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Are my suspicions about him correct?
I'm a fifteen year old girl.
I have met this guy on an online forum. Let's call him Tommy. Tommy is a sweet guy and he's 4 years older than me. I know it might be illegal. But that's not the whole point of my story. [Keep in mind that I have chatted with him online for a course of 1 year. Almost everyday.] Here are some things that seem somewhat odd about Tommy ;
1. he never offers to send me pictures. And the only pictures I have of him are about 3 or 4 of very blurry and crappy quality (seemingly taken on a camera phone with very low quality)
2. I know that it won't work out. It's not my intention to make this guy my boyfriend. Yet he gets more intimate with me everyday. Asking me things that I wouldn't even tell my own mother.
3. Almost everytime we chat, he requests pictures from me. I send Tommy lot of pictures. He can make an album with the amount of pictures he has of me.
4. It annoys me that most of our conversations are based solely on music. Sometimes Tommy won't talk about anything else, and when I offer to, he shuns me.
5. He can be very sweet, yet sometimes very bitter and mean.
6. He has an online girlfriend. And when she isn't online, I feel like a last resort to him. As if he's bored and has no one else to talk to.
I feel the need to stop talking now because this is getting too long. He constantly sweet talks me, tells me that he knows me and loves me. I know this isn't true. I hate to say it, but this guy has got me hooked.
I'm just getting really suspicious. I just don't want him to be a pedophile or anything.
What can I do?
I aplogize for the length of this.
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Follow your instincts. You know you need to stop
this now. His behavior is very suspicious.
I would suggest you block him and put an end to it.
There are so many other people out there to talk to.
You won't miss him for long. :)
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Oooo, smart girl.
Let's just say his behavior doesn't exactly fight your suspicions.
Limit or stop contact with him.
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If i were you, I would stop keeping in contact with this guy. not to scare you but he sounds really creepy like some of the people on that show on tv where the catch them trying to meet with underaged people. & the reason he's probably not sending you pictures is because he doesnt want you to see what he really looks like. I would save all his contact info & maybe even say sometihng to the police just to be safe because now he has your info.
hope this helped!
-Brooke :D
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Yeha, i would stop contacting him right away and the reason he isnt sending you pictures is because he dosen't want you to see him being his REAL self.
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Chances are, he is a pedophile.
The things you've told us about him are very pedophile-esque.
So stop contacting him.
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It's very possible that this is a forty year old pervert who masturbates to the pictures that young girls send him.
I wouldn't give away too much information about yourself, and stop sending pictures.
Don't tell him the name of your school, the name of your street, your zip code, your cell number, even the state you live in.
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