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Hi guys! :] I'm Lauren. I'm 15 years old. I've been through a lot in my life, so I can always relate to your problems. I love giving advice to people. :] So please ask away.Peace and love |♥♥

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This is prolly gonna sound dumb but im not into all those sterotype things. So like what does prep/goth/punk/emo/posers and all those things mean. Add them if i forgot some. Those are the basics that i know.
Like if you were pink and say "omg" and "like" every 5th word...your a prep?


that doesnt make sense to me...

Signed-
Outdated-nonsterotypical-gurl

♥ I totally agree with you!! I think being labled is way retarted. Being prep is wearing like abercrombie, hollister, american eagle. stuff like that. Goths wer black & they're sad & stuff, emo is where the guys wear really tight pants & sometimes eyeliner & converse & their har is like long on one side. punk..I dunno hard to explain =/. posers are people that try to aact a different way but they arent that way..way way hard to explain. For example if some guy came to school dressed all skater & stuff but could skate..they would be a poser. I H0PE I S0RTA HELPED ! D0NT G0 BY LABELS ! BE Y0URSLEF ! ITS ALL GAY!! XOXO Lauren

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Does anyone kno where i can like listen to music for free and has a bunch of songs. and i mean really super free.i rate high

Y0U C0ULD D0WNL0AD LIMEWIRE. www.limewire.com
X0X0-Lauren

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Me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost three months. He lives a town away from me, but we still barely ever see each other, and for some reason he barely calls anymore. What do i do to make myself feel better about the relationship?

HEY ! YA. THATS WHAT HAPPENs WHENN Y0U HAVE A L0NG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP ( WELL S0RTA L0NG DISTANCE) Y0U SHOULD TRY CALLING HIM OR SENDING HIM AN E MAIL. IF yA KEEP WONDERING & BEING SAD Y0U GUYS WILL DRIFT APART ! I THINK Y0U TWO SHOULD MEET UP SOMEWHERE & GO ON A DATE 0R SOMETHING SO Y0U COULD CATCH UP ! GOOD LUCK! XOXO Lauren

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I had this horrible dream and cant get it out of my head. To make a long story short my 2 month old baby and I ended up in a truck stop when a nut came in with a big knife. He just started killing people left and right and when he came to me I said "please dont hurt the baby" he laughed at me and cut my throught. As Layed on the floor bleeding he cut the babys throught and the baby was crying and he laughed and said to the baby "ahh, are you crying, want me to get your bottle?"
It was so dramatic Ive been crying about it all day. I woke up with red marks all over my neck from grabbing my throught while I was dreaming.

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I have a bunch of pimples on my chin and under my lips. I really hate them bc even with the tons of makeup i sover them up with they still pop out all gross and red. I would really love something that could make these DISAPPEAR!!!

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all of my friends are some of the nicest people in the world...but my dad just doesn't seem to like any of them. he always calls them brats or says that i can't hang out with them. they've all met him, and i keep telling him how great they are...but he just doesn't listen. how do i get him to see how amazing ALL my friends are?

♥ HEY ! I DEFFINETELY THINK Y0U SH0ULD TALK T0 Y0UR DAD AB0UT IT && TELL HIM EXACTLY H0W Y0U FEEL. IF HE D0ESNT LISTEN TO Y0U, THEN Y0U C0ULD TRY TALKING TO Y0UR M0M AB0UT IT [?] & THEN SHE C0UlD TALK TO HIM F0R Y0U ! THERES N0T REALLY ANYTHING Y0U CAN D0 AB0UT THIS PROBLEM. MAYBE HE IS JUST UNSURE AB0UT BEING AR0UND Y0UR FRIENDS & HE MIGHT THINK Y0U'LL GET INT0 TROUBLE WITH THEM. ITS N0RMAL FOR PARENTS T0 W0RRY AB0UT Y0U BECAUSE THEY L0VE Y0U & CARE AB0U Y0U. BUT MAYBE HES TAKEN IT TOO FAR. MAYBE Y0U C0ULD ALS0 HAVE Y0UR DAD TAKE Y0U & Y0UR FRIENDS S0MEWHERE SO HE COULD GET USED TO THEM & SeE HOW SWEET THEY ARE. I HOPE I HELPED BABE!! XOXO LOVEALWAYS-Lauren xoxo




WHY ARE Y0U GiViNG US 1'S ????
WE T0TALLY HELPED Y0U !

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ok so theres this guy that i really wanna get over but i cant. he likes one of my best friends but only thinks i'm "hot." i really want to get over him but i still like him even when i try to forget about it. and even if i do still like him...he doesnt like me. help!?!

