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Q: I had sex on Sunday Morning for the basically first time (we tried the night before but it really hurt.) and when we were done i was bleeding really bad but it's still going and I have cramps so it's my period, duh, but is it weird that it happened right after the sex?
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No, it's fine. It's pretty normal.
a) it was your "first" time
b) you got your period.
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Q: can you watch movies on your ipod nano?
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No. You need a video iPod.
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Q: ok well theres this guy and well ive been wanting to kiss him since well i met hiM!!
He has told me he likes me and everyone tells me it all the time.
i Just want to kiss him and see what he does and if he goes with it...do you think i should!
we both are crushin each other but not going out YET.
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Depends if the time is right.
I think you should at least wait,
but if you feel comfortable, go for it!!
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Q: I was on a board where you said Proactiv worked great and that you recommended it. Do you remember how long it took for your face to clear up after using it? Ive only been using it for about 5 weeks but Im not happy with the results, my face seemed to get worse.
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It took me a little less than a week. Sometimes different (so-called) "medicines" work differently on each person. So if it worked well for me, it may not work so well for you. Do you see what I'm saying? So what I'd suggest is that you try another face cleanser, like Clearisil (sp). I've used that too and it works pretty well.
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Q: i am going to be a freshman and i really want to make the varsity squad for cheerleading. i have had my full since 6th grade and its goten better since. i have troubles with standing tucks. my sister is on varstiy and is always "i can't beleive you cant do a standing but you can do a full"! and it really bothers me, because i dont know how i can get it better. i do it sometimes and my form is fine. I just need basics (i already know how to pull up and tuck) and things that can give me confidence.
if you cant answer its fine, i just noticed your cheerleading screen name
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Nope, I can answer it.
There's a website full with pictures and directions how to accomplish [hopefully] what you're looking for. The reason I'm not sure with this, is because, yes, I was a cheerleader, but not one of them who had gymnastics involved.
http://www.trickstutorials.com/index.php?page=content/t_backflip
If this isn't it, I can defiitely help you on how to gain confidence.
First off, you have to believe in yourself. Very typical, but also true. If you have your mind set on negative thoughts, well then, there's no way your going to be able to do it.
If someone like your sister wants to make rude comments like that, obviously she isn't being very supportive. Block out people and things that will bring you down. Just think, and you could even say this, is that, 'hey, i'm working and trying my hardest, ad i'm going to continue the best I can. I'm practicing and improving.'
Practice makes perfect, right?
If there's anyone that could possibly help you, if the instructions didn't, try to gain help, and maybe someone on a higher level could give you tips. Your sister may even be a possible choice.
I understand it's really hard to make Varsity your freshman year, but that doesn't mean you can't do it. You never know (if you're trying out) what the judges are looking for exactly. But don't be totally bummed out if you just make JV, because it's not like you gave up.
If you can't get your standing tuck down in time, make sure you tell them that. It's okay, maybe it's just a weak point for now.
Just PRACTICE PRACTICE PTACTICE!!
And also, just be careful, because the last thing you need is to end up in a body cast in the hospital.
Jess♥
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Q: does your period stop sooner if its heavier?
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No. I wish it worked that way, but no, it doesn't. It just depends on how long your cycles normally last.
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Q: this question is kinda for girls only.
ok so this is kinda gross but lately i have been discharging alot, i usually do but not this nuch.
why is this happening?
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It's normal, and you'll be fine. If you are ready to start your period, or you have just finsihed, that may be one of the culprits. Otherwise, it's just your body getting rid of natural discharge.
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Q: why an ice cube floats in water?
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Ice is less dense than water.
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Q: theres this software that gives you free ringtones but they like send it to your phone.. and i was wondering if this was true? like do the ringtones cost money? and i know it sends you a text and i have cingular so would it be just 10 cents per text or would it be more? i dont want any charges onto my phone
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It says right in the FAQ, here you go:
Will I receive charges on my air bill (carrier bill)?
Depending on what carrier you have, you may or may not recieve additional charges on your air bill. In order to deliver the ringtone, wallpaper, video or game, ToneThis sends a text message to your phone. On some carriers text messaging is free, on other carriers, it's 1-2 cents each time you recieve one. For Verizon users, we send an MMS (picture message), the cost for these are usually higher.
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Q: KAyyyy. So I've been dating this boy
for about 6 months. And every once and a
while we'll go tot he movies and I'm not big on
PSA - Public Show of Affection. So, anyway.. we're not going to sit there and makeout. But whats some cute stuff I can do ? I remeber a couple weeks ago we sat there and laughed about each others dimples and he kisses my forhead when i say something silly.
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It should come naturally. Hold hands, or just a few pecks shouldn't be a big deal. But yes, I do know what it's like to be in your shoes, because I'm not big on PDA (Public Display of Affection) either.
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Q: SO im having this big cheer competition on friday and my coach wants me to be in it but the problem is i can do a split but not up to part and i need to do a heel strecth beacuse im one of the flyers....i need to know how i can nail them please
i'd greatly appreciate it!
thanks in advance...! xoxo
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Well, it'll definitely take practice and time, being as that I used to be a cheerleader. PRACTICE PRACTICE PRACTICE!! Tell your coach that you'll work hard to improve it, and tell her that you don't have it completely nailed. But, seriously, PRACTICE!! Tip: The more you stretch before you attempt, I can tell you that it'll probably be easier to do it.
