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my friend Jay invited me to this party saturday night then a few mins later he said that I might not be able to go bc this girl that I don't along with will be there. But if i did wanna go I will have to ask this other kid. But me and this other kid aren't really friends. he's just planning it and the party is at jay's. So should I go?? Jay is afraid the girl will start stuff with me and there will be a huge fight. sry if this is confusing but thanx for the help
girl dont let another person get in the way of you having fun!!!! you should go!!!
it's the summer holidays and i haven't seen my bf since the start of them (nearly 2 weeks ago) He's been away every time i try to get together with him and our holidays are at different times so we wont see each other that much at all. I tried calling him and he said he'd call back but he didn't. I've hardly spoken to him at all. He isn't making any effort to see or talk to me. do you think he's gone off me? he said he'd never dump me and that he loves me but i'm not too sure. what should i do?
tell him that you want more attention and that right now it seems that he doesnt even want to be around you!!! just let him know how you feel
There have been questions about hickeys on here, but what exactly are they?
spots on your skin that are red because blood has been drawn up to the surface...they usually last for about a week or so depending on how big they are
*15 Female
**....my mom and dad love my boyfriend AJ (his 18) but sometimes they porblems w/ him....my curfew is 11 and he brings me home at 11 and we jst hang out down stairs for a lil bit before he goes home..well last nite he was over and my dad came down stairs and told him he had to leave and if he ever stayed late past my curfew at the house he would call the cops on him...what should i do when my parents don't like the things that me and my boyfriend do or the things that he does?
**we have been dateing for 6 months**
tell your parents that you and him aren't doing anything wrong and that you are in by your curfew so it shouldnt matter!!!
OK i need sum advice! Theres this guy on mah street who i use to like n stuff.But at the time he didnt feel the same so i got over it.But now he likes me and he's kinda bugging me b/c now he likes me. I'm 13 and he's 14.And it sux cuz like whenever my older brother who is 15 has a guy friend come over the guy who likes me always starts talking to the guy n asking him who he's there to see! And im getting real pissed i dunno what i should do!! PLEASE help!!
(Alexia)
tell that guy that you dont have feelings for him anymore and that you just wanna be friends!!! And that pulling that other crap is real immature!!
im 13 yrs old and a gurl i want to know a good FUNNY halloween costume i know its early but i want an original cool costume. but i dont wwant it to cost too much whats to best costume you've ever seen?
go as Jessica Simpson!!!!
My mom is an alchoholic(or however you spell it) and she left my father a few years ago. She has been an alchoholic for as long as I cant remember and she has wrecked about 5 of our cars. She used to make me lie for her so my father wouldnt find out she had been drinking. I never told on my mother, because she convinced me that it was my father who was the problem. Whenever he found out about my mothers drinking, she would blame it on me and call me a bitch. I never blamed her, saying that it was the alchohol, and not her talking. She has been to jail twice, and also AA, which did nothing. After she left my father she took half of the money with her and ruined my chances for a good college.She still blamed my father. After that she got both a dog and a cat for me but was "keeping them for me" at her apartment. She lost both of them. She dated about 100 guys who she scraped up from the under belly of satan. (They were all the "one")she finally married one of the grungiest, who smelled of pot( she did drugs to.)then she skipped town after not showing up to court after a drug bust.We havent heard from her or her husband since. All of this almost killed me. She went from loving mother to a pot addict between jobs and under house arrest in a hotel. Its hard going day after day not knowing if your mother ids still alive, so please if anyone out there knows or knew a woman named Judy M. Flint ( maiden name Judith M. Daniel) please let me know? And if anyone has gone through something similar it would be great to talk to you. Thanks
i havent seen or heard of your mother but i know what your going through. My mother is sort of like yours only she still lives with me and its a miracle that my parents are actually still married! But the best thing for you to fo right now is to just start over with your life. Look back and forget the past because being kept down constantly will only make you more and more miserable. Your mom messed up her life and was starting to mess up yours. Don't make the same mistakes she did!
i've been dating this guy for a little over 2 months now.... i like him so much... and i think i'm begining to fall in love with him... my dad HATES him... he's never done anything for my dad to not like him... my dad always said "i just want to see you happy" but ever since he found out about my boyfriend he's been really mean to him and it hurts me... i don't know how to get him to like him... my boyfriend means alot to me and it hurts me so much when my dad starts saying things about him... my boyfriend is really nice and he would never do anything to hurt me. i don't know why he doesn't like him!!!! HELP ME TO GET MY DAD TO LIKE HIM!
well if your dad wants you to be happy and this guy is what makes you happy then your dad should support that. Try and find out what it is about your boyfriend that your dad doesnt like. And also you have to remember that fathers are very protective over their daughters!!!! so maybe he is just a little shocked by the fact the he isnt the only man in your life now
Okay. i wrote the stuffing tha bra thing..let me clear sumthyn up.. when i was doing that i didnt know what i was thinkyng..i was so inlove wid him dat it didnt matter. I knoe tht it wus wrong and stupidd..and dat if he relle liked me he wuld have liked me for me..but wut shuld i do? bc everytime i go to chyll wid ma best friend i c him..so i always have to wear 2 bra's and tht relle sucks! and its not comfortable but i dont want to stop chylling wid ma friend. Its not even about the boy anymore..its about how can i stop? so i could go there comfortable??
yes!! go as yourself!!! dont try to impress anybody..jsut be proud of who you are and you will be fine
Does anyone know how u can get UTI .. urinary Tract Infection?
if you drink to many acidic drinks like coke and orange juice like that...that you possibly give you a UTI....to avoid it just always flush out your system with water and cranberry juice
I want to know some good pick up lines to use on people. Thanks~!