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I went away with my friend a couple of weeks ago, and she was being a jerk, and now I don't really wanna be her friend anymore, what do I do?

♥ HEY. MAYBE YOU GUYS ARE JUST SICK OF EACHOTHER. MY FRIENDS AND I CANT STAND EACHOTHER WHEN WEVE BEEN TOGETHR FOR AWHILE. AFTER WE TALKED THROUGH IT EVERYTHING WAS ALRIGHT. I SUGGEST YOU GUYS TAKE A BREAK. YOU DECIDE HOW LONG. HOPE I HELPED! LOVE, Lauren

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Anyone know of any good websites???

♥ . I would try www.Alloy.com thats an awesome website. its girly & has quiizes & advice & fashion stuff.i

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I have a hard time getting a boyfriend. I'm not sure if it's just me because i have a lot of friends and i'm pretty nice. I dont get it!!! Any advice to get an HONEST and SWEET boyfriend???
I'll rate high for good advice.

♥ HEY GURLIE. AWW THERES NOTHING WRONG WITH YOU AT ALL. IM SURE A GUY WILL COME AROUND SOMETIME. HAVE ONE OF YOUR FRIENDS HOOK YOU UP WITH SOMEONE & FLIRT FLIRT FLIRT!! YOU HAVE TO BE OUTGOING SO GUYS CAN SEE YOUR PERSONALITY! KEEP BEING YOURSELF & DONT CHANGE! GOOD LUCK SWEETIE! XOXO LOVEALWAYS_lAUREN

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I'm 14/f
I think im fat and I wanna lose weight. I don't eat breakfast or lunch and barely dinner. All my friends are worried about me and try to get me to eat but I just say i'm not hungry. My question is, is this that serious and that unhealthy? Thanks!

♥ NOO. YOU NEEED TO EAT TO LOOSE WEIGHT..I KNOW THAT SOUNDS STUPID BUT ITS TRUE. NOT EATING IS THE UNHEALTHY WAY TO LOOOSE WEIGHT & DOESNT EVEN REALLY WORK. YOU NEED TO EAT LOTS OF FRUITS & VEGGIES & DONT EAT JUNK. DRINK LOTS & LOTS & LOTS OF WATER & SKLIP THE SODA..IT MAKES YOU BLOADED. XOXO

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i really wanna be a singer when i grow up but im kinda shy and dont like to sing infront of alot of people. can you please help me and tell me how i could get over that ?

♥ OKAY WELL FIRST START OFF SINGING TO YOURSELF FOR AWHILE LIKE IN THE SHOWER OR SOMETHING (HAHA) THEN START SINGING TO YOUR PARENTS, THEN YOUR FRIENDS..KEEP GROWING. THEN FINALLY TAKE SINGING LESSONS & YOUR TEACHER WILL HELP YOU OVERCOME THAT. AFTER AWHILE IM SURE YOUR GET OVER IT & THEN PEOPLE WILL REALIZE HOE BEAUTIFUL YOUR VOICE IS & THEY WILL WANNA HAVE YOU SING FOR THEM! SO EVENTUALLY YOU'LL GET USED TO IT & YOULL START LOVING TO SING INFORNT OF PEOPLE! HOPE I HELPED.. WISH I COULD SING =/ LOL YOUR LUCCKY. xoxo X0-Lauren

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I'm 15/f
Way too many guys like one of my best friends. It's just so annoying how many boys like her, and the ONE person I like likes her too which really sucks because whenever we all hang out together he doesn't even notice me. IM NOT JEALOUS! It just bothers me, and sometimes if I tell her that someone else likes her she'll be like who doesn't? Or something like that and it's just soo annoying. What should I do?
---x0 GiNa 0x

♥ hey sweetheart. Its normal to be jelous & i know you dont think you..but you might be =/ . I get jelous, everyone does..theres nothing to be ashamed about. & unfortunaltely theres nothing you can do except accept the fact. But I bet a guy will come around & like you. Just make sure your being yourself & being a good friend to you. I promiss everything will work out. G00D LUUCK! XOX-Lauren

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I was wondering what makeup colors would go well with my skin and eyes and hair.
I have blue-green eyes, dark blonde hair, and fair but tan right now skin. Thanks!

