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alrigty then im hearing all these stories at school {not that i belive them} about how every one is having sex i personally dont belive it. god says not to have premarital relations plus you should want to wait until u are married to have sex. anyway every one talks about how all the popular kids are doing it im almost 15 i personallyam appaled and am wonering where all the desensy went in the world some one tell me.
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Many people feel upset about the state of the world. Truth is, there was never any decency to begin with. People have been raping and killing each other since the beginning of time, and probably will continue it forever. And you should believe that people are having sex, because it is true (that's where all the babies are coming from). You might believe in God and want to save yourself for marriage, but other people have different priorties and beliefs. Life is tough for everyone, and all people have different ways of dealing with it. Point is, life can be the most wonderful thing but it can also be Hell on Earth so you should get used to it and do your best to survive.
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People have been having sex since the dawn of time. It's not dirty or unnatural, it's what we are biologically programmed to do. Like it or not, human beings are sexual beings and sex is a fundamental part of nature. So if you are really asking where all the <i>decency</i> in the world went, the truth is, people have always had sexual urges.
It is, of course your personal decesion whether you have sex now, later or never. It's wonderful that you've chosen to stick to what you think is right and proper, and that you aren't going to let peer pressure make you behave differently then you feel you should. I admire you for that. However, I feel you shoudl realise that the choices you make, whilst admirable, are your choices only. Other people are allowed to make their own ethical choices about their own bodies just as you can make decesions about yours. You may think they've made bad choices, but you must learn to understand that those are their choices and their mistakes to make. If other people choose to have premarital sex, it's not actually any of your buisness. No, of course you don't have to have sex before you are married, and you certainly shouldn't if you don't want to, but I think you could certainly benefit from being more open minded and accepting that other people's choices are just as valid as yours.
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anytime before 16 is far to young to have sex anyway. now i am not christian or catholic so i do believe in premarital sex. but i also beleave it should be with someone you love, not just any person you see when you're horny. and the desensy left with the "election" of our Totalitarian "president" who cant see farther than his oil fields. you can blame it all on him. and hollywod.
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I think girls who have casual sex are whores. But, I could barely understand that, so I couldn't really find the question. I'm sorry, not trying to be one of those assholes on here, I just couldn't read it. Nobody has sex, and if they do, it's just whores. Just worry about yourself. You just don't have sex, and don't worry about anyone else.
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I think the same thing everyday. It really makes me like scared for the world. It's like sex is the bond you share when you're finally in love.. and it's all just played like a game, and I can't stand it anymore.
Most people who do it in their teen years aren't even in love. They honestly just do it to fit in, to impress their "partner", or to be more experienced or just because it feels good. Not saying that you are, because I see you have your morals you're going to stick with, but no matter what society's doing just focus on what you need to do for yourself.
It's not the right thing to rush into sex, because it's like it's not even something special anymore. Love is supposedly so rare these days..and I'm not saying teenagers can't be in love (trust me I'm not saying that at all).. and the whole premarital relations is up to them, but I mean if you're gonna do it you should really be in love. If you don't do it when you're in love, and just have like a one night stand or something...you'll regret it. Some people show that they don't regret it but deep down, if they weren't in love their first time, they've probably feel like they've missed out.
Don't let anyone pressure you. Fall in love -- and when you're ready you'll know. When you're ready you won't have to ask yourself, "Is this the right thing to do?"
`jeSsie
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it went down the tube with common sense and people knowing it was dumb to smoke illigaly(sp?)
anywho we as people are easily tempted by others and in(teenagers)to get attention in the form of innoyence from parents.that and we see sex as a sort of freedom from the constrants of childhood which is a stupid reason to lose your virginity.
im not much help
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it went up your ass
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the decency went out with the roaring twenties. since then, teenagers have become the ones who are out there and taking on the world and being unique and disobeying the rules and living on the edge.. not a new idea at all... very ironic actually.
but that is where the decency went as far as teens being radical.
the entertainment industry doesn't help either, but it also shouldn't be entirely blamed.
as teenagers, we are stuck with these people for hours and hormones rage and and and... hormones...
but.. as far as people who agree with you.. there are a multitude... they say 30% agree with you.. i suppose some of them are not honest.. but it is a start and religon does exist in school... sort of
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Most kids arent too into religion anymore -- Drugs take over thier life early -- Sex sells its all over t.v. its mostley everybwhere you turn...Some kids want to do it, some kids do it to fit in so they wont be left out...it happenes you cant really stop it you just have to hope there doing it the right way...its life...humans
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Seriously. Your not "cool" if you have sex, your an easy whore if you have sex. The girls that you see that are popular are only popular because guys know they can get some sex. So they talk to the girls all the time. When I tell people I'm 15-f and a virgin they act like I'm so old to be a virgin! So yeah, this world is filled with sluts and whores..what are we gonna do about it? Laugh when their a teen and pregnant, or have some std!
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