"did it hurt? girl:did what hurt? guy:when you fell from heaven?"
"word if the day is legs....lets go somewhere and spread the word"(girls dont respond well to that one so watch out lol)
ummm those are then only 2 i know haha
im the jelous type and my bf and i got mad at this one girl for the same reasons and we both used to be best friends with her, but now hes not really mad at her. he says hes just happy to ignore her. but i have a feeling that they're going to be friends again because they go to the same school and i dont. i trust him...but also i think im going to lose him. he told me he checks out other girls and all and then he wonders why i think im going to lose him. i love him so much and i just cant help being jelous, but i dont know if i should talk to him about it or not.
well there is no point in going out with him if you dont trust him girlie! if your dating.you should be dating somebody you can trust and always count on. But i really wouldnt be jealous over his friends...i mean if they are friends again then thats cool...that doesnt mean that he is going to treat you different...and if he starts to then just tell the boy
Ok awhile ago i told you about my friend, he told me he loved me and then flirted with my bff the next day. Well i took some of your advice and now were cool but theres just one thing. Im kind of a mom's girl and im sick of that. So i talked to him about it. And now on monday we are going to a school to drink, but the thing is im 14. He says he wont let me get drunk but i donno. Please help me get out of pier pressure?
well 14 is kind of young to be going drinking at some school..much less not real smart!!! if a cop happend to drive by and saw kids drinking then yall would get in big trouble...then thin kabout what your parents would do if they found out..they would probally never let you see your man again!!! just tell him that you dont feel its safe to go do that and that maybe yall should go do something else!!!
im starting high school in aug. for the first time , and im sooooooooooo freaked out b/c i hav so many bad memorys from my middle school . im afraid its guna b worse . can anyone help me at alll
oh honey child high school is a blast!!!!!! you meet soo many new people and soo many good friends its like your start all over!!! high school will be a million times better the middle school i promise ya!!!
what are some excersises or cardio i could do?
you could run..do sit ups...squats...push ups....crunches...lift weights...do anything that requires a little work and effort!!
I am kindof bipolar; sometimes I'm really normal, but I am also really sensitive. My feelings get hurt really easily, and if someone yells at me or tries to reprimand me for something I get really emotional; my parents verbally abused me as a kid, so is this why I am so tense? What can I do to get a frickin backbone when I'm on the spot? Thanks.
well verbal abuse can for sure weaken a child's self esteem and mess with their emotions! when your on the spot just stand up for what you believe and tell people how you feel!!!! dont be scard of what others will say to you
my girlfriend cramps my personality. i want to be bad but because of her, i cant be one. what should i do?
well you shoundt want to be bad!!! lol....you only get in trouble when your bad.....be good!!!! haha
do chocolate and soda cause or give you give you pimples / acne ?!?!
any websites about chocolate or soda pop causing acne?
for some people it does..everybody is different..but chocoloate does clog up your pores
Ok, to start things off my name is Amber (I'm 16) and my boyfriend Jason and I have been together for 6 months now. His 17th birthday is coming up in a few of months *oct. 30* and i wanted to get him something really special. Like i wanted to make him something and then maybe buy him a little something else?? If that made any sense. Anywho, I'm just asking for people's advice on what i can make him that will be very special for him (and for all the long period of time makeing something ideas, i only have 3 months left.) Like if you had any good ideas or anything? I made my ex boyfriend *we lasted a year n 4 months* a scrapbook full of pictures of me an him, and i also made him a collage of pictures of me n him or just me, n put it in a frame and i made him a best boyfriend ever trophy. Those were really cute ideas and i'd like to do them again but that was used on my ex boyfriend n i wanted to do something special that was new. So if you have any ideas then please let me know asap! Thanx a bunch:-D
XoXo
**Amber**
make him a cake!!!! guys loooove food! haha or make him whatever his favorite sweet object is!! you could buy him like his favorite cd, a necklace, and a card and that would make a nice gift(its what i did for mie hehe)...make the wrapping really pretty and colorful!!! and put glitter in the tissue paper if your putting it in a bag!!
My 14th birthday is comin up soon and i want to get my belly button pierced for my birthday because i have a nice body and with my belly button pierced, it would look really good. My parents said i couldn't get anymore piercings cuz i already have three piercings on my left and right ears and one more piercing on the top of my left ear. I really want my belly button pierced and i dont know how to convince both of my parents to let me get it done. Can someone please help me out lol? One more thing, if anyone would like to tell me how you get your belly button pierced like how they do it and etc, that would really help so i can show my parents and maybe they would let me get my belly button pierced.
Thanks
tell your parents that getting your bely button pierced is no different then getting your ears pierced...it just happnes to be on your stomach...tell them that lots of girls have them and they are just a cool thing to have and they really dont draw that much attention unless your wearing a shirt that shows your tummy! they take a clamp to place around the place where you get it pierced...then sometimes they will make a little mark with a pen just to be sure they hit the right sopt...the they take a hollow banana shaped needle and really fast pierce the skin then they take it out and put the ring it...clean it off and your done!