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Q: I had sex a few days ago, and now I think I might have a urinary tract infection or something of that sort. Do the two go together or could this be something else? It burns a little when I pee, but nothing else seems to be wrong and I'm just worried.
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I think you should probably go see a doctor. And if there's any worries about your parents finding out, the doctor can't say anything because it's patient confidentiality. But, it does sound like you have a UTI, but, I also don't want to give you the wrong information because I am not a doctor.
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Q: are apple computers less prone to viruses or is that a myth?
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Yes, but realize (which I'm sure you already do) that any computer is liable to get a virus.
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Q: I am a little anti-social and that is because I am used to getting left out and feeling not accepted. so I was talking to two of the few people i do feel somewhat close to a male and a female that i joke with and talk to often. And, they begin to discuss something that happened in one of the dorms and They said that someone was in lets say the dorm cyrna and i said who was in cyrna and the male said nobody. like I wasn't accpeted and trusted enough to know what they were talking about. Do i take things too personally are what? Because it made me feel like we weren't close at all.
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I know how you feel. I've had it happen before. I understand maybe you have a little of what I have - social anxiety. And so that doesn't mean you have it, it's just a guess. Anyways, maybe try to get them to talk to you more, and maybe earn a little of their trust and respect. If they don't seem to want to accept you, then it's their loss. Move on to different people, because not eveyone's made up of cliques. Open up to other people, no matter how hard it is. Because the more you get used to it, it'll become more natural for you.
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Q: whats the myspace code to make your page/layout appear smaller. it shrinks everything down. thanks
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I'm not sure if this is exactly what you're looking for, but there's layouts called "tiny layouts" and make text appear smaller. It does kind of shrink your whole page.
http://freecodesource.com/myspace-layouts/cat.php?id=1
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Q: ok i need your help !!
im 5'2 and weigh 90 pounds
is the to fat to skinny or average ??
cuz i was thinking about losing 5-10 pounds do u think i need to ??
HELP !!
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I would say you're probably a little underweight. No, I don't think you should. If anything, just maintain your current weight.
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Q: Ok so, I'm starting a debate club at school, I think I have like sixteen people interested, but that number will probably increase by five to ten people. We've never had a debate club at school before, and though I know how a debate is set up, kind of, I have no idea how the teams are made, like will there be 8 people on each side or what? :/
I want people who have been in a debate club to tell me how they did things at school, just so I can get a general idea.
Any tips and advice are nice, but tell me how I set up the teams. Do I have different teams debating different things in groups of four con and four pro, or what?
Oh, and what are any topics you've debated that turned out to be really interesting and informative?
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I think you could have all one big group (one side pro, one side con), or like you said, small teams of 4 pro, 4 con.
Some good topics would be:
-media influence
-abortion
-death penalty
-myspace [good or bad]
Anything like that should work fine.
If you need anymore, let me know.
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Q: the bottom bar on my computer with the start menu is gone. i tryed to see if i could drag it up from the bottom of the screen, but its not there. how can i get it back?
please help!! thanks
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I think you should try re-starting your computer. Hit Crtl + Alt + Delete all at the same time on your keyboard. A Windows screen of some sort should pop up. Go to the top bar, and you'll find where you can restart it. If that doesn't work, I think you should call your computer company and ask for assistance.
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Q: I'm a girl by the way.
How can I separate my relationships from me being horny? My last relationship ended because of my sexual desires. Even though the guy tempted me.
I'm a virgin, I just meant making out, etc too much.
How can I stop being so horny?
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Okay, I'm guessing you're a teenager. And having sexual desires towards a guy is totally normal. I really think that you have to have self-control, or if you end up having sex, it could have serious consequences. (And not just pregancy or STD's).
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Q: okay so im going to start out with the fact that my friend ashley is so awesome. but there ARE some bad points of knoeing her. she tells me everything and then when people ask if i know something that they dont they get real mad because the answer is so totally yes. shes my best friend. and some of this information is dangerous. im scared ill tell secrets that are supposed to stay unknown.
HELP
my best friend tells me too much,
victoria♥
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I was kind of in the same situation you're in. I think you should just tell her things you're comfortable with telling her. Also, if she tells you EVERYTHING, it doesn't mean it's a bad thing. It means she trusts you. And as long as you guys trust each other (which means you would never tell anyone anything about what she tells you), your friendship should go well.
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bio
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Heyyyy, I'm jess. I love to help other people, no matter what. I've been through enough bs to know when to just stop and walk away. I don't judge; feel free to ask me anything. I have quite the temper. But, what makes me a good advice-giver is that for the most part, I'm genuinely empathetic and willing to help.
(:
I've had a lot of experiences with piercings, bullying, family problems, and even sexual issues (no std's)- but with the emotional part of it. I love music, so I give good, basic advice about that, too. Also, I deal with severe anxiety and depression, and have been in treatment numerous times. On top of that, I have OCD (Obsessive Complulsive Disorder), and because I've been around people addicted to drugs, or cutting, I can help! Just give me the chance.
add me on myspace!
www.myspace.com/itskittybitchx
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Gender: Female AIM: Member Since: August 1, 2005 Answers: 750 Last Update: January 1, 2009 Visitors: 45715
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