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Hello. My name Is Solemnstar.
I'm a fifteen year old (assumed) male-to-female Transexual.
I want to help, plain and simple.
I like plain and simple, I like to catergorize people, ptu them into nice little boxes in my head.
and I LOVE figuring out the ones that don't fit.

Chatspeak annoys me, It takes an extra two seconds to type the real words.


I don't anwser advice as often as I should. Mainly because of School.

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I'm a really good singer. All of my friends have said so, and are threatening to take me too American Idol when I'm 16. And I love to sing. But when I go to do it in front of some people I get really nervous and choke up. Any suggestions on how to get rid of my nervous-ness??

MONKEYS!!!!! i like pretending the audience is monkeys(but i digress) so imagine monkeys
Solemnstar

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A girl in my group of friends who i HATE is moving ..all my friends are like crying but i cant wait till she moves -is this wrong of me? Im kind of confused and its hard to keep it from my friend but i know if i told them i was happy theyd think i was a bitch ..what do i do??

first you should make peace with this person and it is wrong(karmically) and it will come back to you

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Pfff.. I just realised how BORING my life is!!! I wake up at six, go to school, come back at 4, do homework, go on the computer, sleep. What a nice life eh??? NOT!! its just soooo boring! i have nothing better to do. Any ideas?

learn to read upside. down you never know when pirites(sp?)will kidnap you and hang you up side down(dont ask)
Make pointless takeover the world plans.
make up comeback for when you are in arguments.
And thats my non school life

laughing out loud
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For health class i have to pick an anti-drug..like yeah kno...sports.. my anti-drug, but i can't think of any. I don't wanna use sports cuz sum1 already has it? does any1 hav some ideas? thnx

I LIKE CANDY AND SHINEY STUFF AS MY ANTIDRUG
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I like this guy and he likes me.. Well we have ALOT in common and I admit im pretty popular.. so anyway, He's not the hottest/most popular person ever. I like him and I swear im not conceited!! But its like I feel like if I go out with him then I will ruin my rep.. I dont really care but my friends are like "OMG HES SO HOT!! I LIKE HIM NOW." Im not like that.. I go for personality.. but what do I do?? Do I go out with him of save my reputation?

reps are completely pointless(i might just be saying this from being so unpopular for 8 years) and you like him so it is alot more important

Solemnstar
p.s in my opinion this was a ::beep:: up question sorry

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What do you do when everyone tells you you're something you're not, just to make you feel better? I am tired of it. Everyone says I'm not fat when I know I am, and they say boys are chsasing after me, when they are running. It just makes me feel worse and they won't stop. I don't care about boyfriends. Most of them are jerks anyways. I have friends that are boys, but no one has ever shown affection toward me, for real. I don't care but I want my friends to leave me alone about it. What do I do?

-TearsThatFall

im sorry but people are like this they use you often so they CAN be jelous(from my Very misleading experiance).im just a loser thats in love with a beutiful women who will never notice me.but enough about my life people want you to fell good and often it has pure intentions.and remember youare what you are never try to change that.IM A GOOFY GOOBER ROCK!!!!

sorry about that
Solemnstar

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alrigty then im hearing all these stories at school {not that i belive them} about how every one is having sex i personally dont belive it. god says not to have premarital relations plus you should want to wait until u are married to have sex. anyway every one talks about how all the popular kids are doing it im almost 15 i personallyam appaled and am wonering where all the desensy went in the world some one tell me.

it went down the tube with common sense and people knowing it was dumb to smoke illigaly(sp?)
anywho we as people are easily tempted by others and in(teenagers)to get attention in the form of innoyence from parents.that and we see sex as a sort of freedom from the constrants of childhood which is a stupid reason to lose your virginity.

im not much help
Solemnstar

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i just got a new rabbit and i have never had one before so i know nothing about them! i know that they have to be kepy in shade but thats about it! i need to know how big the cage should be and what you need in the cage. what do they eat? i am also kinda afraid that everytime i pick it up it will bit me....i guess i think that cause my cat bits me...do rabbits even bit? i guess i pretty much need to know everything about them....so if you have the time, please tell me! thanks! i'll rate!

rabbits do but they cannot oly eat pellits they need vegatables and can be litter trianed(to do this have only one part of the cage with shavings in a box id it will only go there)and they need decent space to run around in.they must have shade and warmth.let it run around inside evry now and then.clean the cage out every week(this means washing it and stuff)to not run at it it will fear you and do not EVER have an extremly loud home.lops have worse hearing that straight ears.rabbits will sometimes play a game where you walk from it and it "tags" you.

