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parents have problem w/ Boyfriend
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**....my mom and dad love my boyfriend AJ (his 18) but sometimes they porblems w/ him....my curfew is 11 and he brings me home at 11 and we jst hang out down stairs for a lil bit before he goes home..well last nite he was over and my dad came down stairs and told him he had to leave and if he ever stayed late past my curfew at the house he would call the cops on him...what should i do when my parents don't like the things that me and my boyfriend do or the things that he does?
**we have been dateing for 6 months**
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You really can't do anything. It is thier house and their rules. You will just have to respect that. I am sure that your Dad didn't mean to be mean like that, and he probably still like your boyfriend, but he was just probably pissed because he felt you were trying to outsmart him or something. Maybe next time you could come in a little earlier and ask if it would be okay, if you and your boyfriend just chill downstairs for a while, and make sure you know how late he can stay. Good Luck! :)
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tell your parents that you and him aren't doing anything wrong and that you are in by your curfew so it shouldnt matter!!!
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hey...wow sounds like my dad. my boyfriend will be 18 in Oct. but what i do with my father is 1st talk to my mom and get her to understand what im trying to get through to them. it ALWAYS works for me.
hope i could help =) let me know
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your parents probably just have a problem with you dating an older guy; just talk to ur parents and ur bf, and maybe u can just come home a little earlier, so u can spend more time together, or go out earlier...
.:'sarah':.
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well there is nothing u can do but talk to ur parents and tell them wut u will and wont do mabe that will help
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It sounds to me like your parnets jsut wnat to keep you safe. I woudl talk to your parents and ask them why he cant stay a little while as long as you are home by cerfew? tell tehm that its not liek you are out adn tehy dont knwo where you are. you are at home safe. Then talk to your b.f maybe you could tell him to drop you off a few minutes early that way you guys can have a longer goodbye. Whatever you do don't throw a hissy fit and act like a baby becuase that will jsut maek your parents think that you guys arent mature enough.
Good Luck adn if you need anyhting else jsut ask!!
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