it's the summer holidays and i haven't seen my bf since the start of them (nearly 2 weeks ago) He's been away every time i try to get together with him and our holidays are at different times so we wont see each other that much at all. I tried calling him and he said he'd call back but he didn't. I've hardly spoken to him at all. He isn't making any effort to see or talk to me. do you think he's gone off me? he said he'd never dump me and that he loves me but i'm not too sure. what should i do?
knowitall answered Tuesday July 27 2004, 6:24 pm: If it was me, I would call it over...If he says he'll call you, and he doesnt, that either means he doesnt want to, or he has short term memory and forgets. If he's not making an effort to be with you, then he's not making an effort to have a relationship with you. He said he'd never dump you, and that he loves you...yall are young and i doubt he's in love if he never calls you...call him, get to talk to him about it, and find your answer [ knowitall's advice column | Ask knowitall A Question ]
Kaylax3 answered Tuesday July 27 2004, 5:36 pm: I think you should talk to him about how you feel and tell him that you would appreciate it if he tried his hardest to get together with you. If he doesn't show the same effort then you <u>probably</u> should find someone new.
SuNsHiNeXo answered Tuesday July 27 2004, 5:19 pm: --i think that u should talk to him and just let him know u miss him! tell him how u feel.. just keep puttin ur best effort towards trying to see him and if hez not doing the same back then "maybe" u should find someone new!
cougarbabe11 answered Tuesday July 27 2004, 4:59 pm: you really need to talk to him about this TRY and find a day where he is jus home or can sit down n talk guys ALWAYS say stuff like that n personally i dont fall for it nemore not worth it b/c they will always end up doin somethin like that but make sure and TRY to talk to him [ cougarbabe11's advice column | Ask cougarbabe11 A Question ]
Zero answered Tuesday July 27 2004, 4:50 pm: Someway or another you going to have to get a hold of him and see whats up. Straight up ask him if he still wants to be with you, and have him be honest. Tell him that you'v been trying to get a hold of him all throughout holidays and see what happens. You just gotta be straight up! G/l!!!
LaDiixDeE4Ya answered Tuesday July 27 2004, 4:39 pm: guyz alwayz say they love yew and tht they'll never dump yew..but they end up doing it anyway..they just say tht so persuade you to give them a chance.maybe your boyfriend is trying but hes just relle busy. if you think that he dont like you anymore and that he grew away from you..then do what yu gotta do..and dump him..or just talk to him and tell him how you feel.you'll know what to do by tha wai he respondz.hope i helped. [ LaDiixDeE4Ya's advice column | Ask LaDiixDeE4Ya A Question ]
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