Hope this helps(ilove bunnies mines called chocolate)
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ok im startin to like a gurl and i want to get to kno her more wat r sume good convo starters and things to ask and talk about?

ok first of all SPELLING LESSONS YOU MORON.second you need no real starter jus say hi and go from there
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ok im really shy around guys. And when i like them i end to ignore them... i hate it!
There's this guy i like, i see him every once and a while but when i do i get all nervus and i shake and i ignore him! I dont want to but even just looking into his beautiful eyes is hard for me.. how can i get over this ignoring??? PLZ help!

it often is they are like animals more afraid of you then you are of them(or just looking for reproduction)lol.anywho you shold remnber that

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here is something i dont understand and i sont know if anyone here understands it. Why are we here just why i dont understand it we were put here by god but why it makes no sense. i mean think we live just so we can die it makes no sense so i dont understan why we would be put here by god it makes no sense because one day we could be alive and the next we could be dead just why.

we are here just to do the best we can in life and live your life improving others

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Ok, well lately, many of my friends have been smoking weed. I tell them that it's stupid and that it can harm your health, and stuff such as that, but they keep telling me that weed doesn't harm your body in any way what-so-ever. If anyone knows, can you please tell me what side-effects you may get from smoking weed? (I'm a 14/f, if that's important, which I don't think it is.)

first off the religios stuff.jesus himself smoked weed and gave it to small children(im a follower of the occult but i still think this stuff happend you dont get raised buy christans and not think a bit)but that still makes it wrong after all its illegal and i reccomend doing a google search your self on something next time

Marijuana is illegal (side effect of a criminal record) and can have some permanent side effects. Long and short term use of marijuana can lead to addiction, the possibility of bad pot (causing medical problems and conditions), decreased mental abilities and burnt out brain cells, mental confusion, lung damage, weight gain, increased tolerance (requiring more of the drug to get you high) and decreased sexual performance. All of these can lead to the permanent side effect of doing damage to your body.

Use of drugs or alcohol can make people do things they normally wouldn't like drive a car while high or have unsafe sex.

For more information on marijuana , check out High Times. If you are concerned about your use of marijuana, get help from a doctor, parent or a hospital that has a substance abuse program. If you cannot find a trusted adult to talk to and live in northern New Jersey, you can call the Adolescent/Young Adult Center for Health at (973) 971.5199 to meet with a doctor and/or social worker. If you live outside of northern New Jersey, please call Marijuana Anonymous at 1.800.766.6779.

Signed: TeenHealthFX

hope this helped
Solemnstar
p.s tell an adult about your friends

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ok...im 13/f 7th grade... this might sound crazy... but i no i am in love!! i have a boyfriend and i am completely in love with him!! ive never felt this way about any of my other boyfriends and i know he feels the same about me... he makes me smile just thinking about him... i melt when i see him! theres only one thing... this is wierd... but since we're young and all... is there any chance this could last forever

ther is always a chance for this stuff(sorry to say its unlikly)so dont give up just cause this is not boy meets world

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So there is this guy that i like and that he tells me he likes me but yet he never talks to me and he is always with other girls and the other girls say that he says he likes them!! i really like this guy so what should i do? How can i find out who he really likes?

im a little like that to say the truth i go with other girls than the one i like to dances(they ask me first but unless im steady with somebody i cannot say know to any one)to find out get another boy that he does not know to ask him so that his opinions will not change just cause of you.

Saying my mind
Solemnstar

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is sex at a young age(like 13) a bad idea?

yes it is

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My mum told me today that she had been diagnosed with breast cancer. She will have to have an operation and go through radiotherapy. I'm so worried- she will have to be in hospital for 4 days then go once every day. I'd be thankful for any information about the symtoms of radiotherapy and cancer, ways to make her feel better about it and any other things that would be useful. Thank you.

my mum got that and shes completely fine they got it before it was too late and it was simple to go through scince we knew that whatever happened she loved us and had no regerts
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hey can anybody tell me where to find good quotes for AIM profiles and such? thanks in advance.

the radio active thing on tvtome.com its got some funny ones
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my dad got arrested, and it's reallllllly embarassing. what should i do at school? i live in a small town so people will find out about it fast.

act as if nothing happened unless its brought up and do not freak lots of peopl get arrested so its not that big a thing but stay calm around people who tease it then they my think you take after you father(no offense ment)

sorry for your father
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how old do you need to be to be a babysitter?

legaly 13 to babysitt for others outside your amily so thats about it i baby sit and im 13

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I have a list of names that I like a lot. For my kids. *(I've always loved names, and making them up, and stuff)* Im Almost 15, and wont be having kids for atleast 7 more years, but i would still like to know some of the names for boys and/or girls that you all like! and you can add middle names too, if you so desire. Also, I use a lot of the names that I like when I play the Sims and the Sims 2. So If you could please tell me the names that you all like for boys and/or girls, that would be great, thanks! I'll rate a 4 or a 5 if you leave a *real* name! thanks!!

--KeLs--

G:Samantha Katherine Nicole

B:Brandyn

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