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ok...i broke up with my boyfriend (16) and im 15. hes a sophmore im a freshman. hes telling every one at school that he dumped me because i was cheating on him...he also told everyone i was a slutty hore! Which is totally not true! I garentee that if you looked at me..you wouldn't think im slutty. I mean i went out with him for a little over a month and ALL we did was kiss,...twice no longer than three seconds! that doesn't seem very slutty to me! So anyways... he keeps calling me at night saying that he still loves me and cares about me and still wants to be with me! But I no what he is saying is a bunch of bull because he couldn't feel that way about me and then make up all that crap at school! But he swears hes not lying. Hes getting really annoying...but im the type of girl that hates not being friends after a breakup...when i dumped him i told him that we would still be friends and i keep my promises unlike him! But its really hard! Im trying to be the mature one about this! But i can't be friends with someone who could make up horrible lies like that but...i want him to no that im better than that, that i didn't let it get to me! what do i do? how do i tell him t cool off otherwise i can't be his friend? (and i can't just say it like that because i think thats too mean! :/)
~*~ Me ~*~
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It's not mean at all. You tell the prick "Look(insert name here) I'm tired of you making up these stories of lies and bullshit about me. You know that's not how it went and cut it the hell out. I don't lie about you,you little bastard and I've had it up to here with your crap. Tell everyone that it's a lie." And mean it. Don't say please anywhere in your demands and act pissed off. It's not mean to say I don't want a friend who's gunna lie and tell bullshit about me. Besides after me and a girl break up,I hate the bitch and usually never want to speak to her again. But that's apparently not you. In the future,never be friends with an ex.
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tell him that you are having a little trouble trying to remain his friend after all the stuff that he has started about you. and when he says that he still loves you then say/ask that if he still loves you why does he insist on talking shit and starting rumors about you. tell him that what he is doing isnt love. and if he continues to say shit about you and he continues to be annoying then dont put yourself throught the aggrivation of trying to put up with it. just simply tell him that you can no longer be friends with him anymore. tell him that if he matures that you will possibly try the friends thing all over again.
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hey, i definatly say tell him what u just said to us. say that if you are still gunna be friends with him he has to tell the truth to everyone. and stop lying about you.
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