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"There's no other love like the love for a brother. There's no other love like the love from a brother." A lot has changed since I was in High-school and first created my column - almost 8 years ago!!!! I now have two gorgeous Boys who mean the World to me; Brody, who is 3 and a half years old, and Brayden, who will be a year in November. I live my life for these two Boys. They make every second worth it. xxoo ♥ ♥
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when a guy has sex , gets oral, fingers girls,etc.
does he jack off thinking about it at a later time?
Or what?
im just wonderin'
Some do and some don't. It depends on if they enjoyed theirself or the sex was good.
ive been going out with my boyfriend for 2 months now.. we've kissed but never techniclly "hooked up" or frenched kissed. whatever you wana call it... everytime he goes to.. i pull back cus i dont know how.. people tell me it comes naturally but could you explain somewhat..
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I know you're going to think you can't make out with anyone and your going to be a bad kisser, but really, that's all in your head. Everyone thinks that when it comes to making out and kissing. They all think they're going to suck at it.
I know this is probably not much help, but kissing really does come naturally. Just go with the flow, it'll come naturally, I promise.
Here's a site that you might want to look at, if you feel like you need a little more information: http://teenadvice.about.com/od/kissing
is it normal for a guy to dye his hair? i was plannin on dying mine but my mom said it's undecent and that only gays dye their hair. is that true? cuz i got a bit pissed that i can't dye my hair.*sigh* i feel like i wanna be emancipated, my mom doesnt like how i wear my clothes and let me do wat i wanna do, she always wants me to live in her way...
Just because you aren't gay doesn't mean you can't dye your hair. Straight guys can dye their hair too, doesn't matter if you're gay or straight, it has nothing to do with it. My boyfriend dyes his hair all the time. So it's normal, you're fine.
i really neeed your advice:
who do you pick? the person who first loved you? or the person you first loved?
The first person you loved. There's no point in being with someone that you don't love. Make sure this person feels the same way about you, though. Love is a two way street and both people should feel the same way about one another.
i was just wondering if when a guy fingers you is it supposed to hurt??? because my b/f has done it to me a couple times and it hurt. is it supposed to or was i not doing something rite like not spreading my legs out far enough or something?
Is this your first couple of times getting fingered? If so, it's going to hurt the first couple of times. If it hurts too much, just tell your boyfriend to slow down and take it easy on you. It might be hurting a lot if you're too tense, try to relax a little. If you do your muscles will relax and it won't hurt so much. Also, spreading your legs a lot will reduce the pain.
Ok, So im a guy and im wondering if girls like guys when the shave down there. Should We shave completly or trim it so its out of the way. Whats best? All answers are appreciated.
It depends on the girl. Every girl is different so of course every girl is going to like different things. I rather have the guy shave or at least trim it up, though.
I know that everyone will probably ask this same question, but it's worth a shot.
I've been dating my boyfriend for almost 1 year and a half, so this would be our 2nd christmas together. Last year I made him this REALLY cute scrapbook with like the story of how we met with "100 Reasons Why I Love You" printed on separate pictures of us. He loved it, and for our 1 Year annivserary I made him this picture frame with the lyrics from "Such Great Heights" by the Postal Service on it. He also loved that, but I'm just stuck of Christmas again.
Should I GET him something? I was thinking about a watch, or a wallet.
Or should I make him something again. [Suggestions also on WHAT to make?]
Or how about both?
Thank you so much.
--tekcor
I think it would be really cute to do something cute like that again for Christmas. You could always make a CD for him with a bunch of love songs on it that reminds you of your relationship. Another cute idea would be making Christmas cookies for him, than decorate them with reasons why you love him on the cookie. You could also make a scrapbook and put in all the funny moments and inside jokes you guys share with one another.
If you want to buy him a simple gift, buy him that watch or wallet you wanted to get him. Then buy a big tin can and fill it up with a bunch of candies and chocolates and put the watch or wallet on top of all the candies and chocolates.
alright well i'm 90% sure i want to break up with my boyfriend.. but idk what im goin to say.. he broke up with me last week and he got his friend to call me and say "john wants to break up with you. bye" (he asked me out the next day, which is how we are going out again). so i was maybe thinking i could get my friend to call him and say the exact same thign to see how he feels! or i might say "hey i think we should just take break from each other and just let things smooth out" because we got in a fight earlier today.. and hes just too dramatic and he always brings a lot of unneeded drama. so someone please help me. how should i do it?? and should i do it on the phone?
It would be best to break up with him face-to-face and do it yourself. It'll show him that you're the stronger one and you aren't going to get your friend(s) to do your dirty work for you. Just say something simple like, "I really don't feel like we connect and I would like to break up and see other people."
my best guy friend says that he wants to have sex with me before we graduate. we're sophmores. i dont mind because i care about him because he is one of my best friends but if i have sex with him will it ruin our friendship?
