Q: okk soo prom is coming up in 3 weeks and i have a couple questions. even if you can only answer one, i need some help!

1.. i've been dating a very outgoing, popular guy for a few months now. of course, he can dance & shake. and yeah i cant. he asked me to prom before we even started goin out, and ive been tryin to figure out a way to dance ever since. pretty much the bumpin & grindin and all that. yeah ive done it before a couple times, but not too well, and i dont wanna look retarded! i know everyone says just move with it and dont try too hard, but it seems like no matter what, even if i just do whatever and try to move, that i'm too stiff and cant loosen up to be able to move well, or that im doin everything totally wrong. i have no rhythm! ahh help me !?

and 2.. my dress is completely open-back. im pretty thin, but i want to tone my arms/shoulders/back before then. any ideas/exercises that'll make my muscles not bulky, but defined to look better in my dress ?

thanks =].

Q: How do you know when to have sex? I wanted to a few days ago because I feel as though I'm ready. I'm protected and everything. I'm comfortable with it but it just seems like my boyfriend is just coming over more often because he wants to have sex when we have the chance. He says he wants to see me and if that happens, it will. I was talking to my close friend about this. She has had experience. She said the first time she had sex with her boyfriend.. he told people. How can I trust my boyfriend with this intimate moment? I gave him a blowjob months ago and his friend asked him if I ever gave him one.. He answered.. Even after I told him just to keep these things between us. He pretty much let it slip again. But at least he's being honest with me. I was fine with it because it's just a bj. But I can't seem to trust him now. I don't think he wants to come over to see me, just to have sex.. I know he's waiting for me.. I know how it is. It's something you need to tell a guyfriend but it's worrying me a lot. I want to be able to trust him and feel safe... without hearing something that I told him from a friend. It's just not cool. Sexual or nonsexual. His mom doesn't want him to have sex until he's 18. It's just a year away basically. He said he wouldn't tell anyone because rumors might get to his brothers which would pass to his mom.

I already had a talk with him but these feelings of doubt are causing me to worry and feel sick. Sex is something serious for me. He said he loves me and that he will wait for me. He always says that he will wait. But I don't know if he truly means it. I don't know what to say either. He's coming over tomorrow and he was talking to my friend.. She told me what he said.. She asked him what we were doing and he said "Stuff ;)"

I just.. don't know where to start. Any advice.

I know if a guy can't wait for me, it's not worth it. Isn't a 6 month relationship too early for sex?

Q: I'm a fifteen year old girl.

I have met this guy on an online forum. Let's call him Tommy. Tommy is a sweet guy and he's 4 years older than me. I know it might be illegal. But that's not the whole point of my story. [Keep in mind that I have chatted with him online for a course of 1 year. Almost everyday.] Here are some things that seem somewhat odd about Tommy ;
1. he never offers to send me pictures. And the only pictures I have of him are about 3 or 4 of very blurry and crappy quality (seemingly taken on a camera phone with very low quality)
2. I know that it won't work out. It's not my intention to make this guy my boyfriend. Yet he gets more intimate with me everyday. Asking me things that I wouldn't even tell my own mother.
3. Almost everytime we chat, he requests pictures from me. I send Tommy lot of pictures. He can make an album with the amount of pictures he has of me.
4. It annoys me that most of our conversations are based solely on music. Sometimes Tommy won't talk about anything else, and when I offer to, he shuns me.
5. He can be very sweet, yet sometimes very bitter and mean.
6. He has an online girlfriend. And when she isn't online, I feel like a last resort to him. As if he's bored and has no one else to talk to.

I feel the need to stop talking now because this is getting too long. He constantly sweet talks me, tells me that he knows me and loves me. I know this isn't true. I hate to say it, but this guy has got me hooked.

I'm just getting really suspicious. I just don't want him to be a pedophile or anything.

What can I do?

I aplogize for the length of this.

Q: I just want some opinions on what everyones favorite cell phone provider is. Such as, cingular, verizon, tmobile, etc. Can everyone please just tell me which they prefer, and why. It's alot easier having people tell you what's best when they actually HAVE the plan, rather than researching on their websites... because most give biased opinions and really aren't as kind as they seem. Thanks so much :)

Q: Where can I get a good branch of skinny jeans that arn't too expensive?
I checked Forever 21, but maybe I didn't look hard enough.

14/f

Q: ive neverbeen high
but i think im gonna try it soon
and dont tell me not too :]
but im just afraid im gonna get addicted to it
because if i did and my praents found out
id be dead. hah
but my friend has done it before
and the first time she did she said her throat burned but it was fun
and she also said if you get high and like youre not doing anything you get tired and it wears off
any other things?

Q: Hey. I'm 13, female. I was wondering, becuase I don't have any gym access, or really a place to run most times, how could i lose alot of weight, say 10, 15 pounds, by the first day of school?
Today is July 30. I need to lose this weight by September 4th.

How can I do it?!

Q: maybe this is anodd question, but anyways... my boyfriend and i are verymuch sexualy active. and he is always asking if i would bewilling to give him head... i personaly think its nasty, but i do love him a lot, and i like making him happy, and i know that wouldmake himhappy.. i havedone it before.. but im not exactly sure how to do it, like do it well.... how do you do it,how do you do it well and so he will really enjoy it??

Q: I want to get mine done during the fall or winter so it can heal by next summer but I heard that it's bad to get one when you're young because you're still growing and it gets saggy. I'm 15 years old and I know a lot of people who get them at 10-12 but a lot of people advised me to wait or else it will get saggy, gross, and ugly and your body will outgrow it. Is that true? If it is, what age should I be when I get it done?

