An hour ago I burnt my hand with hot water and it feels really hot and hurts how can I fix it>?
umm... put ice on it. i dont know if you have any type of cream that is used for treating a burn or not. but if you do put that on it so it costs it and then put something over it so you dont get the cream everywhere. but trust me it will go away. it was only hot water from a spicket. it wasnt really anything major. but your best bet would be to just put ice on it because it isnt a serious burn. the redness and pain will go away in a little while. just quit thinking about it and you wont even know you did it.
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Over the weekend me and my friend got in a fight with a permanet marker, she accidently got some on my light pair of jeans and it won't come out. I washed them and put SHOUT stain remover on them twice but it still won't come out. Do any of you have any suggestions? My jeans are really light, so I dont wanna to ruin there color or anything, and if I bleach them, then I'll lose the color in that spot. Please help.
there is nothing you can do about it. notice what you said.. "a permanent marker". Hence the stain will be there forever.
no but seriously, you wont be able to get it out.
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I know this is pretty stupid to ask... but.. I've been with my boyfriend 4 months. and a couple nights ago.. he fingered me... well... I bled a little... and ever since that night hes done it... and now.. I'm really starting to hurt. but... It feels sooo good... and I dont want him to stop.. but what can i do to not make it hurt soo bad? is there anything..
Boy I feel stupid :(
well the bleeding could of accured because he either broke your hymen (popped your cherry) or scratched you. nothing major. if its your first couple times doing stuff down there, then this is why you are experiencing pain. it is because your tight and you are being stretched, once you loosen up it wont hurt anymore. so tell him to either use less fingers than usual or just to slow it down a bit. also you could try to get him to eat you out. if it is done right, it will feel good. and it wont hurt either.
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my friend, lets call her anna. well anyway anna has a lot of problems. she is depressed.she has eating problems. she used to cut herself and drink. she told me that she stopped, but im really not sure if shes telling me the truth.im so scared for her. shes my best friend in the world!if she dies i sware i will kill myself. any way shes been telling my other friend, lets call her amy, about all of these things. i am sad, scared and mad.i told her that if she doesnt stop this ill do what shes doing, i told her that i love her and if she dies i will too.i call her pretty much everyday to mak sure shes not cutting herself or sumtin! im still not sure if this will help. please tell me a way i can get her to stop. ill rate you five for even reading this!Thank you thank you thank you!
dont mind what the assholes below said... just let her know that if she has a problem with something to talk toy ou about it. let her know your there for her. that when she is hinking about cutting or whatever it is she is thinking about attempting to give you a call and you will talk to her to get her mind off things, she already knows how much you care for her so just be a real friend and be there for her. that is really all i can say. i have no clue what else to tell you. but i hope what i have said will help both you and her. good luck.
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Im a male. Theres a Girl I really like. I don't think theres a possibility that she likes me back. I don't want to do anything wrong to get her to like me. I dont even know how to act around her. Do you have any suggestions on how to get her to like me?
just act like yourself. don't try and be someone you're not. if she doesn't like you for who you really are, then she is not worth anything to you in the long run. i am sorry to say but you can't make someone like you. they either do or they don't. it's not quite that easy. So just be you.
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Ok last night while I was laying in bed( iwas awake) I could of swore I heard that kind of music that is in the background of horror movies. I thoght I was dreaming so i sat up, but then when i laid down and I closed my eyes i saw this weird red and white symbol and I heard this vocie talking to me. Sat up real fast because i was so freaked out I have no idea what the voice said to me. Help! I think I am insane or something!!!
you were prolly just imagining things. i dont think there is anything wrong with you. you were prolly dreaming about something ans when you woke up you were still thinking about your dream and thinking you were still in this dream or something. it is prolly nothing but if you continue to have these strange visions and hearing things, you might want to ask someone about this.
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I'm very confused.