It depends, most of the time sex will ruin a friendship or will make the friendship harder. My good friend and I had sex once and we hardly even talk now. It might be different with you, though. Sex might not even do anything to the friendship you have with him. Just make sure you are 100% ready; don't do anything you don't want to do.
it would be awesome to get like one of those really expensive flat irons for christmas, but my mom has no clue about that stuff. i have really short, curly hair, and my flatty doesn't do that good of a job. i need on of those where it would take me 10-20 minutes to straighten. any suggestions?
I suggest the flat iron "Cricket." It's an amazing straightener, it works great. The price is high, though; 150$. But it's WELL worth the money.
Okay, if a girl is under 16 and a guy is 18, is it a legal for them to date? Someone told me that it is as long as you don't do anything with them but someone else told me that you can't date at all until the girl is 16. What's really legal?
It's fine for them to be dating, as long as they aren't having sex or doing anything sexual. It's legal to have sex if you have parental consent, though.
I'm getting a CHI flat iron for Christmas, however I'm not sure which one to ask for.
I like the largeness of the 2" Turbo Chi because I have alot of hair, however a store is having a sale on the colord Jewel Chi. I'm sure there are many more types of Chi's but I was just wondering which one you guys would most recommend.
$150 max.
I suggest the flat iron "Cricket." It's an amazing straightener, it works great. The price is high, though; 150$. But it's WELL worth the money.
What hair straightener would you MOST recommend?
Not just a CHI because everyone has one; I mean a really good quality flat iron.
A Tourmaline? A Metropolis?
And if you do recommend a CHI, what make of it? The turbo? The original?
Thanks so much.
I suggest the flat iron "Cricket." It's an amazing straightener, it works great. The price is high, though; 150$. But it's WELL worth the money.
in what grade do you have the class sex ed?
It depends since every school is different. But while I was in school we started sex ed classes in grade 8.
i have thick, curly hair. its hard to style my hair sometimes. do you have any ideas on hair styles for me & if you do, can you tell me how to do them?
I have really thick and curly hair, too. But I tend to straighten it as often as I can. You can get your hair thinned out a bit from a hairdresser. It'll make your hair way easier to style and such. I always get my hair thinned out, especially if I'm going to leave it curly. It makes it so much easier. I highly suggest that.
For some styles, you could simply put mousse and hair spray in your hair. It'll leave your hair curly, but it wouldn't leave it all puffy. Also, putting your hair up in a high pony tail looks really cute, or a messy bun with some curls hanging down. Haft up haft down also looks gorgeous with curly hair. Anything really, just experiment with your hair and some hair styles.
is acne a hudge turn off.. or does it realy matter.. im wondering
15/m
Everyone has this problem in their teens, it's nothing to be worried about. You'll grow out of it as you get old. But If someone likes you, they're going to like you whether you have acne or not. It's the inside that counts the most.
Why is it sometimes when I'm on my period that my er, thing down there is REALLY sore? I've had my period since I was 11 and I'm now 16; I'm also a virgin.
You're normal. A lot of girls feel pain "down there" while on their period. It's probably because you have a heavy flow, nothing to be worried about though.
Oohk... When I was younger I felt discomfort in my vagina. So, as stupid as it was I stuck something up it, when I pulled it out there was blood on it. Now, my periods are off. Sometimes I never get them. Sometimes they come for like a day. Other times they come for 12 days. So.. whats wrong? Was it something I did when I stuck something up?
Since I'm not a doctor, I don't know if it is something you did or if it is normal. If you really want to know what is wrong and you're really worried, I suggest going to see your doctor.
When I was little my father had sexually molested me....And more though I do not want to say it,You get what I mean.I'm 18 now and I have never had real sex.
Everytime I masturbate I cannot find the "Vagina hole"And my boyfriend knows this.I am wondering if in fact my cherry would be popped...I remember what happened hurting but I never bled and my boyfriend doesnt want to have sex with me if its not popped because he doesnt want to hurt me.I used to ride horses so I am thinking that maybe that could have done it.But how would it not be popped?Doesn't it always bleed?
It doesn't always bleed. Since every girl is different, it's going to be different when it comes to getting your "cherry" popped. Some girls bleed a lot, some only bleed a little while some don't even bleed at all. I suggest going to the doctors and finding out. Other than that you really don't have any way of knowing if your "cherry" has been popped or not.
how can i get a guys attention without trying too hard?
thx
While you're around him act the way you usually do while with other friends. Laugh at his jokes and smile a lot. Be flirty with him, but not too out there. You should always be yourself around someone. If he likes you because of it, than that is great. If he doesn't, don't change for anyone; no guy is worth changing youself for. There's more guys out there than him. You just have to get back up and start looking again.