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how to end it..
alright well i'm 90% sure i want to break up with my boyfriend.. but idk what im goin to say.. he broke up with me last week and he got his friend to call me and say "john wants to break up with you. bye" (he asked me out the next day, which is how we are going out again). so i was maybe thinking i could get my friend to call him and say the exact same thign to see how he feels! or i might say "hey i think we should just take break from each other and just let things smooth out" because we got in a fight earlier today.. and hes just too dramatic and he always brings a lot of unneeded drama. so someone please help me. how should i do it?? and should i do it on the phone?
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i had the same problem! ok well i this might sound bad but i think you might need to do it over the phone and lots of other people might not do it either. but i did it and the reason i did it over the phone was because i didnt want to see his face and tell him in person because i was too scared to so i did it over the phone. plus when you said this "hey i think we should just take break from each other and just let things smooth out" i think thats good to say to him. but then when he gets dramatic or whatever you should tell him that you still kinda have feelings for him(if you still do) but just want to be friends and so. plus if you have AIM and he also has a screenname you could do that if you dont want to hear his voice and stuff. becuz i broke-up with my boyfriend this morning from AIM. and he took it ok. so i hoped i helped!
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It would be best to break up with him face-to-face and do it yourself. It'll show him that you're the stronger one and you aren't going to get your friend(s) to do your dirty work for you. Just say something simple like, "I really don't feel like we connect and I would like to break up and see other people."
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Do the same thing he did...
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just be like sup. you have a small penis, its over.
he'll understand.
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do itface to face that shows him that your a bigger person.and just say hey look things aint working out the way i wanted them to so i think we should see other people.
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Yes, definitely have your friend call him, but have your friend say the "take a break" thing that you said.
No need to just be a copycat back at him It could be cute, but no need to stoop to his level of drama.
Luyah
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do it the way you think he should have done it.
and no i really think its bad taste to break up over the phone, face your demons.
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