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I like my BEST friend!
15/f So i have this friend who is the same age as me and he lives like 5 houses down... this summer we have been hanging out alot... and i mean like 5 hours every other day... i have a lot of friends and he like... never leaves his house.. hed rather play video games then hang out with ppl but lately ive been having feelings for him and its realli freaking me out.. like he is realli fun to be around and ive known him since like 7th grade... well a few weeks ago i was like "what would you say if i said i liekd you more then a friend" and he got realli like nervous and later he told me online that we were to good of friends... so i kinda dropped it but im realli starting to have feelings for him and i realli want to win him over it a very SUBTLE way...what do i do i mean ive never had like a real boyfriend and hes never had a real girlfriend.....please help...what do i do!??!
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Ok, what i would do is tell him how you really feel about him, kind of ease your way in to telling. If your to shy to tell him face to face tell him over the internet. If he dosen't want to be more than friends then stay the way you are, it may be a little awkward at first but then it will get back to the way it was before. i have been in a situation sort of like this and thats how i handled it. Good luck!
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Hey. I've been in your situation. Except I am a guy- and I liked my best friend as more than a friend, not once, but 4 times. I'm just going to give you a little story about the 4th time- and maybe help you to make a decision:
On the 4th time I liked my best friend- it was Valentine's Day 2006. I told her and it wasn't the best ending. She told me that I needed to "get over" her. It was horrible! We didn't talk for 3 months. Thankfully- we're still friends.. but I have no idea how we are.. haha.
Anyway- the way I see it.. you can do two things:
1.) Tell your friend you like him.
2.) Don't tell your friend you like him.
Option 1 is what I think you should do. Yeah- he may have seemed embarrassed and nervous- but maybe it was because he likes you the same way! You never know.. this could be your chance to have the best relationship of your life [at least at this point].
Option 2 is the safe way to go.. yeah.. you will stay friends- but you won't know what could have happened. You won't know if you could have had a great relationship with him.
Love takes risks. If you aren't willing to take the risk- you may never get into a relationship. Take the chance and tell him. I think its your best bet.
Good Luck!
--Jack
(15/m)
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just be yourself. if this kid has any sense, he'll realize that he cant let you slip away. just dont try to act different. try to talk to him more and talk to him about stuff that both of you like. youll eventually realize if you really like him, and if he really likes you. hope i helped :]
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