♥ same with me! wow thats cool. haha well. I use earthy tones instead of bright colors because i think it looks better. but you could do a brown eyeliner..a goldish eyeshadow and a browzer. since you have blue/green eyes ( like me! ) lol You could Get the ALmay..shoot i forgot what its called but they have eyeliner, which i use and eyeshadow that brings out your eyecolor. & i have the eyeliner that brings out green eyes because my eyes are more on the green side && it makes my eyes totally stick out. so i would recommend that! good luck! xoxoxo

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my hair gets incredibly greasy easily cause i have oily skin. i was wondering what i could do to prevent this from happening cause i have camp for two weeks and it grosses me out

♥ UHH GOSH. I HAVE THE SAME PROBLEM. I WENT TO CAMP LAST YEAR..& I HAD TO MANAGE A SHOWER EVERY OTHER DAY..& I WAS MISSERABLE. CUZ I HAVE TO WASH TWICE A DAY..THATS HOW OILY MY HAIR GETS..ITS GENETICS. ANWAYS.. MAKE SURE YOU DONT USE A LOT OF CONDITIONER OR IF YOU CAN..DONT USE ANY AT ALL. MAKE SURE WHEN YOU RINSE YOUR HAIR YOU GET ALL THE CONDITIONER && SHAMPOO OUT. DOVE IS THE BEST FOR OILY HAIR. YOUR HAIR MUST BE FINE AND THIN. SO USE THE VOLUMIZER 2 IN 1 SHAMPOO & CONDITONER FOR FINE, THIN HAIR. IT ADDS BODY & FULLNESS TOO! OR YOU CAN USE THE SHAMPOO & CONDITIONER SEPERATE FOR THAT. BUT I WOULD RECOMMEND THE 2 IN 1. I HOPE I HELPED! XOXOX GOOD LUCK BABE!

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Does anyone know how to make cd's from limewire? I have a playlist and everything, and the directions I read from someone online didn't seem to help. Can someone please tell me how to make cd's off your playlist off of limewire?

♥ It took Forever for my to figure it out. Go to Your limewire library..and at the bottom click explore. then you will see all the files of your songs. then it depends on what CD burner type you have. for mine..you right click on the song and go to send to, then My documents. Then it will be saved in your documents. I know that takes FOREVER & i dont know i faster way =/ . ill figure it out someday lol. I hope i kind of helped! lol xOxOx GOOD LUCK!

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Whats the best shampoo and conditioner that can make your hair cooperate with you and make your hair grow longer!! Thanx!

♥ I would use Garnier& fructis ; Long & Strong.

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okay heres the downlow. Whenever my boyfriend is around girls he always flirts with them, even if i'm right there. then when i talk to him about he'll either say i never did that or oh i'm sorry i won't do it again, but he never changes! I don't know what i should do. Part of me wants to break up with him and another part of me doesn't! So what should i do!!??

I'm 13,Female

HM..IF I WERE YOU I WOULD DUMP HIS ASS. HA. OR MAYBE YOU SHOULD SIT HIM DOWN AND HAVE A SERIOUS CONVERSATION ABOUT IT SAYING EXACTLY HOW YOU FEEL. IF HE DOESNT STOP..THEN HES NOT WORTH IT! YOU NEED A BOY THAT PAYS TOTAL ATTENTION TO YOU AND NOT OTHER GIRLS! GOOD LUCK BABE! xOxOx-

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Hey. I am going out with my best friend. Before we were going out, he was so sweet and loving and everything. Now that we are going out, he doesn't act like that anymore. First he was really bad, he basically ignored me. (It wasn't because he was embarrassed)Now he has gotten better but still hasn't gone back to normal. I know he is trying, but how long is too long? (Its been 5 months!)

WELL..SINCE YOU GUYS ARE BEST FRIENDS OR WERE..HE PROBLY FEELS A LITTLE AWKWARD..I MEAN THINK ABOUT IT_GOING OUT WITH YOUR BEST FRIEND. PERONALLY..I THINK YOU GUYS ARE BETTER OFF AS FRIENDS. MAYBE TRY THAT AGAIN & MAYBE HE WILL GET MORE COMFORTABLE & YOU GUYS CAN TRY AGAIN. OR YOU COULD TALK TO HIM ABOUT IT & BE LIKE.." YOU SEEM SORT OF DIFFERENT NOW THAT WE HAVE BEEN GOING OUT..WHY IS THAT?" as SIMPLE AS THAT. GOOD LUCK HUN! XOXO

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I seriously need some help.. last night my little sister (10) must have gotten a hold of some scissors because my hair is completely chopped... the night before last I colored her hair green (shes a bleach blonde) and I guess she did that to get me back.... WHAT DO I DO?!?!! my hair is so short and uneven... it was down by my lower back...any help would be appriciated!

♥ HAIR STYLIST DOLL. DONT DO ANYTING TO IT OR YOULL MESS IT UP EVEN MORE! SORRY TO HERE ABOUT THAT. GOOD LUCK BABE!! XOXO

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