Q: hey. well, i was just wondring where i could get a really cute journal or diary. ones where i could write and put cute pictures in it. and also, where can i get a cute photo album? i don't want them really expensive eaither. mabe from like $10-$20. thanks a bunch!!

Q: 15/m
Three years ago i moved and changed school when i was at the other school i realy like some girl but i was to shy to tell her, so now i live about 40 minutes away from her and i had not seen her, i found her on myspace and i told her i liked her she also told me she like me, so what i want to know is how often do long distant relationships work? saying ill only see her about mayby once a month

Q: 15/f So i have this friend who is the same age as me and he lives like 5 houses down... this summer we have been hanging out alot... and i mean like 5 hours every other day... i have a lot of friends and he like... never leaves his house.. hed rather play video games then hang out with ppl but lately ive been having feelings for him and its realli freaking me out.. like he is realli fun to be around and ive known him since like 7th grade... well a few weeks ago i was like "what would you say if i said i liekd you more then a friend" and he got realli like nervous and later he told me online that we were to good of friends... so i kinda dropped it but im realli starting to have feelings for him and i realli want to win him over it a very SUBTLE way...what do i do i mean ive never had like a real boyfriend and hes never had a real girlfriend.....please help...what do i do!??!

Thanks

Q: Is it cosidered anorexic if you dont eat all day, drink nothing but water, and then eat a little bit of dinner?

Q: I bought a new shirt last week and wore it the day after I bought it. Well that night I noticed this weird pattern of bumps the upper part of my inner arm. It's been over 2 days and it's still there!

It itches really bad and looks like an oval of mosquito bites or pimples, but that's not what it is. On the shirt there was a similar pattern of jewels right there, so I'm thinking I had an allergic reaction to the jewels or something. But wouldn't it be gone by now?

Does anyone know what it could be or how I could get rid of it quicker? I've been putting my niece's eczema cream on it and it hasn't helped at all. Any help would be greatly appreciated.

Q: have you ever been cheated on or anything to do with cheating?

I just have a small situation. My friend Sam cheated on her bf Allan with my bf's best friend and his brother. She made out with both of the guys and gave on of them head. Her bf allan is good friends with me and my bf and we decided we should tell him-- so we did the next day.

Sam and I weren't completely good friends but we were close somewhat. But if he did this to her, I would probably tell her too. So she's pissed and she has all my friends against me. Even my bffl. But i know i did the rite thing. All this time, past 2 weeks I've been there for Allan; even pickig him up at midnite because he was so depressed and taking him 2 parties to help him get his mind off her. And she does everything she can like for example- she cuts hereself- for attention. Allan and her are supposed to talk 2morrow and i want to kick her ass so bad but I'm not going to be there.

there's only one lil thing that i messed up on. at the party i told her to go for--to cheat. and when i told my bffl the story i admitted i told her to go for it.....and allan doesnt kno that. i told him i never said that and he believes me. but now sam and kayla my best friend have this against but my bf was there but will tell alan that it never happened, but im still afraid he'll beloieve her. he want to be with her but knows he shouldn't.

what do u think i should do now? kayla keeps telling me to back off when sam from the beggining said she was gonna break up with him.kayla and sam never even liked each other? everyone feels sorry for her because all she does it cry and they give me stuff like "you have no idea how much she has been thru" blah blah when this is all for attention and i'm not stupid.

now i really don't know what do or even say?

Q: hey
15/m
k so i spent literally about....10 hours with my twin brother, his girlfriend, and her best friend yesterday at six flags/brothers gf's house and before yesterday i had began to think about trying to ask this girl out *i always get REALLLY nervous about talking to girls/asking girls out* and so i had intended on trying to make a move yesterday, and by the end of the day i still hadnt done anything...so i sat next to her in the car on the ride to my brother's gf's house for dinner and a movie, and it was about a 20 minute ride...and i STILL never made a move on her...
so we had some imo's pizza and then went downstairs to the basement to watch legally blonde, so i sat next to her on the couch, and still after about 30 minutes i hadn't made a move...
then i got up to go get another soda since i was done with my pizza, and when i get back my brother and his gf had taken over the couch, where me and the friend had been sitting...so i never got to make a move AFTER 10 HOURS!!! am i totally retarded for this? i mean, the girl seemed to like me, but i'm not really sure...i sat next to her on like...every ride...and we talked a lot all day, and all that stuff, but i don't know...should i have made a move, or should i just ask her to go see a movie and do it then, or what? was i stupid for not trying anything all day?

thanks guys
McC

Q: My best friend and my boyfriend have been talking alot on the phone lately. He tells me he'd call me back in 10 minutes, but somtimes, he never does. Then, my best friend told me that he had called her and they talked about stuff. What should I do? I mean, he tells me he love me but he always talk to my best friend, calls her mommy or mama and they also have alot more in common than we do. What should I do?

Q: hi im just wondering if theres anyways that will make a hicky go away faster. i usually dont have this problem cuz my boyfriend never does it but he did it once by accident usually he just kisses it lightly. anyway thats not the point. just wanted to know thanks:)

Q: lifes like an hourglass glued to the table...no one can find the rewind button now so cradle your head in your hands.

does anyone know who sings this song... i think thats how it goes and the name of it? thanks a bunch

Q: I have this project in one of my classes, and we need to do a survey with 100 people. me and my group already have about 20, and i thought it would help if I could just ask people online too for answers. only answer for one candy, and for "other" dont say what candy it is, just say "other".

Nerds
Skittles
M&Ms
Gum
Hershey's
Snickers
Twix
Reeses

THANKS! :]

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