My two best friends are starting to treat me like I'm a little kid or something because I haven't gone as far as they have, because I haven't had a boyfriend in a little while. Which I think is fine because I'm only a freshman, and my life doesn't revolve around that stuff. But it still annoys me that they act like I'm immature or something because I haven't gotten fingered, and because I didn't approve of my friend having sex with this guy for revenge. They also make fun of me for being really straight edge which I don't think I am. They think they are really cool because they hang out in a specific neighborhood in brooklyn sometimes.I don't know, I guess it just annoys me that they think they are much more mature because I don't get shit drunk and coked up all the time, and I refrain from making out with bunches of people. But I don't want to yell at them or make them think I don't want to be friends with them anymore. What should I do?
well... ummm just because you get shit drink and coked up doesnt mean that they are more mature than you. it makes you more mature then them. and just because they want to act like sluts and sleep around doesnt make them better then you, but you better than them. becuase you have morals about thigns doesnt make you a little kid. granted, you are young, but it isnt immature. and if they are getting more sexual action than you, who cares. and you said she is sleeping around for revenge on someone... well thats just a slut. and the only reason guys are prolly going after her is because they know she'll be easy, especially if they get her shit faced. most guys dont like sluts, but some just use them. you really shouldnt let it bother you. you have better standards set for yourself and if thats what you believe then you should follow through on them. if they consists to be such slutty, snobbish bitches about everything to you, try and find new friends who like you for you and not for what your not.
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Does anybody know about that GIAM thing or Limux.. or whatever I dont know its like a diff. type of AIM like you still can talk to people that are on aim but its like yahoo msn and aim all together but all in one. So anybody know where I could get it? Cuz I think it would be pretty cool to have a bunch of messangers altogether!
no, i have never heard of them. but i did hear that there were programs out there that yo could use all of the messengers at once. i am sorry i couldnt be of any help to tell you how to find out about them or how to get them. but if you find out let me know.
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A while ago me and me best friend experimented( not below the belt). My friend and i are 13 and girls. After i loved that it happened and i want to do it again. I don't like her like that it's just i liked what happened between us as friends. I sended signal to do it again to her. I think she wants to do it again too. We even make jokes a lot about. I sounds like i like her. I let her know that i wanted to do it again, but i'm afraid she'll not want to be my BFF if actually ask her to experiment again. What should i do??
well instead of telling her that you like what happened and you want to do it again say it in an other way. be like, well since we experimented on this, i just wanted to know about this, do you think maybe we could try it some time and see what such and such is like?. or tell her you are debating on whether or not that made you two bi or lesbians and that you have to do it again to see if it true about you or not, and then when your done doing whatever, tell her that your not a les or bi, but that all you saw in it was just experimentation of two girls. who knows, maybe she will be willing to things with you because she liked experimenting with you. you'll never know until you ask her about it or bring it up to her. so just give it a try.
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Okay, so, I like my best friend, but he has a gf...we dont live in the same state, and hes always calling me hot, and beautiful and precious and cute and everything, and I asked him not to do it, and he got mad at me, and now hes "bugged" by it and told me hes not gonna be the same around him until i tell him the reason....well the reason is that I dont want him saying it because it hurts me hearing it and not being able to HAVE him...but he cant know that. So what do I do??? Hes mad at me :(
you should tell him truthfully. if he is your best friend then you should be able to tell him everything. just tell him that you like him and that it hurts you because you know he has a girlfriend and that he is leading you on by it. or if you are not ready for him to know, and you are willing to put yourself through the aggrivation of having to talk to him and him not knowing how you really feel about him, then just blame it on his girlfriend. tell him you feel awkward in a way because of his girlfriend and that you dont think it is right to be saying tha to you. but then if you want to find out how he feels about you, then just ask why, you say those or something because you like me? or something like that in a jokingly way and then when he answers your about it be like "no seriously, how do you really feel about me." and tell him to be honest. and if he says he likes you then you should tell him.
i dn, just a suggestion. but o well.
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ok...i broke up with my boyfriend (16) and im 15. hes a sophmore im a freshman. hes telling every one at school that he dumped me because i was cheating on him...he also told everyone i was a slutty hore! Which is totally not true! I garentee that if you looked at me..you wouldn't think im slutty. I mean i went out with him for a little over a month and ALL we did was kiss,...twice no longer than three seconds! that doesn't seem very slutty to me! So anyways... he keeps calling me at night saying that he still loves me and cares about me and still wants to be with me! But I no what he is saying is a bunch of bull because he couldn't feel that way about me and then make up all that crap at school! But he swears hes not lying. Hes getting really annoying...but im the type of girl that hates not being friends after a breakup...when i dumped him i told him that we would still be friends and i keep my promises unlike him! But its really hard! Im trying to be the mature one about this! But i can't be friends with someone who could make up horrible lies like that but...i want him to no that im better than that, that i didn't let it get to me! what do i do? how do i tell him t cool off otherwise i can't be his friend? (and i can't just say it like that because i think thats too mean! :/)
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tell him that you are having a little trouble trying to remain his friend after all the stuff that he has started about you. and when he says that he still loves you then say/ask that if he still loves you why does he insist on talking shit and starting rumors about you. tell him that what he is doing isnt love. and if he continues to say shit about you and he continues to be annoying then dont put yourself throught the aggrivation of trying to put up with it. just simply tell him that you can no longer be friends with him anymore. tell him that if he matures that you will possibly try the friends thing all over again.
