once i wasn't looking and he was right by me and when i turned my head i saw that he was staring at me...
At school i noticed that he wont look at all. He kinda avoids me... does this mean anything.
Also, does anybody have any good topic starters so i can try to talk to him.
Thanks! by the way i'm 13-f
Tell him your having nice weather jus playin.. um well i dont know anythng about this guy like what kinda things he likes or anything.. if you know any sports that he likes talk bout it with him or something or you can like act like you dont know something in one of your classes.. like act like you need help on a paper and see if he can help you or something.. but really dont be shy jus talk to everyone in your class and try to be friends wit him, thats how i am i know everyone in all my classes and i make sure of it.. jus dont be annoying jus try to relate to him or something.. or like compliment him on something he wears and ask wear he shops or tell him he smells good and ask what he is wearing or something.. you know jus think of something like that..hope i helped..~*DEZ*~ thuggirl041790
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how soon can you tell you are pregnat with a home pregnace test?
four days before your next period..or if you miss your period..~*DEZ*~ ThugGirl041790
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I like a boy but he already has a girlfriend. I still told him I like him though. He told me he likes me but he doesnt want to break up with his girlfriend even though she is a snob. What should I do?
Well you cant do nothin.. he wants to stay wit his girl..he apparently dont want you right now..so jus wait and see if he will break up wit her den he'll probably holla at you..hope i helped i ment well jus bein real..~*DEZ*~
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What are some good eye shadow/mascara/eyeliner colors that go really well with green eyes? I usually use black eye liner and mascara and w/e color goes with my outfit. Is that an okay thing to do with green eyes? Thanks.
Well i have like bluish green eyes but they look more green.. um i use black eyeliner and black mascara.. but usually like a white eyeshadow is what i use not alot tho... my eyes dont look right wit like a blue eyeshadow or anythng.. so i dont know i mean if you think it looks right then dont change it.. but sometimes i also use like a bronze eyeshadow it looks okay wit my eyes and this one its like a grayish blue like it dont look blue but it brings out my eyes..hope i helped..~*DEZ*~ thuggirl041790
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