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hey...okay so i like this guy and eh likes me and were going to turnabout together this year...and im really into him and im getting kinda attached but hes changing schools next year...im a freshman by the way..i duno wht to do..how can i stop myself from liking him so i am not crushed when he changes schools?
hunnie, i wish it were that simple. you cant change the fact that you like him. just when he moves try and keep in touch with him often. if its possible meet up over the weekends or something. talk to him online or on the phone. just remailn friends after he has switched schools. not the best advice in the world but i hope it will still help you somewhat.
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Hey, I would like to know if you all can tell what is wrong with my finger and if I should go to the doctor. Wednesday night, I was at gymnastics messing around, and as I went for a back tuck, my middle finger jammed into my leg... then about 3 minutes later, I jammed it again into a panel mat (a hard mat in case you dont know) same finger and everything. My coach didnt care because i shouldnt have been messing around, so I went through the rest of practice ignoring the pain. Its now 2 days later, and im getting shooting pains throughout it, my whole finger is about 1 1/2 the size of the other, and my knuckle in the middle of my finger is twice the size of the other and i cant feel from there down to the end of it. I have it taped together for now, but it hurts to even write, im typing this without it. Im sorry its long, but i cant decide if I should go to the docot Monday and get x-rays jus to make surem or relax and let it heal on its own because of an expierience with shoulda been broken foot since i didnt go to the doctor right away. Today, I had to call home for some medicine to help with the pain. So, what do you all think of this situation (any of you who read this)...?
its is probably broken. the only thing they will do with a broken finger is slpint it so you cant move it. but if it would make you feel better to go to the doctors and get it x-rayed then you should go. if you go, they may give you some type of meds to help with the pain. So go, What would it hurt, right?
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Alrighty I just finished doing Weight Watchers (woohoo) and I lost all the weight I want to lose...now I just don't want to put back on any of the weight I lost! THAT would suck...so does anyone know how to maintain your weight? I have 20 points a day (about 1600 calories)...anyone know what to do on Weight Watchers to maintain your weight
just watch what you eat, keep count of your calorie intake, stay away from fatty, greasy foods, and all sorts of junk food. And make sure you exercise daily.
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ok well i really did like this guy...he will be guy A...well we talked like 4 or 5 times and just stopped. he wasn't really my type anyways. well the next couple of days we didn't talk or anything...then this other guy ...he will be guy B...started to spread ors and say that me and guy A were going out. it really made me mad cause we aren't and it also made guy A mad cause we aren't. and now a lot of people don't like me cause they think i'm saying that we are. and i'm not. do i get all in guy B's face and make a big seen and embarrasse him since he did that to me... or should i call guy A and tell him that i never said anything like that???
Do both of them. Bitch out guy b and then later that night call up guy A and apologize for guy B's stupidity and for starting that rumor that wasnt true.
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My boyfriend Justin was the kind of guy that had sex and did stuff alot before we started going out. I really like him, but sometimes he gets on my nerves because he's always saying I won't do stuff with him. Truth is, I would and I want too. But with sex, I just don't wanna get pregnant. What are some things that can make me seem a little bit more naughty, without stepping too far over the line. Simple things, even. Please don't critize, I not wanting to do anything because he's pressuring me, it's because I want to and I have thought about it. I rate! Thanks.
well if you dont want to have sex then you can give him a hand job or give him head. the next time he comes over your house or your over his house, take him into your room or his room and then kiss him a little and make out then just go down on him and do which ever one you want. When you strat going down on him he will get the idea. if ya need anymore advice about anything, drop one in my inbox. Good Luck, have fun and be safe.
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okay theres this and she kind of used to be my friend (we don't go to the same school and shes a grade lower than me) and she is a total prep (you can ask anyone and they'll tell you shes a bizotch), so i guess thats why were not friends anymore. I skateboard and i wear stuff from like zumiez, pac-sun, and somtimes hot topic, and she shops at like abercromie, A.E, and those stores. well the other day she shows up at this place wearing the same shoes as me (grey & pink etnies) and i was like "you don't skateboard" and she said shes learning, so i asked what kind of skateboard she has and she said she didn't have one. hmm... how do you learn without a skateboard? and none of her friends have skateboards cuse there all preppy bizotches too. then i saw her at youth group and she had on the same frikin pants as me too! (they were dickie's skateboarding pants) and then shes like "oh! look jeanine!! we almost have the same outfit!" and she was wearing this abercrombie shirt with it that looked so with the rest of her outfit. she tries to hang out with me 24/7... she calls me to talk about "skateboarding" and she doesnt even know what an ollie is. and she buys the same cds as me AND she got her hair cut and highlighted almost exactally like mine! HOW DO I TELL HER I DON'T LIKE HER TRYING TO BE LIKE ME AND FOLLOWING ME AROUND EVERYWHERE? AND THAT SHE SHOULD STOP TRYING TO BE SOMEONE SHES NOT?? help please. thanks.
ok maybe she is just trying to be your friend again. it shouldnt matter if she is a skater or a prep. you guys were friends before so why cant you just put your differences aside and get along again. just becuase yins didnt dress the same as each other, doesnt mean that you should of threw away your friendship. and you dont have to be skater to wear etnies, and dickies and shop at pac sun. and you dont have to be a prep to wear and shop at AE, or A&F. Prep and skater are just labels that people give you. But heaven for bid if you should mix the too cause all hell would break lose. It shouldnt matter how the person dresses or what music they listen to.. what matter is what the person is really like. People need to grow up and quit judging people just because of how they dress. You know what she was like when you were friends. All you need to do is explain to her that you will be willing to try and work your differences out and that she doesnt need to change who she is for you two to be friends. And if she really does want to learn to skate then maybe you should offer to help er learn... what... What would it hurt? But if you're that shallow to see past her clothes then just tell her to fuck off because it would never work.
hope this helps. Dont mind the bluntness.
Good Luck and have fun.
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ok i go to carroll middle school and i am 13 well anywas during the christmas break i forgot what the guy that i like looked like but wen i got back i notest that he got even hotter than he was before. if i forgot what he looks like during the christmas break but i think he is still hott and as cute as a baby do i really like him please help i am so comfused.
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it is possible that you like him. in my personl opinion though, i think that you just like his looks. it is ok to think some one is cute and then after not seeing him for a while that he got even hotter. but if you think you like him then go for it. only you can tell yourself how you really feel about him. when you like someoe, you will know. hope this helps and if ya need anyhting else, drop one in my inbox.
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I am 14 (soon to be 15 in march)
well I have a stupid crush. Its not that the guy is stupid its just me having a crush. Feeling this way is of no use to me. I mean I was perfectly fine walking by a hot guy and thinking now he is "FINE" but when I get around my crush I get this weird tingling thing in my stomach and feeling kinda warm in my face. The weirdest thing is when ever I am around him I feel pretty. Stupid I know. I just want to be normal again. Its not like I act silly with Alex its just that I don't want to have any crushes. Crushes are stupid in my case...they never work out.
The problem is I know how to give myself advice and its some pretty good stuff its just that my crush's acts of kindness toward me makes the feeling in the pit my stomach increase somehow...I just want to be normal and to have a clear mind.
i dont know of any remedies to get over a crush. trust me there are some i wish i wouldnt of had on people. but they will come and go. you cant really help who you like. The only thing i can tell you is to try and find someone or something else as a distraction to get you mind off of Alex. Having a crush is normal, sweetie. everyone has them. i am sorry that i have nothing more to say but i hope this little bit helps. Good Luck.
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o-O my parents hate rap and i just starting to like it and they get really pissed if i listen 2 it. i NEVER get to listen to it cuz they tell me 2 turn my radio/cd player off all the time! what can i do?
well you can still listen to it, just keep it down so they dont hear it. And when they tell you to turn it off or not to listen to it, let them know that is what you like to listen to. Tell them as long as they cant hear it then they cant complain. if they dont like it, then tell them they dont have to listen to it.
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